Infertility

One year TTC

New Year's Day will be one year since we started TTC.  Cycle 13 started today.  I know that for many on this board 1 year is not very long, but I'm having a really hard time with this 'anniversary' - and the fact that I will be the only non-preg girl at a party on new year's.  Dh and I are starting testing in January and while I'm glad to start this process, I'm just really, really bitter that we have to go through this when it's been so easy for everyone else I know IRL (obviously not for the ladies on here!) I'm also feeling really guilty for being bitter when I have so much else to be thankful for.  Anyways, thanks for letting me vent...

Re: One year TTC

  • ((Hugs))

    I had to spend Christmas day with my SIL who is 39 weeks.  It was hard.  But you are moving in the right direction:)

  • Don't feel bad - all of those "anniversaries" are so difficult. I had my one year anniversary back on my bday in April. It was a really hard day. And, we are in the same boat - everyone IRL have had it so easy. It's very hard not to be bitter. Just keep truckin....you'll get there and we all will too! It's good you're being proactive and testing - hopefully, you will find there is something "easy" to fix.

     

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  • Keep your head up. We're only a couple cycles ahead of you, it's hard, but hopefully it will be your turn soon.
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  • thanks ladies... at least I'll be able to drink on new years Smile
  • It's been a year of Fertility treatments for me too mid Jan...sucks doesn't it...

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  • I am sorry. ?It is hard to hit those "milestones". ?I hope it is your turn soon!
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  • I'm sorry. I'm on cycle 11 now and already dreading hitting the year mark. I guess in a way I am "lucky" in that I know quite a few people IRL who've struggled with IF. Hang in there!
  • i'm sorry and understand how you feel.  our one year "anniversary" won't even be until march but we started seeking answers in november and will start our first round of drugs in january.  that first visit was really hard, admitting that something might be wrong.  it was even harder at a subsequent visit when i found out that i'm having problems ovulating.  but this board is a great source of support. take it step by step and keep your chin up.
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