Late Term and Child Loss

There's a woman with her

Baby in the waiting room. And it's breaking my heart. I feel so selfish for being angry and upset by this, but I can't stop crying. Hearing the LO just hurts so badly.

I feel like we are surrounded by healthy couples whose journey is
just beginning; meanwhile ours is ending, much, much earlier than I ever could have anticipated.
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5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional.  5 BFPs.  My rainbow arrived 10/15/14.
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.

Re: There's a woman with her




    I'm really sorry this is happening to you right now.  Is there anyway you can maybe wait outside for your appointment?  If anything go to the reception desk and give them your cell number and tell them to call you when it's time and that you'll be waiting outside. 

    Every time I had to go to my doc's office and there were babies there, I'd lose it.  I think it's normal.  I wish none of us had to go through this.




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    I am so sorry, that is so extremely difficult. I hope the day gets better for you.
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  • Babies crying is one of the hardest things for me to hear, too. I am so sorry you have to deal with this today. (((Hugs)))
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  • Hearing babies crying and seeing other pregnant women is so very hard. My dr too was ok with me waiting outside or entering through a back door. Definitely ask if this is an option moving forward for your follow up appointments as well. Wish I could give you a hug.
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  • i'm so sorry that you're going through this...after we lost our daughter, and I had to go back in to see my OB last week, I could hardly stand it. It just all seems so...unfair! I understand where you're coming from. You're allowed to feel that way. It's okay to not be okay. 
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  • OSUWifey09OSUWifey09 member
    edited August 2013

    You are not selfish - your reaction is completely normal, given what you're going through. I remember the early months. I couldn't be near babies at all [even my own godson, who was born this past December]. It took eight months for me to be able to wait in the waiting room with other new parents and parents-to-be; it hurt too much, and I didn't want to break down and have to deal with the "what the crap is wrong with her?" looks.

    I know you posted this earlier today, but maybe in the future, you can ask to wait outside? Or show up right at your appointment time and wait in a hallway/your car if your doctor is behind? I'm so sorry you're facing this. :( *hugs*


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