Late Term and Child Loss
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There's a woman with her
golfingdarwinfish
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Baby in the waiting room. And it's breaking my heart. I feel so selfish for being angry and upset by this, but I can't stop crying. Hearing the LO just hurts so badly.
I feel like we are surrounded by healthy couples whose journey is
just beginning; meanwhile ours is ending, much, much earlier than I ever could have anticipated.
I feel like we are surrounded by healthy couples whose journey is
just beginning; meanwhile ours is ending, much, much earlier than I ever could have anticipated.
Loss Blog (finally updated)
5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional. 5 BFPs. My rainbow arrived 10/15/14.
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
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Re: There's a woman with her
***SIGGY WARNING***
I'm really sorry this is happening to you right now. Is there anyway you can maybe wait outside for your appointment? If anything go to the reception desk and give them your cell number and tell them to call you when it's time and that you'll be waiting outside.
Every time I had to go to my doc's office and there were babies there, I'd lose it. I think it's normal. I wish none of us had to go through this.
{{HUGS}}
In memory of Corbin Scott 10/28/11-12/3/11. Heaven got another angel the night you left this world behind Heaven got a little better the day it took you away from me Missing you tonight, see you again sometime For now I'll close my eyes and dream of heaven tonight I'll love you forever I'll like you for always Now and Forever My baby you'll be
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I am so sorry, that is so extremely difficult. I hope the day gets better for you.
You are not selfish - your reaction is completely normal, given what you're going through. I remember the early months. I couldn't be near babies at all [even my own godson, who was born this past December]. It took eight months for me to be able to wait in the waiting room with other new parents and parents-to-be; it hurt too much, and I didn't want to break down and have to deal with the "what the crap is wrong with her?" looks.
I know you posted this earlier today, but maybe in the future, you can ask to wait outside? Or show up right at your appointment time and wait in a hallway/your car if your doctor is behind? I'm so sorry you're facing this.