Pregnant after a Loss

WTF? - A vent

So our fridge (well freezer stopped making ice) so I called to have someone come out and look at it.  I totally spaced that we have our u/s pics on the fridge door.  The repair guy goes "is this your little one?"  Yep.  "How far along are you?"  24 weeks (basically).  So I'm sitting here just waiting for the "is this your first?" question.  Nope.  Instead he tells me about how his cousin's cousin just had a baby born sleeping at 8 months gestation.  All I was l thinking was "why are you telling a complete stranger, let alone someone who's pregnant this?"  Yes.  I know it happens and more often then most people understand.  I just thought it was extremely odd that he shared that with me.  I ended up telling him about Corbin but I'm still in shock by why he decided to share that information with me - before I said a word about my loss.  It's just odd.  Just had to share this.


In memory of Corbin Scott 10/28/11-12/3/11. Heaven got another angel the night you left this world behind Heaven got a little better the day it took you away from me Missing you tonight, see you again sometime For now I'll close my eyes and dream of heaven tonight I'll love you forever I'll like you for always Now and Forever My baby you'll be

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Re: WTF? - A vent

  • That is weird and inappropriate, why in the world would you tell someone who's pregnant something so sad and scary :( *HUGS* sorry he did that
    BFP#1 9/28/2012 - EDD 6/3/2013 - MMC discovered 11/21/2012 @ 12w2d - D&C 11/24/2012
    BFP#2 4/4/2013 - Born at 37w3d on 11/26/13 via emergency c-section
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  • Ugh, how inappropriate, I'm sorry
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  • Wow---so sorry you had to go through that....odd conversation from the repair guy! :(

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  • What an idiot!!!
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