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Drugstore Awkwardness - mini rant

This is the first time anything like this has happened to me........ I refilled my prescription for prenatal vitamins at my local, Mom-and-Pop drugstore and went in to pick them up today. The woman at the counter is fairly new, as I've only seen her a handful of times there. When she came back with my bag, she asked if I was picking up the meds (I was picking up others too) for myself today. Thinking nothing of it, I said yes. She then turned to me with the brightest smile on her face and said, "Well, congratulations!" I took a deep breath, realizing what she meant, and said, "No, not yet." She looked at me confused. Silly me, I thought our discussion was over! She then said in a low voice, "But those are prenatal vitamins in there." I told her in a curt, controlled voice, "Yes, but not yet." She smiled and said, "Well then this is an early congratulations." And that's supposed to make me feel better? Awkward! So when someone is picking up a scrip for Valtrex, do you say, "Ooo, sorry you have herpes," when you hand them their medication? I don't know why I even bothered to engage in that conversation. No one should have to explain themselves. Ugh!
Me: 29; DH: 35
Married 7/19/09; TTC since 3/12
S/A: low volume, count considered borderline
CD3 B/W & U/S: AMH = .22, FSH = 11; HSG: all clear
Dx: DOR
4/16/13: IUI #1 = BFN
5/10/13: IUI #2 = BFP, m/c 5w5d
6/28/13: IUI #3 = BFN
*Taking break in July*
Starting IVF for August

Re: Drugstore Awkwardness - mini rant

  • Not cool! People are too much! Similar situation happened to me once buying HPT. The guy just would not let it go. I should've said, "listen, we've been trying for 4 years, so I'm sure this silk be negative just like all the hundreds before have been, but I really want to drink this weekend so I'm just clearing my conscience before I go because I still believe in miracles"! People just don't know when to stop!

     

     


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    That's definitely a little obnoxious...I hope she felt like she put her foot in her mouth.

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  • That is really uninformed! My doctor had me taking prenatal vitamins ever since I turned 25 because they are perfectly formulated to include everything a woman my age needs. Soooooo, seriously?!?
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  • What people can be so dumb sometimes. I'm sure she "meant" well but still!!! I get all my injects and hormonal suppositories from mail order but use the target pharmacy for my vitamins and bcp. I'm sure they were super confused by my oxymoron pick up. I'm in the medical field and the first thing they teach us is to never assume a pregnancy is a "good" thing so we always leave it open ended until the patient gives us more info. I'm sorry that happened to you.

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  • I get my vitamins from The Vitamin Store, and they are always without a doubt on the tip top shelf and only accessible by a ladder. The last time I bought them, the young guy looks at me, and goes "are you pregnant?" I almost throttled him. I shot back "nope, and it's wrong to assume that anyone buying these is actually pregnant", and he looked me over, and said, "we'll, I didn't think you looked pregnant, so congratulate whoever these are for". I almost called the company to complain, but then I got a hold of myself and realized that people say horribly stupid things, and perhaps one day I'll think it's funny. It's still not funny.
    BFP #1 - chemical pregnancy, natural miscarriage at 7 weeks on 2/11/12 BFP #2 - u/s at 8 weeks showed a tiny fetal pole measuring at 6 weeks, heart rate slow at 94bpm. Natural miscarriage a few days later on 4/15/12 August 2012- Diagnosed with pancreatic divisum, September - ERCP w/stent placement. Fingers crossed this was the issue! Doc gave the go-ahead to start trying again. BFP #3 - Chemical pregnancy ending a few days after Thanksgiving 2012. Clearly my pancreas was not the issue. Doc told us to try one more time. BFP #4 - Chemical pregnancy ending in January 2013. Now I'm pissed. February- meeting with RE. Test results show I have a low egg reserve and DH has severely messed up sperm. Docs are quite confused as to how we're getting pregnant to begin with. Let the IVF games begin!! April - stim time!! 7R, 6F via ICSI, 5 made it to day 5, 3 look "good enough" to be sent for PGS testing. We are now the proud owners? Parents? Of 2 healthy frozen embryos. June - ugh. Lupron. So much Lupron. And Aygestin, and Estrogen, and Progesterone suppositories. Things are going in to my body every way possible! July 25- scheduled for our first FET. Aaand huge fail. All of the estrogen gave my pancreas a good old fashioned hissy fit. Long story short, moving on to gestational carrier.
  • What she said is really unprofessional.  She shouldn't comment about any prescriptions you are having filled.

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  • What a moron. I had a cashier at a grocery store comment on the PNV once too. The look I gave him cut off all further conversation.

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  • Grrrr! I had the most awkward situation buying a HPT too. The obnoxious looking immature guy at the counter rang it up, and I handed over my money. Now here I am, wedding ring on hand, husband standing next to me, quite obviously (in my opinion) appearing over 30, and this cashier decided to tell us a joke about "going too fast and having accidents in cars causes kids". So annoying! DH will never go back into that Rite-Aid. 
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    BFP#1 (totally a wonderful surprise)- 3/10/11. IUFD 6/25/11. 
    TTC since 8/2011.
    BFP#2- 11/1/11. EDD 7/6/12. Blighted ovum 12/1/11.

    New OBGYN 12/2012- CD3 labs, SA, HSG normal. 
    First RE appt 1/16/2013. Unexplained infertility. Lap planned. 

    12/2012- Clomid 50mg + TI= BFN 
    1/2013- Clomid 50mg + TI= BFN.

     Lap 2/11/2013- Removed endo. 

    3/2013- Clomid + IUI= BFN
    4/2013- Clomid + IUI= BFN
    5/2013- Clomid + IUI= BFN

    June 2013- Time for a new RE!

    July 2013- We're in Shared Risk! Love my new RE!
    August 2013- IVF#1- 14 R, 11F, transferred 1 perfect blast, 5 day 5 frosties= BFN.
    Sept 2013- Let's get ready for FET October 7th ish!< transfer 2 embies 10/11/13.......BFP 10/18/13!!!!/div>

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  • Some people just dont think. It doesnt make it right at all. Sorry you had to go through that.

    I had an appt yesterday to see if I responded to the meds, my best friend texted me "call me tonight after you get preggers! haha!" Um... its not funny. Im not "preggers." Im going through infertility treatments. Think people think.

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    Femara June 2013: No repsonse. Serophene July 2013: No repsonse

    Follistim August 2013: 12 follicles, 4 mature, IUI, and a BFN. 

    April 2014: Lost 30lbs, got my thyroid under control. Started IVF 

    May: BFP! EDD 1/6/2015 Heatbeat 167!

    Now: Canyon James born 12/30/14 at 6:21pm via emergency c section. 9 lbs 19 1/2 inches

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