2 weeks and she's movin' out!

karatechrissy

BM discovered that boyfriend of 3ish months, that she just moved in with 2 weeks ago, has been a cheatin' on her. I don't know the full deets but she put him on BLAST on FB. She hasn't learned to not air her dirty laundry on FB yet. 

Not sure what the status is now, but her mom said yesterday that she asked for help to move all her stuff back IN to her parents house. 

The ever crazy tornado that is BM's life... I'm so happy I'm not her. 

Hopeforthebest

She treated her parents so badly when she left this last time didn't she. No notice or anything. Not that I wish your SS any ill will, but I wish her parents would let her sink sometimes.

CFjo2010

My God, what a frigging trainwreck.  When is she going to grow up and start worrying about her children instead of herself?

karatechrissy

They won't for the sake of ss and the new baby. They threaten all the time, but never follow through. I can't say I blame them... but I do agree, also... It's a hard line. For all I know she has forgiven the dude. It has been a full 24 hours now. Her decisions are erratic at best and she rarely follows through with things. 

twister22

Ugh. Can she stop being selfish for two seconds and put SS first?

Holly_1007

I wish her parents would let the kids move in but not her.  Those kids deserve a stable environment.  Have you and DH contemplated full custody? Hopefully you are still documenting her erratic behavior. 

karatechrissy

We document, but it has been WAY worse than this before. This is just her being dumb. When it was bad we went for full custody. CPS wouldn't do anything and literally told my husband on the phone that until SS was in the hospital, they wouldn't do anything. At least she isn't putting SS in the situations she was before with Super Douche ex H. Now she is just acting like a teenager. But, moving SS back and forth. I was just told though that she forgave this guy, and isn't moving out. She is 'going to give him another chance'. Okay... whatever.

bebe11

I can't say I am surprised about your BM.. I hope she freaking grows up for the sake of her kids!

Ps - your etsy shop is great

karatechrissy

bebe11 said:

I can't say I am surprised about your BM.. I hope she freaking grows up for the sake of her kids!

Ps - your etsy shop is great

I'm not either, honestly. But I did have higher hopes.

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