nbjenni

ShanJosh777

Are you still on?  I just saw your page from much earlier today and read your response to that other marriage problems post.  I had no idea you were going through this.  It does suck!!

I just wanted to say, if you ever want to talk, please email me at shannonlmell at gmail dot com.  I'm not on the boards much anymore, but I'm sure we could relate to what each other is going through.  I cannot even imagine having twins, I am barely getting by with just DS and lots of help from my family.

Hang in there and big hugs. 

nbjenni

Yeah I'm still here. These boards help keep me sane - I'm too busy to actually go out with my "real" friends. My family helps me out a lot as well. My mom watches the girls while I'm at work (teacher) and anytime I need a break they are here for me.

ShanJosh777

What is your living arrangement if you don't mind me asking?  I am staying with my parents right now.  Obviously it's not ideal but I don't know what I am going to do.... part of me wants to fight for my house, but part of me likes being here for all the support.  I don't know what I would do in that stupid house all alone.

nbjenni

Well, the house/deed are both in my name and he's proving himself a deadbeat, so he wouldn't be able to live here by himself. Not saying that I can afford it either, my parents are really helping me with it. They live 5 minutes down the road, and the night I left him we stayed there for 3 days. But he also left the house to stay with his parents, so I moved back in. I hear ya on the support - it was so nice having either my parents or sister helping me at any time during the day. But by the same token, two babies in my childhood bedroom is NOT ideal.

So, yeah, I'll be fighting to keep the house and ALL the stuff in it. Everything bought during our marriage was using my name and credit, so he can either give me what I want or owe me a heck of a lot of money.