Infertility

Can I vent about my uber-fertile friend??

She doesn't know about our BFP yet and doesn't know I tested early, but she told my MIL I just needed to POAS because if it's yes, it's yes and that's all there is to it. ?She says she was told (by her OB that there are no false positives). ?

UGH. ?Stuff like that ticks me off - mainly because I wish I could feel the same way. ?Boo.?

Re: Can I vent about my uber-fertile friend??

  • simple but silly answer.... uneducated people.... dont know! lol

    When people know little to nothing about infertility they just compare it to a situation they were once in....When people give me advice I dont even let it go into one ear!

    good luck with that one :)

     

  • Ah to be fertile and so naive....

    how would she explain my last CP??

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  • She even knows that I had a CP! ?She's one of those people that isn't super supportive - I tried to say something to her regarding my lining or something as to why I thought we weren't successful, she just said, Yeah, I don't know what that means, and left it at that. ?

  • I have a friend at work who TTC for 4 months before getting pg and compares that "hard time in her life" to what I am going through.  Yeah...I have decided not to discuss these issues with her anymore. :)  Vent away! Sorry about your less than supportive friend. :(
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  • Ask her to explain my C/P also....I'd love to know why I'm not 4 months PG after my "positive" test.
    Lilypie - Personal pictureLilypie First Birthday tickers So far we've done: Clomid Challenge/HSG/SA 1 Unmedicated IUI 2 Clomid IUIs 2 Femara IUIs 1 injectable IUI -2nd Femara IUI resulted in a CP (Beta was 16) -Another CP in May. (Beta 19 Prog 13) -Ectopic Pg - (Beta 27, 67, 430, 850) - methotrexate shot & biopsy -Forced 3 month Break 1/4/10 - Uterine septum removed by Hysteroscopy 1/18/10 - Told I have inflammation in uterus. 6 weeks of antibiotics. 2/27/10 - Another confirmed ectopic. 2 shots of methotrexate after an ER visit. Currently doing acupuncture and trying to lose weight. TTC since 3/07 -
  • I have a friend who has had two cps and is now pg again all in 5 months time. We have been ttc number two since delivering number one, because "its easier to have the second one once the first one comes along" did you know?!? I have to remind myself everyday, that while she wants to  be understanding, she can not possibly be, and I would not want a friend, or anyone else for that matter to know what it feels like to struggle with IF. It simply sucks.

    I also hate extra unnecessary advice, Oh, all I have to do is put my hieny in the air after sex. . . geesh, I could have saved a year, and a ton of heartache if I had only known that was the secret to conception.
     

  • That's really ignorant.  Ugh.  People need to learn to keep their mouths quiet.   DH got in touch with an old friend of his on Facebook recently.  DH was telling him about our struggles to get pg; TTC for 2 plus years, the treatments, and our m/c.  This friend of his said how he and his wife really struggled to get pg and it took them 4 months to get pg.  His friend said he understood.  Um, no you don't understand. 4 months is average. 

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