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Annoyed with coirker

She keeps pushing that I need to talk to our boss about my plans for maternity leave.  I keep saying that if he doesn't bring it up then I'm waiting until after the first of the year.
I leave at 4pm, she doesn't leave until 5pm.  Yesterday after I had left she brought it up to him (I think again).  It's not really any of her business what I want to do and what he lets me do.  I don't know why she thinks it's her place to be talking to him about it.  AND.....I've told her before when she has asked to not say anything!  Ugh

Re: Annoyed with coirker

  • wow, that is really annoying, that'd royally piss me off, who is she to get involved with your plans for maternity leave?  She really should mind her own business, talk about a NOSEY POSEY!!! 
  • this is NONE of her business so why does she feel the constant need to meddle in your business.  when you are ready to approach your boss then you will, and it's only a week or so away anyways.  i just can't beleive the balls on some people and how they like to meddle in other peope's lives.
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  • That is just weird.Indifferent
  • Glad ya'll agree with me cause I'm kind of pissed about it.  If I hadn't said anything, ok fine, annoying but whatever.  But she asked and I specifically told her NOT to say anything...yet she does it anyway.  Why does she feel it's her place?  She's not my boss.  She's not HR.  ugh
  • I'm impressed you are only kinda pissed... 
  • imageCJB8:
    I'm impressed you are only kinda pissed... 

    LOL.....she'd probably be getting more of my anger but I'm pissed about something else at the moment so that's got more of my focus!  LOL

  • imageJBSugar:

    imageCJB8:
    I'm impressed you are only kinda pissed... 

    LOL.....she'd probably be getting more of my anger but I'm pissed about something else at the moment so that's got more of my focus!  LOL

     

    haha, gotcha, you have to prioritize and focus the anger energy...  This girl reminds me of a former coworker of mine, always getting in my business, if you can, you need to keep her at a distance and not give her info.  My former coworker, when we were having the issues, told me that if God wanted me to have a baby, he'd give me one.  So, after that and a few other comments, I created ALOT of space.  It kinda helped although she just started bugging another coworker for details on my infertility, like I said, NOSEY POSEY!!! 

  • haha, gotcha, you have to prioritize and focus the anger energy...  This girl reminds me of a former coworker of mine, always getting in my business, if you can, you need to keep her at a distance and not give her info.  My former coworker, when we were having the issues, told me that if God wanted me to have a baby, he'd give me one.  So, after that and a few other comments, I created ALOT of space.  It kinda helped although she just started bugging another coworker for details on my infertility, like I said, NOSEY POSEY!!! 

     

    That would be difficult to do since there are only the 2 of us in the office besides the boss but I get your point.  She's working from home today so we've been emailing about her discussion with the boss and I told her that now that she's already talked to him I feel like I have no choice but to bring it up to him earlier than I had planned.  We'll see what she says to that.  hmph

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