on the fence...How did you decide?

zacook

we currently have 2 dc and have always said we wanted 2 but now that we have 2 girls, dh really wants a boy.. we know that it could be another girl and we would love that too... but I just dont know if I want more.. how did you know you were done??

breezee_bean

I would LOVE to have three, but DH has always said two.  The deciding factor for DH is that he wants to devote as much time to his children as he can. 

elm1032004

I just knew that I was done at 2 kids.......Even if my second had been another girl I was done.  I think you just need to figure out how many kids you want, and go with that.  If you guys want a third and you can afford a third etc etc then go for it.  If you aren't sure then wait a little while and decide.  You could also not try, but not prevent and see what happens.