Left my husband

nbjenni

The girls and I left last night. I have posted in the past about issues that my husband and I had while I was pregnant, especially with his anger. Things changed momentarily when the girls were born, but they soon regressed back to the old ways. I actually caught him on video threatening my family, stating he was going to pit the girls against me, and that he didn't love Audrey.

I am extremely exhausted. The drama all went down around 10:30 last night, and then I had to file a police report which took two hours. My parents came over and helped me pack stuff for the girls and take it to their house. They were both pretty upset, especially Audrey, and took until 3 am to get to sleep. Now I'm at work b/c I have no days off.

irish1114

omg, I'm so sorry!  I hope everything works out for you & the girls.

jenn_darrin1515

OMG...I am sure that was a difficult decision and a difficult night for you and your girls last night...but it definetly sounds like it was the right decision for all of you...I can't imagine what you have gone through...you and your baby girls will be in my thoughts...

khertzig

I don't usually post very often, but your message broke my heart.  I am so sorry for you and your girls, what a horrible situation.  I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you...I will keep you and your girls in my thoughts and prayers.  I only wish I could give you some of my vacation days to be with your family...

jasonlovessara

Oh I am so sorry that you are going through this!  My heart brakes for you. You are doing the right thing for your beautiful girls,,, you and your girls will be in my prayers

ncsubride

Oh honey I am so sorry you are dealing with this, I am sending you lots of hugs for you and your girls.

Kerri

doublewhammy

I'm sorry you and your family are going through this...I'm sure it was a very tough decision, but just remember that you did what was best for you and the girls!

sweater

Is this MUD like someone did to me last night???

soxfan812

I'm so sorry you are dealing with this- it sounds like you did the right thing for you and your girls but I imagine that no decision feels good in that situation.  Take care of yourself and your girls- we'll all be thinking of you and praying for you.

BabyDavison

I'm thinking of you tons and sending you big hugs!  This must be so difficult but good for you for being brave enough to put the girls first. Take care of yourself!

Heather.D

Jennifer, I am so sorry.  I've been wondering how you are making out. Please let me know if I can do anything.

nbjenni

sweater:

Is this MUD like someone did to me last night???

Nope, wish it were. I just caught your posts and that sucks that someone is crazy enough to do that to you and your family.

quickstepstar

I am so sorry! You are so brave for doing the right thing for yourself and the girls! I hope things get better for you in the new year. Please let us know if we can help in any way!!! You and your girls will be in my thoughts.

mwilson44

Oh sweetie!  I am so sorry.  I have been thinking about you and the girls for a while and was wondering if things were better since you had not posted about it in a while.  I am so sorry that you're going through this.  If there is anything at all you need...let me know.  I know I live no where near you, but I could send something your way even if it's for a smile. 

lutzcowgirlie

I'm so sorry to hear that. You just keep doing what is best for your girls and it will all work out.

sweater

nbjenni:

sweater:

Is this MUD like someone did to me last night???

Nope, wish it were. I just caught your posts and that sucks that someone is crazy enough to do that to you and your family.

Sorry...I just have a hard time believing any posts on here right now of people leaving their husbands, eating disorders, neglecting children and worse... I don't remember any conversations about your husband having anger issues.

How can we be sure this isn't some psycho mocking your life too???

copwife08

oh I can not imagine what you are going through right now. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. Take care of yourself and those beautiful little girls.

FloF9

I'm so sorry you're going through this.  I wish there was something I could say but ..... I'll be praying for you and your girls.  HUGS!!!!

jpowell3

Even though it was hard, it was the right thing to do. I wish I had your strength to leave my son's father when he was at an earlier age. We always hope it gets better but it takes a while to realize it will be better --WITHOUT him! I am glad that everyone is safe and that you have a supportive family and that 2009 will be a wonderful year for you. I will say an extra prayer for you tonight! 

ImRonBurgundy?

I am so very sorry for everything you are going through. ?I will have you in my thoughts and prayers. ?I'm so glad you have family around to help.?

JBSugar

I'm so sorry honey.  Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help!

cands

I'm so sorry.

tripletmom

I am so sorry.

Mrs. Destructo

I, too, have been wondering how you are doing ever since your posts before the girls were born. I'm so sorry it came to this. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help.

nbjenni

Thanks, ladies. He had made several appointments to see a counselor about his anger issues, but something "more important" always came up. I just hate that all of this is happening now. Today is my sister's birthday (we're stationed in her bedroom) and Christmas is next week. I love his parents and I know this is going to be hard on them. But I can't stick around with him for that reason alone. Something has changed with him and he is not the same man I met and fell in love with.

malex

My prayers and thoughts are with you.  All the best to you and your beautiful girls.

mmbench

I'm so sorry - try and take care of yourself the best you can.

pea-kay

{{{{{hugs}}}}}

good for you. that does not sound like the kind of atmosphere you want to raise your sweet girls in. i'm so sorry it had to come to this, how awful. but you are so brave and so courageous to make this kind of difficult decision. we're all here for you!

gymrat

I am so sorry. ((HUGS))

MrsARC1105

OMG, my heart is breaking for you.  I wish I was closer to help out.  I will be praying for you and we are here for you.

sweater

So I've dug around everywhere with your profile, blog etc etc.

This DOES seem to be you. I'm sorry...I was just so protective of you that I am on the defense for all you girls on here right now.

With that said...my god jen...I'm SO SORRY. I wish I could run to you right now.

GretchenlovesMichael

i am so sorry...

april062604

oh my goodness. ?i'm so sorry that you and the girls have to go through this. ?my sister made the very difficult decision to leave her husband a few years ago...and looking back she says "it's so much easier to swim alone then have him drag me under". ?she had an infant at the time too. ?i hope and pray that things get easier for you. ?if there's anything i can do to help, please let me know. ?it sounds silly b/c i live so far away, but if i could help i would. ?stay strong. ?you'll be fine and so will the girls.

ChiBride2007

What a tough situation. Sounds like you've been very strong to make what must have been a hard decision. You and your girls will do great. Hugs.

april062604

i tried to reply and my computer erased everything. ?please let me know if there is anything i can do to help you and the babies. ?i know i'm far away and the offer sounds silly...but if there is anything, anything, i can do, please let me know. ?i hope and pray that things get easier for you. you're in my thoughts. ?i'm so sorry that you have to deal with ?this.

CMW

(((BIG HUG))) I am so very sorry.  I am so glad you have your parents there for support.  Please know that you and the girls will be in my thoughts and prayers.  Hang in there.

Christine

nbjenni

sweater:

So I've dug around everywhere with your profile, blog etc etc.

This DOES seem to be you. I'm sorry...I was just so protective of you that I am on the defense for all you girls on here right now.

With that said...my god jen...I'm SO SORRY. I wish I could run to you right now.

No worries. You've had a pretty tough time w/internet stalkers recently! I did put my blog on private for right now - will probably put it back in a few days.

mrskimmieD

I am so sorry this is happening to you and the girls.  I hope you and the girls can find some closure.  ((HUGS))

FaeryStarGazer

Oh Jenni... I am so sorry. You are totally doing the right thing. I have been wondering about your relationship for a long time too- I remember you posting that you were headed to the big D. I'm sorry he is such a selfish, stupid ***. Looks like Brad Pitt can have you all to himself now *your blog had me rolling last night*.

KIMMIE1538

I'm so sorry.  I do remember the posts from before your girls were born, but hadn't seen anything since (not that I'm on all that much anymore) so I kinda assumed things got better.   I'm so sorry he's back to his old ways.   I think you're doing the right thing.   You're a strong woman, and that is no kind of environment to raise your girls in.    It is possible to do it, it will be hard, but not as emotionally tiring as it would have been to live with a man like that in your life.   

doubleblessings08

I am so sorry this is happening. You are doing the best for you and your girls. I will be praying for your family. {HUGS}