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Tested this morning, last test

It's now been 13 days since our BC failed and if I had normal AF's, she'd be about 2-3 days late, give or take.

But since I'm nursing, my normal cycle is out the window.

I got a BFN (thank goodness) this morning at 4 am.

So I guess this means I'm officially not pregnant?  Even though AF is a no show, that's pretty normal when you're EBF, even if you've already had a super duper light one, right?

Someome tell me I'm not pregnant so I can go on about my life please!

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Re: Tested this morning, last test

  • I didn't get AF the entire time I was BFing - I think that's pretty normal.

     

  • I've been following your story and didn't realize that you were bf'ing. I had  a tiny bit of break through bleeding while I bf'd (for 11 months). I did not get a full fledged period during that time and even the tiny bit of bleeding that I did have was not consistant. I didn't end up getting my full on period until a month or so after I stopped bf'ing completely.

    In my experience, I would say you are definitely NOT pregnant.

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  • I'm gonna say it's pretty certain that you are NOT pregnant. 

     

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  • I'd say it sounds like you're in the clear here.
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  • Yes, thanks ladies!

    Normally I would not be concerned as I didnt' get AF with #1 until 7.5 months.

    But then about a month ago, I did have some bleeding (break through sounds about right), which is why I'm concerned.

     

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  • I'm not sure what you mean by your birth control failed, but since your cycles aren't regular, you really cant be sure what's going on right now. You may have only O'd 10 days ago, who knows. I would say you have at least another week before you're out of the woods. You can buy more tests, even at the Dollar Store or next time you go to the grocery store.
  • Sounds like you are not pg girl! Whew! I was waiting for your post :) I didn't get my AF until Annabelle was 13 months.
  • It sounds like you are not pg, but maybe call your dr's and get a blood test to be sure?

    Good luck!!

  • Yay!  I read once that you are in the clear if you test negative 18 days after a BC fail.   But who knows?  My best guess is you probably are not pregnant.

    I got AF back (while BFing) at 12 months pp.  


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  • I really think you are in the clear, but just to be safe...

    my friend had sex 5 days before she O'd (she was charting) and she got pg.  I would go about your life and relax, but probably take a test 18 days (to ensure max time for implantation) + 5 days (max for sperm to live) beyond when your BC failed (so 23 days after).

    But really, just relax and enjoy the holidays! Smile

     

  • I'm going to go with the fact that DnR did not predict it that you are indeed not pregnant!
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  • with ds, I had what I thought was a period at around 8 weeks, I had already stopped with the pp bleeding and I was really pissed because I wasn't one of those ebf's that didn't get a period. That was the only one I had and never got one back until about a month after I started weaning him around 11 months.
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