I just spent the last ten minutes looking at the top 100 boys names and the top 100 girls names on babynames.com, and I didn't love any of them. We haven't even begun to discuss baby names, but I was bored, so I looked. Now I'm starting to think that this is going to be a loooooooooonnnnnnggg road naming our baby when the time comes.
Re: My child will be nameless.
Good point. My name is Jennifer, and I always had four or five other Jennifers in my class.
The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new.
Mes Petit Choux
I can't go back to yesterday - because I was a different person then. ~ Alice
Our name's we have had picked for a long time. It is something we do at night when we are laying in bed. Looking at the list never helped us when we were thinking about it, we always thought back to school and different jobs and names that we liked from there.
It'll happen!
I'm sure we will change our mind again and again before we actually need it.
We haven't even really talked about names yet. My kid will definitely be nameless.
I really try to avoid top 100 names.
Go to social security admin. website and look at their list. I printed off the top 1000 boys and girls names. That is where I found some of our favorites.
Make a list of the names you like, and try to get DH to do the same. Then compare them and discuss what you really love. It is a tough process but it can be really fun too.