stacynikki........

jaredswife

You asked me a question in my babynames post, and I just got saw it.

We didnt find out the sex.  We had an u/s on Monday and didnt want to know.  I think if I wanted to know then DH would too.  But he says he doesnt care this time.  With DS he found out and I didnt. 

 

stacynikki

How was it with your DH knowing?  Dh is definitely finding out next time but I've choosen to wait for the surprise.  I told DH that he won't be allowed to tell a soul!  Was it hard knowing that he knew?

jaredswife

It was interesting.  My family was always trying to convince him that he should tell them and they wouldnt tell anyone.  He was allowed to tell one person, his friend in CA who we never see. 

I was ok with it because I really wanted the surprise, and he really wanted to know.  Knowing his personality and all it was fun.  He would try to trick me and everyone else, it was really funny!

Just make sure your DH can keep a secret first.

stacynikki

He can keep a secret way better then I can!  I know that even if i changed my mind and begged him to tell me he wouldn't.  I'm a little afraid he might give in if it's a girl though because he knows how much I want a girl but I think he'll be good at keeping it to himself! 

jaredswife

thats good.  I didnt mind it with DS, but I dont think I couldnt do it that way this time.  I want a girl so bad that it would kill me if DH knew we were having a girl and I didnt.