September 2016 Moms — The Bump

Bed rest mamas

csukkha — Tue, 28 Jun 2016 19:50:23 +0000

Hopefully this board will remain unpopular for the remainder of everyone's pregnancy. For those of us prescribed bed rest I wanted a place to support each other until delivery.

September 5th

tejae9 — Wed, 17 Aug 2016 01:47:19 +0000

Time is nearing for us..
just want to take this time out and send you all good and positive vibes....
Good luck with delivery
Any concerns or questions are welcome here

My first question is how many plan on not receiving an epidural and what are you doing to prepare yourself for an easy labor?

Monday Ticker Change - 8/15

steminist — Mon, 15 Aug 2016 15:04:59 +0000

How far along?

What size is baby?

How are you feeling?

Upcoming appointments?

Rants/Raves/Questions:

GTKY: (Stolen from Friday) As a kid, what snack would you find in your lunchbox that'd absolutely make your day?

37 weeks. Nesting Urge.

christina627 — Fri, 12 Aug 2016 23:08:19 +0000

I'm 37 weeks pregnant with #4 and on top of that and homeschooling, we're moving in October. I have a HUGE urge to nest and make things clean and tidy and get EVERYTHING done (for baby and moving) ASAP. The problem is that I have painful BH every day now and spend a majority of the day with three kids hanging of my limbs or climbing all over me, so I'm sore all over and I can't really bend over to do much either. Major whine and vent. I'm tore between wanting to be done with pregnancy and wanting more time to get things done. Of course, I've never gone before my due date, so I probably have at least 3 more weeks of all this lovely pain and not being able to sleep.

Blood Cord Banking

Jocelynguillermo2007 — Tue, 26 Jul 2016 20:42:39 +0000

Any mommies out there considering or have banked their babies blood cord? I am considering it any feedback would be appreciate it.

Monday Bitchfest....

marajay6 — Mon, 15 Aug 2016 16:44:16 +0000

Let it all out

Depression -- anyone else?

MamaSquishyB — Sun, 14 Aug 2016 21:27:46 +0000

This past week or so, I've been feeling more down than usual. I've been crying a lot, not interested in doing much more than sleeping, and not really caring about managing my gestational diabetes so carefully (don't worry though, my highest numbers have only been around 150, and that's rare). I miss DH all the time, and when he texts me from work, I start crying all over again. Am I alone? Do you think this is just a side effect of the contractions and everything else that's been going on? I've been on Zoloft my entire pregnancy, but now I feel like it's not working at all. :-(

Weekend Wins 8/15

kosmo86 — Mon, 15 Aug 2016 12:49:09 +0000

Lets hear some good stuff ladies!

Bringing your LO/LOs to your appointments?

happy21292 — Sat, 13 Aug 2016 18:29:35 +0000

Do you guys bring your littles to your appointments? I have brought mine a couple of times and it does make it a bit more stressful but has been manageable. I'm just nervous about these next few appointments with cervical checks and being able to keep an eye on them- sitter has just moved. Do OBs think that it's weird to have a LO running around for that?
Also does your SO come to all your appointments? Mine hasn't been coming because I didn't feel he needed to take off work but now that it's getting closer I'm wondering if he should come meet the OB. (He has gone to the ultrasounds)

~ Thursday Ticker Change ~ 8/11

JennM205 — Thu, 11 Aug 2016 13:51:59 +0000

How far along?

What size is baby?

Upcoming appointments?

Rants/Raves/Questions?

Symptoms/Aversions/Cravings?

GTKY: (Borrowing from Wed) Which of Snow White's seven dwarfs describes you best and why? (Doc, Happy, Bashful, Sleepy, Sneezy, Grumpy, Dopey)

Hospital bag

jilliansandra — Mon, 15 Aug 2016 17:57:49 +0000

What are things you recommend to pack in your hospital bag?

~Weekend Ticker Change~ 8/13-8/14

jenkar01 — Sun, 14 Aug 2016 10:41:00 +0000

It's that time again ladies. Some of you are probably getting really close to popping!!!

How far along?

What size is baby?

How are you feeling?

Upcoming appointments?

Rants/Raves/Questions:

GTKY: How are you surviving this incredibly hot, dry, and humid summer?

~~Friday 8/12 Ticker Change~~

RedMar — Fri, 12 Aug 2016 11:44:34 +0000

How far along/How old is baby?

What size is baby?

Upcoming appointments?

Rants/Raves/Questions (pregnancy or newborn related)?

Symptoms/Aversions/Cravings?

GTKY: As a kid, what snack would you find in your lunchbox that'd absolutely make your day?

We are almost half way through August! Whatttttttt???? Congrats to the mamas who've had their babes!

Family changes name of 3m/o

KimmySchmidt — Thu, 11 Aug 2016 18:08:57 +0000

I saw this post on buzzfeed and thought it was interesting and relevant to us, as people who are currently naming babies.

https://www.buzzfeed.com/stephaniemcneal/these-parents-changed-their-daughters-name-when-she-was-3-mo?utm_term=.wzmD8G8e0B#.wzmD8G8e0B

TLDR- a couple named their daughter Ottilie and were disappointed that people weren't pronouncing it right, so they changed it to Margot when she was three months old.

Thoughts on this?!

I'm literally"popping"!

rn1stbae — Fri, 05 Aug 2016 21:10:59 +0000

Who else is hearing the little snaps and pops from their belly?? I thought I was going crazy until I decided to go straight to the experts (Google).

Crafty Mom Check-in - Likely pic-heavy

steminist — Sun, 20 Mar 2016 22:03:55 +0000

Hey there, fellow crafters! I figure some of us are already well on our way to creating for our new or existing LOs, some are just getting started. This gives us a place to post progress, brag on our successful projects, look for motivation/inspiration, etc. I'm great at planning and starting projects, less good about actually getting everything done.

Here's what I've got going on now:

About 9 years ago (11th grade!), I started one of my first knitting projects - a baby blanket for my physics teacher. I didn't finish it until a couple years ago, so obviously that teacher didn't get it. Whoops. Plus, I ended up with a strip of knitting that is 24" x 54". Not exactly a practical piece. Now, I'm the pregnant physics teacher, so I'm going to fix up my bad planning and make it work! Found a cute blue and green stripe yarn to make border strips to fill in the full blanket size. We're team green, but I think the color works either way.

PGAL Check-in 8/8

Alyeena — Mon, 08 Aug 2016 17:06:04 +0000

Since @reesaXden is in the hospital now and it looks like baby girl is on her way (she posted in the randoms topic.) I will go ahead and start this topic. Please send lots of positive thoughts and prayers to her.

How many weeks and size of baby?

How are you feeling? Mentally and physically?

R/R/R?

Next milestone/appointment you are looking forward to?

Questions?

Gtky: What is your favorite summer Olympic sport?

Cholestasis

cassloumy — Thu, 04 Aug 2016 13:23:06 +0000

To start, I've missed all of you wonderful ladies on this board, and I'm happy to be back! I wish I could re-enter the conversations on a happier note. I didn't see this anywhere else, so hopefully it's not a repeat thread!

I've been experiencing extreme itching on my hands and feet accompanied by a sort of small blister-y rash. I talked to my OB about it and she's concerned that it may be cholestasis. I have blood tests tomorrow morning, and I'll find out the results early next week.

I've done a little research on it, but there's not a whole lot of stories or anecdotal info that I've seen. I was wondering if anyone's been through this before, and what your experience and you and baby's outcome was?

TIA!

Cord blood banking?

chetna1509 — Sat, 13 Aug 2016 20:01:57 +0000

Has anyone recently registered with Cryocell or CBR for cord blood banking? If you refer someone, both get a discount. Does anyone have any coupons?

UO Thursday

mommytimesfour — Thu, 11 Aug 2016 15:19:24 +0000

FFFC

mommytimesfour — Fri, 12 Aug 2016 14:42:59 +0000

Aaaaand GO!

"How much do you weigh?" & Other Rude Comments...

KimmySchmidt — Wed, 11 May 2016 17:59:06 +0000

As I'm reading the randoms thread I'm seeing a theme emerge of people (usually strangers and acquaintances) saying super rude things to pregnant people. The general takeaway is "You would never say that to a person who wasn't pregnant, so why would you think it's OK now?"

I thought it would be fun(ny) to start a thread so we can commiserate about all these idiots together.

~~Tuesday Ticker Change~~

diagonalley — Tue, 09 Aug 2016 13:50:57 +0000

For babies due 9/6, 9/13, 9/20, 9/27

How many weeks?

What size?

Upcoming appointments?

Rants/Raves/Questions?

Symptoms/Cravings/Aversions?

GTKY: On a scale of 1-10, how prepared do you feel for baby's arrival?

Wednesday Ticker Change 8/10

AmMcc12 — Wed, 10 Aug 2016 12:35:03 +0000

How far along?

What size is baby?

How are you feeling?

Upcoming appointments?

Rants/Raves/Questions:

GTKY: Which of Snow White's seven dwarfs describes you best and why? (Doc, Happy, Bashful, Sleepy, Sneezy, Grumpy, Dopey)

ETA: gif

Pregnancy and Heat Rash

SuzJune04 — Fri, 12 Aug 2016 20:24:33 +0000

This is my third LO and I thought I'd experienced most pregnancy related issues until today, lol. Yesterday, I went out to the boardwalk so our family could do rides and games and it was so hot! I was wearing restrictive but summery clothing. By the time I got home last night, I found a rash and a lot of skin irritation in a very sensitive spot. Today is our last day of vacation but I'm staying in the A/C and trying to air out (hoping things will improve).

Have any of you had "prickly heat rash" before? I read online that soaking in a cool baking soda bath, using cool and using calamine lotion are supposed to help. I'm just hoping this clears up quickly and welcome any advice.

Show me your nursery organization!

yellowrose314 — Fri, 05 Aug 2016 18:48:42 +0000

I need some inspiration ladies! I've bought all these baskets and organizers but have no idea how I want to use them (I am PANTS at organizing...). We have a little shelf installed above the change table. The change table has two cubbies and 2 drawers and then I have one of those fabric closet organizer shelves that I'm going to put in the closet, but I feel like I need something else... so I'm looking to you all for inspiration. For those of you who have your nursery almost or completely set up, lets see how you organize!

List of Important People

LakeR2014 — Tue, 09 Aug 2016 15:50:36 +0000

So I was just thinking about a friend of mine that I have to remember to inform of the birth of LO before it hits social media so that she's not irrationally pissed for finding out there (its happened before). This also then reminded me of others that will need to know prior to online communications. That being said - I'm thinking I should add a list of these people to my hospital bag so it's there and ready because I know that is NOT where my mind will be at when looking at the amazing face of my LO. Is this on anyone else's list? STMs did you have something like that for yourself previously?

I know this is a totally weird thing - but I figure being prepared with the list in advance will help prevent stupid cattiness from friends and family who feel slighted for the smallest thing.

Follow-up question: Anyone know a way to create a group message in an iPhone 5 without it sending as a group message? Basically a BCC for text messaging?

GD Check-in - 8/8

Sarafuss — Mon, 08 Aug 2016 14:53:01 +0000

How far along are you?

Are you currently diet controlled or medication controlled?

Questions?

Rants/frustrations/fears?

Helpful tips/meals or snacks that work well for you?

Annoying Moms

surprise2018 — Tue, 09 Aug 2016 05:47:32 +0000

I'm hugely pregnant with baby number 3!! And I am always getting advice or tips about things that I have mastered. How do you respond to the critics without losing patience??

Aching fingers in the AM

eightynine — Tue, 09 Aug 2016 11:48:05 +0000

I keep wanting to post about it but refraining because it seems silly. But every morning my fingers hurt so bad! My hands are starting to also be swollen in the morning but even prior to that I had this finger problem. They ache and the joints seem all out of wack and it's just weird. Every morning for the last 5 weeks or so... I'm 35 wks. Anyone else? Just one of those weird pregnancy symptoms they don't tell you about, haha.

Faith Fridays (8-12-16) TW! The Power of the Blood

Prof=Mom — Fri, 12 Aug 2016 04:44:52 +0000

The power of the blood.

After a baby is born and the umbilical cord is cut, some blood remains in the blood vessels of the placenta and the portion of the umbilical cord that remains attached to it. After birth, the baby no longer needs this extra blood. This blood is called placental blood or umbilical cord blood: "cord blood" for short.

Cord blood contains all the normal elements of blood - red blood cells, white blood cells, platelets and plasma. But it is also rich in hematopoietic (blood-forming) stem cells, similar to those found in bone marrow. This is why cord blood can be used for transplantation as an alternative to bone marrow.

Cord blood is being used increasingly on an experimental basis as a source of stem cells, as an alternative to bone marrow. Most cord blood transplants have been performed in patients with blood and immune system diseases. Cord Blood transplants have also been performed for patients with genetic or metabolic diseases. More than 80 different diseases have been treated to date with unrelated cord blood transplants.

For believers of the Christian faith the blood of Jesus Christ is what saves. If there was no shedding of blood by Christ there would be no forgiveness of sins (Heb 9:22). Once for all.

The blood of Jesus is represented in communion, reflected in Passover and Easter and is still relevant today. We overcome the devil by the blood of the Lamb and the word of our testimony (Rev 12:11). When we plead or spirituality send or apply the blood of Jesus over our lives we are protected, sealed and victorious.

As we are considering cord blood banking for our babies and their future physical health, there is a blood donor that has paid already paid the price for all.

Recipes for diabetes

marikkita12 — Thu, 11 Aug 2016 04:51:44 +0000

my friend's three year old niece just got diagnosed with type 1. Her mom is my pregnancy twin and is due the same day as me. So now she has to figure out how to help her daughter deal with the finger pricks and the insulin shots while being 35 weeks pregnant. My friend wants to help since she's the kid's care taker most of the time. Here's where I need your help. They tend to do a lot of baking since the munchkin loves to be in the kitchen, obviously baking cookies is not such a good idea anymore. Do you ladies have any recipes that will be easy to do with a three year old that also said three year old would enjoy? Thanks in advance

HDBD!

lovelylauren86 — Wed, 10 Aug 2016 12:06:14 +0000

Happy Wednesday ladies! Let's see those beautiful bumps! And please post your baby pictures as well!

working moms check in 8/9/16

chavezrd2 — Tue, 09 Aug 2016 21:12:57 +0000

**Work got crazy yesterday sorry this is late**

How's your week looking?

How's training of replacement/backup coming along?

What's the best/worst thing about working and being prego?

GTKY - If you could have planned this pregnancy, would you have changed the timing you're due?

Weight at 34 weeks

audi681 — Wed, 10 Aug 2016 23:59:13 +0000

I went to the Dr. today, and she was concerned about the weight that I have put on during pregnancy. Well, only after I brought it up. You see... I have been diagnosed with GD since early pregnancy. I was on insulin for a while then I moved states, saw a different dr. and got my numbers under control without insulin and with diet alone. I have logged my food intake for months. I have made sure not to eat crap and to keep my blood sugar in check. I am in no way starving myself, as I ate an entire ice cream sheet cake over the course of 2 weeks. I started out this pregnancy at 120 lbs (which is 10 lbs over my normal body weight, but I never lost IVF weight from my previous child). I am currently 130 lbs. I even lost 1.5 lbs since my last appointment. I brought this to my Drs. attention and she was like "Oh, yea, that is not good. You should have gained more weight for the health of the baby." Now, I am sort of pissed. I have done everything that they asked me to do to keep this baby healthy, in terms of blood sugar management. I have brought my weight concerns up to my GD dr. and she said "eat more avocado and nuts and stuff with good fats." Right... bc that is going to pack on the weight.

Basically, is anyone else in the same boat? Did anyone not gain very much weight this pregnancy? I feel like I have done something wrong in trying to do everything right! Also, now that I am 34 weeks, I barely have an appetite! I feel so full so quickly bc of the size of my belly! It makes me sick to eat too much.

WTF Wednesday 8/10

AmMcc12 — Thu, 11 Aug 2016 00:02:15 +0000

What is your WTF today??

Book Recs - easy reads?

AMT1107 — Wed, 10 Aug 2016 15:44:25 +0000

I know there was a post about what are you reading a couple months back but as I get ready to pack my hospital bag, I'm wondering what are you reading? When I did my glucose screening I read "The Walk" and it was perfect 2-5 page chapters and was easy to put down and pick back up. Knowing myself, I won't be super focused on a book but would like to have one with me to pass the time when DH won't be at the hospital with me.

Any recommendations?

POLL: How much will your preg./delivery cost you

KimmySchmidt — Tue, 02 Aug 2016 10:25:31 +0000

This assumes of course that your delivery goes basically how you are planning (vaginal V's csection, etc.)

Just rechecked my benefits and am having sad sticker shock.

eta: Total pregnancy cost including prenatal care and L&D.

Which name is your favorite?

noelani42 — Tue, 09 Aug 2016 02:14:50 +0000

Hi guys! We are pretty set on a 1st name for a boy, but are completely stuck on a name for a girl...our first daughter's name is Eliana, and we often call her Ellie...I know there's a baby name board but that is more impersonal...I put our possible middle names in parentheses next to a couple of them, but we're not married to them...suggest others that you think we might like if none are your style...thanks in advance!

Toddler Sleep Advice

seitzy3 — Tue, 09 Aug 2016 15:59:47 +0000

Okay ladies, I am desperate to find a solution and help my 3.5 yo stay asleep at night. We have been going on week 5 of non stop wake up calls that last anywhere from 1-4 hours. Before that I had a couple good months of sleep and before she moved into her big girl bed she was sleeping 12 hours straight.

very rarely does she ever say it's from a dream/nightmare. She only tells me she just wants to mommy to sleep/lay with her.

Usually, I wouldn't be stressing AS much as I am now, however, there is absolutely no way I can continue to get up with her while getting up 3 or more times for a newborn. She already has a special blanket she has had since birth but it's not doing the trick anymore.

Out of desperation I even tried giving her a binkie back at night. It worked one night. I've tried no night lights, night lights, we have a sound machine and the list goes on.

I am looking for any tips or advice to maybe help her stay asleep and not cry for mommy.

What I have tried: Binkies, bribing with a prize in the morning, tried getting her relaxed and telling her that mama needs to go back to sleep. She just screams and screams which then wakes up her little sister in the room next to her. Anyone have ANY advice?!