May 2016 Moms — The Bump https://forums.thebump.com/ Sun, 21 Jun 2026 02:14:42 +0000 en May 2016 Moms — The Bump Welcome Ayana Ruby Marilyn https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672734/welcome-ayana-ruby-marilyn Tue, 19 Apr 2016 14:35:55 +0000 May 2016 Moms jenbrinson07 12672734@/discussions ]]> 11 nursery decor ideas to steal! https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12648966/11-nursery-decor-ideas-to-steal Mon, 07 Dec 2015 19:00:14 +0000 May 2016 Moms BumpCaitlin 12648966@/discussions You can’t stop flipping through wallpaper samples, reading up on baby furniture, and picking out stuffed animals. You feel a sudden strong urge to change the color of the room that will become baby’s and stick decals of baby giraffes across the walls. If this sounds like you, embrace it! You’re nesting!

Make the nesting phase fun and get inspired by our favorite nursery ideas here. What unique ideas do you have for your nursery?

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]]> Ultrasound at 38 weeks to determine size and position of baby https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672624/ultrasound-at-38-weeks-to-determine-size-and-position-of-baby Mon, 18 Apr 2016 18:04:16 +0000 May 2016 Moms apichie 12672624@/discussions Severe pain (not sure if related to pregnancy) and wondering if anyone has ever experienced this https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672910/severe-pain-not-sure-if-related-to-pregnancy-and-wondering-if-anyone-has-ever-experienced-this Wed, 20 Apr 2016 18:04:36 +0000 May 2016 Moms emsned 12672910@/discussions This morning I woke up with extreme pain just below my breastbone in the very center of my upper-belly. This is the second time this week that it has happened. If I try to move or sit up at all then it feels like someone is taking a shard of glass and stabbing me. If I lay completely still then it doesn't hurt. It is all focused in a small space just below my chest and almost feels like there may be a knot or ball (however, I cannot massage it away nor feel a lump). It lasted about 20 minutes each time it occurred with me slowly moving a little bit every 5 minutes to see if it was gone yet (at the risk of me cringing in agony if it was not gone). Then after 20 minutes it just disappears as if nothing was wrong. 
I wanted to ask you ladies because I've never heard of anything like this before, and because it's not consistent I didn't want to go to the hospital and potentially be turned away. I have no idea if it's serious or just a symptom of my body being stretched to accommodate baby.
I do have an OB appointment on Friday but I'm dreading the wait because I don't want this to happen again. Has anyone heard of this or know what it could possibly be/know any solutions so it doesn't happen again? ]]> Winning Wednesday 4/20 https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672873/winning-wednesday-4-20 Wed, 20 Apr 2016 13:11:35 +0000 May 2016 Moms AdorkablePixie 12672873@/discussions HELLP Syndrome https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672888/hellp-syndrome Wed, 20 Apr 2016 15:01:00 +0000 May 2016 Moms nerdymama15 12672888@/discussions I just wanted to let you know to be careful.  This thing can come on suddenly without any prior warning or signs.  All my labs were normal, blood pressure, etc. I had no signs and symptoms.  I went to the ER Friday morning because I thought I was having gallbladder issue. Turned out to be pre eclampsia and Hellp Syndrome. I ended up in the ICU and my baby had to be taken via C Section at 34 weeks and is currently in the NICU.  It is really scary how it can come on without signs.  My doctors were saying it was acid reflux or just muscle strain, or the way the baby was laying.  Then when I could not take it anymore I went to the ER and found out.  So be careful. It is a life threatening complication.
]]> Dreaming of baby https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672597/dreaming-of-baby Mon, 18 Apr 2016 14:47:05 +0000 May 2016 Moms emilyj77 12672597@/discussions Nj/ca disability info https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672838/nj-ca-disability-info Wed, 20 Apr 2016 05:41:55 +0000 May 2016 Moms lena1024 12672838@/discussions me that I'm not eligible for nj benefits and ca is iffy bc I just started paying taxes here. So I go on the NJ disability FAQ page and the first question is Do I need to live in nj to get temp disability ? The answer was no, as long as you paid into disability taxes the year prior. Wouldn't that mean im
covered under NJ? I'm so confused by this. If anyone has any clarification / similar situation please let me know. Any info is appreciated! Thanks! ]]> TTT! 4/19 https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672707/ttt-4-19 Tue, 19 Apr 2016 11:41:52 +0000 May 2016 Moms Jenly17 12672707@/discussions
1. Ok, I'm going to start with the heaviest one, and move to a lighter note. My DD (2.5) was recently diagnosed with childhood apraxia of speech, a motor planning disorder. I saw it coming because she doesn't have any words at all, but it's hitting me hard. From what I understand, she will go through intensive speech therapy (5 days/week) and she will likely be delayed in reading and writing as well. 

2. I feel overwhelmed! I feel like I need more time to work with DD's interventions, and with the next LO on the way in approximately 5 weeks, I just feel like I'm treading water. Any teachers or Speech language pathologists on the board that have insight, I'd love to hear from you.

3. In light of all of this, I'm trying to stay positive and to continue to count my blessings. My family is healthy, we have a baby on the way that I so desperately wanted, I live in a beautiful brand new home, and I drink amazing coffee every morning, haha. Sometimes it's the little blessings that mean the most ;)

4. I couldn't be happier that it's been sunny and mild lately! Bring on the warmer weather. 

5. Last week, I wrote a list of things I need to accomplish before my EDD. Yeah, none of them are done yet. 

6. I'm a master procrastinator.

7. Every summer we vacation at the beginning of September, just after Labor day. I'm hoping that we will be able to swing it this year. It's just a beach vacation for a week, but being by the water rejuvenates me. I'm really looking forward to it.

8. I feel like a sloth lately. I walk the dog everyday for about a half hour, and that literally takes it out of me for the entire day. I feel so wiped out! 

9. I just discovered Aldi (regional store I think) and I love it. They have a lot of organic food choices for cheap and it makes me happy that I afford good nutritious food for my family without spending a fortune.

10. DD and I are heading to the park this morning! Have a great day, everyone :)

]]> Monday/Tuesday Ticker Change - 4/18-4/19 https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672587/monday-tuesday-ticker-change-4-18-4-19 Mon, 18 Apr 2016 14:05:45 +0000 May 2016 Moms balamama 12672587@/discussions
Symptoms/raves/rants? 

Appointment update? 

Questions for the group?

Who are you enlisting to help you after birth and for how long?]]> Pitting Edema. https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12663817/pitting-edema Sun, 21 Feb 2016 20:39:08 +0000 May 2016 Moms kp90 12663817@/discussions Evening Primrose Oil? https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12670445/evening-primrose-oil Sat, 02 Apr 2016 17:04:16 +0000 May 2016 Moms babymackey 12670445@/discussions  ]]> PSA: Stay hydrated! https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672124/psa-stay-hydrated Thu, 14 Apr 2016 15:25:31 +0000 May 2016 Moms TheThornBird 12672124@/discussions

I had a scare yesterday afternoon- all of a sudden my vision went blurry and was filled with moving lights, and LO stopped moving as much as s/he usually does. It got worse over about half an hour until I couldn't see enough to walk around or dial on my phone. Everything is ok, but it turns out I was pretty dehydrated. 

Now that it's getting warmer, please be sure to drink plenty of water and get your electrolytes! It wasn't even that hot here and I was drinking a good amount of water already, but I still became dehydrated. And don't ignore any warning signs- I had been having some mild BH all this week, which I knew can be caused by dehydration, but I shrugged it off since I figured I drank enough already. 

Also, pedialyte is the friggin' bomb. I've been sipping on it all morning and feel a million times better than I did drinking water alone. Also fantastic for hangovers (or so I've heard.....). ]]> "Pregnancy" cough + super sore ribs--ouch!! https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672678/pregnancy-cough-super-sore-ribs-ouch Mon, 18 Apr 2016 23:22:57 +0000 May 2016 Moms Sharra13 12672678@/discussions  Anyone else suffering with me?  Moral support would be nice--it's hard to think of this for another 4-5 weeks!

On top of the rib pain, I've had this weird random cough for over a month now--like a single cough here and there every so often through the day and an annoying tickle in my lungs.  I haven't been sick I'm not clearing anything OUT.  My doc said it was likely just due to my petite frame and my lungs being compressed.  Super fun to add that onto the rib pain, though--I'm living off cough drops today.]]> STM Surprises Before, During, and After Birth https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12671448/stm-surprises-before-during-and-after-birth Sat, 09 Apr 2016 16:19:50 +0000 May 2016 Moms VS2016 12671448@/discussions Guesses on sex of your baby or babies https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12637681/guesses-on-sex-of-your-baby-or-babies Thu, 22 Oct 2015 20:06:31 +0000 May 2016 Moms camillaandcarson 12637681@/discussions Planned CSection/Induction https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12671895/planned-csection-induction Tue, 12 Apr 2016 23:15:25 +0000 May 2016 Moms Ljljljl 12671895@/discussions Holy $#!+ guess what!!! I went for my high risk appointment today (37+3), and due to high blood pressure and excessive protein levels, I was informed that I'm having a baby this upcoming Monday! I come in at 6:00 AM for an ultrasound. If LO is still breech, they'll proceed with a c-section. If he's flipped, they'll induce labor with pitocin and whatever else (fx)! ANYWAYS, if you've had experience with either, could you tell me how your morning/day went? What process and procedures did you go through? ]]> Songs for Baby https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12671108/songs-for-baby Thu, 07 Apr 2016 07:25:13 +0000 May 2016 Moms dshannah 12671108@/discussions
Problem is, I cannot think of a single freaking children's song that I like!

Google isn't much help: I'm finding more contemporary dross than good old standards, and a lot of stuff we just can't sing (I.e. not very melodic a Capella).

Do you ladies have any song suggestions? What are you singing to your little ones?]]> Work situation and need an outside opinion - am I overreacting? (whining & extreme TL;DR warning!) https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672432/work-situation-and-need-an-outside-opinion-am-i-overreacting-whining-extreme-tl-dr-warning Sun, 17 Apr 2016 01:18:40 +0000 May 2016 Moms arj14 12672432@/discussions
Background:  there are two other people that do the same job as me who work mostly during the day, and from what I understand is that the supervisors have them on desk (checking books out, checking books in, helping patrons with questions, etc.) for extended periods of time - at least 2 hours of a 4 - 5 hour shift, so they don't have as much time to shelve which leaves me lately with at least 4 carts (usually more) for night time.  Shelving an average cart takes about an hour, I have a 4 hour shift at night, and there are other things I'm expected to do as well.  I had mentioned back in January to them that I was having a harder time shelving even then, and the basic response from my supervisor was that they could not make accommodations for me.  My supervisor even mentioned how once she had a clerk at another location who had to stop working because she was pregnant.  I don't know what the exact situation was there, but I would certainly hope she wasn't forced out just because she was temporarily slowed down by pregnancy.

So, on Thursday night, I got called into the branch manager's office at the public library because she feels I'm not shelving as fast as I used to (wonder why that is), and they depend on me to do a lot of shelving at night when it's quieter so we don't get backed up.  The talk had a "go faster or else" tinge to it.  Despite the fact that my supervisor told me they wouldn't accommodate me, I still feel completely flabbergasted that they can't even do something as simple as maybe reducing the day time people's desk time so they have a little more time to shelve and thus won't be leaving me quite so much in the evenings, or just understanding that yes, I am going to be slowed down.  Of the four higher ups at the branch all of them are over fifty, two are women who have kids, one is a man who has kids, and the branch manager, who has no children, says she understands how hard pregnancy can be on a body because she's the oldest of seven children.

I left that meeting crying, and spent the next four hours of my shift crying on and off and hoping no one saw me.  The whole talk really made me feel like a failure that I can't keep up with the work I did before.  Talking about it still makes me feel upset.  I did make myself move faster and got two and a half carts done within two hours, but there were still two carts left at half an hour before close (didn't help that we had to do a state mandated tornado drill for 20 minutes since I obviously couldn't be out shelving during that time).  At the half hour to close is usually when I go around and straighten up the library, but the night supervisor said we couldn't leave two whole carts left so I spent the next 25 minutes busting my way through a cart as quickly as I could which meant that I didn't have time to straighten.  I swear to god if I get talked to on Monday about how the library wasn't orderly enough when staff came in on Friday morning I am going to have a breakdown.

DH is furious at the library, and we talked about it with some other family members on both sides and they all feel it's ridiculous as well.  I feel all around bad about myself over it which DH finds frustrating since how much I can do is obviously not my fault right now.  Am I overreacting by blaming myself?  Am I under reacting by not being angrier at the library?  The library doesn't have a dedicated HR person; we're part of the county government so we use theirs.  I'm not sure what would happen if I went to them with a doctor's note - if they would make me take my six weeks of leave early or not.

If you have made it this far, thank you.  Here's a picture of my current craving as a reward:

]]> Gift for big sibling(s) https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672015/gift-for-big-sibling-s Wed, 13 Apr 2016 20:03:05 +0000 May 2016 Moms araecasey 12672015@/discussions BPP & Down syndrome https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672612/bpp-down-syndrome Mon, 18 Apr 2016 16:24:43 +0000 May 2016 Moms sparkledonuts 12672612@/discussions She said its most likely just genetic because I'm only 5'2 and my fiancé is 5'6. I also have to start Biophysical profiles weekly along with my weekly check ups. Does anyone else get these? I'm hoping I don't end up having IUGR but at least if I do they can get him out but he is weighing 5lbs 8oz and I'm 35 weeks. ]]> Pumping at the Hospital https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672282/pumping-at-the-hospital Fri, 15 Apr 2016 16:28:11 +0000 May 2016 Moms Sharra13 12672282@/discussions
I intend to exclusively pump if I can (I may change my mind but that is the plan right now) and want to be prepared when I get to the hospital.  I'm wondering if you guys have experience pumping at the hospital and can tell me what I should be prepared for, what I should make sure to bring, and what I do NOT need to worry about.

I know from the tour that I am allowed to use/rent the hospital grade pump while there (and even check it out for a month if I really want to).  But what about all the stuff that comes with it--does the hospital usually provide refrigeration for what you pump, bottles and/or milk bags, breast/nipple pads and soothing creams, etc?  Do they sanitize the pump for you each time?

Thanks!]]> Baby Gear Recommendation Thread https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12647308/baby-gear-recommendation-thread Mon, 30 Nov 2015 14:52:05 +0000 May 2016 Moms yogahh 12647308@/discussions
I bought the Britax travel system I posted about on Friday (!!) and now have my Kohls cash to spend this week. Looking at bouncers and have some questions:

Ideally would like something that baby can both sleep in next to our bed as well as chill in during the day. Just wondering if anyone has experience with these and what your recommendations are?

Fisher-Price Comfort Curve Bouncer
Fisher-Price Newborn Rock 'N Play Sleeper
Comfort & Harmony Cradling Bouncer - Cozy Kingdom
Fisher-Price Luminosity Bouncer

Also, apologize if this is a dumb question but are any of these recommended for long stretches of sleeping? Is baby ok sleeping in this position?
]]> STM+ Posrpartum Lifesavers https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12671768/stm-posrpartum-lifesavers Tue, 12 Apr 2016 01:06:17 +0000 May 2016 Moms mello13 12671768@/discussions
So, what are some things/habits/tips etc that you used after L&D that made a difference or were a huge relief?]]> Lower belly pain? https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12671722/lower-belly-pain Mon, 11 Apr 2016 21:12:45 +0000 May 2016 Moms lena1024 12671722@/discussions Weekend Ticker Change 4/16 & 4/17 https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672400/weekend-ticker-change-4-16-4-17 Sat, 16 Apr 2016 16:27:15 +0000 May 2016 Moms valerie4786 12672400@/discussions
Symptoms/raves/rants? 

Appointment update? 

Questions for the group?

What meal do you want after delivery?
]]> NST Testing---anyone had to go through it? https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672280/nst-testing-anyone-had-to-go-through-it Fri, 15 Apr 2016 16:10:04 +0000 May 2016 Moms starrynite96 12672280@/discussions ]]> Medical Leave VS. FMLA/maternity leave https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672470/medical-leave-vs-fmla-maternity-leave Sun, 17 Apr 2016 13:20:50 +0000 May 2016 Moms kp90 12672470@/discussions GD Weekly Check-In https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672102/gd-weekly-check-in Thu, 14 Apr 2016 13:31:03 +0000 May 2016 Moms mello13 12672102@/discussions How are you feeling?

Rants/Raves/Confessions/Updates?

Recipes/Food Ideas?

GTKY: What simple daily tasks have become too much/ridiculously hysterical now that you're nearing the end of your pregnancy?

]]> Really hate to post this (MP) NO picture. https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672191/really-hate-to-post-this-mp-no-picture Thu, 14 Apr 2016 22:45:51 +0000 May 2016 Moms kp90 12672191@/discussions
Soooo... Today several times after peeing I noticed small pieces of what I can only describe as (TMI, sorry!).. Large booger looking things in the toilet. Nothing on the TP when wiping. It's been the last two times I've gone to the bathroom and now I am having some dull crampy pains. Could this be my MP coming little at a time? Is it something else I am unaware of? It's after hours so my OB is closed and I really don't want to bug the on call doctor about a MP question but I am very curious as I'm slightly concerned labor may be around the corner. Just want to be prepared and make sure my LO will be healthy and safe. 

Sorry for the gross thread :( ... At least I didn't post pictures!]]> Just for Fun- Weekend meme https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672335/just-for-fun-weekend-meme Sat, 16 Apr 2016 00:28:38 +0000 May 2016 Moms VS2016 12672335@/discussions ]]> Baby name suggestions https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12658915/baby-name-suggestions Mon, 25 Jan 2016 21:06:10 +0000 May 2016 Moms krystine324 12658915@/discussions UO Thursday 4/14 https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672098/uo-thursday-4-14 Thu, 14 Apr 2016 13:19:34 +0000 May 2016 Moms TheThornBird 12672098@/discussions
Mine: I love Jenna Marbles and don't understand how people could find her obnoxious

imagehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GJ1iOi-Bfho
]]> CSection if baby is too big? https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672225/csection-if-baby-is-too-big Fri, 15 Apr 2016 05:04:56 +0000 May 2016 Moms folamij 12672225@/discussions
Im currently 35 weeks and my measurements have been slightly off so my Dr. ordered an ultrasound to check on baby. Turns out munchkin is just fine but on the longer side with measurements dating her at 37 weeks and weight is estimated a little over 7 lbs. I have been planning on a vaginal delivery but my Dr. said if munchkin gets to 10lbs and doesn't come naturally, she would order a csection. 

She also checked my cervix and I'm not even close to being dilated apparently, which I'm fine with, especially if I'm not to term yet.

My fear is that baby will reach 10 lbs and I'll be forced into a csection. Any advice is appreciated!

]]> FAT https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12671943/fat Wed, 13 Apr 2016 12:30:21 +0000 May 2016 Moms kitandcat 12671943@/discussions
Please share your struggle with physical appearance to #1) make me feel like I'm not alone, and #2) because I already feel a little better getting it out! ]]> FFFC 4-15-16 https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672259/fffc-4-15-16 Fri, 15 Apr 2016 13:47:26 +0000 May 2016 Moms kbrands7 12672259@/discussions
dog confessionsdog confessions
]]> New Due Date List (add to this one) https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12621991/new-due-date-list-add-to-this-one Fri, 04 Sep 2015 18:58:24 +0000 May 2016 Moms LovingLife! 12621991@/discussions April 30 - concreteayngel
May 1- mrsjlopez12, allishally13, kennedy0830, baybeekay16
May 2 - bltbear82, km002
May 3 - lalala2004, Forever.6.18, allen4tl, peachkeen16, khgahol
May 4- JoyTap
May 5 - MrsPrice519, tayrenaelyn
May 6 - ejmo68
May 7 - jenl1681, BabyBerriesNCream
May 9 - Jparke2, eaorear, bellamamma23, hawksfan82
May 10 - buzzbee614
May 11 - Copernicus08
May 12 - LovingLife!, MaddenMM
May 13 - Genericc33, alittletomato
May 15 - livelaughlove1127
]]> Friday Ticker Change 4/15 https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672238/friday-ticker-change-4-15 Fri, 15 Apr 2016 11:57:15 +0000 May 2016 Moms bookelf221 12672238@/discussions Symptoms/raves/rants? 
Appointment update? 
Questions for the group?
What meal do you want after delivery?

Taken shamelessly from Wed/THursday group ]]> Caffeine and Childhood Leukemia Links? https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672328/caffeine-and-childhood-leukemia-links Fri, 15 Apr 2016 22:50:41 +0000 May 2016 Moms TaylorKang 12672328@/discussions
I came across a study today from 2014 that was showing possibilities of an increased risk in Childhood Leukemia when the mother drank 2+ cups of coffee a day - the risk went up to 60%. I am not too worried about that, because I believe I stay within my limit of 150-300 mg of caffeine daily. However, another website that was talking about the same study mentioned something about even drinking one cup of coffee could increase the risk to 20%. Now, that, I do go over...and it just makes me feel bad and weird that I'm only hearing anything about this at 35 weeks. I know the study actually hasn't been proven and apparently the cup sizes of coffee and the way it was made is not taken into factor, nor was alcohol used as a control.

Does anybody know anything more about this study? Care to shed any light on it for me? I have tried staying well within my limit, having a cup of coffee or a latte in the a.m. and sometimes some soda in the later part of the day (but I can't see myself making it over 300 @.@)
]]> Car seat question https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12672201/car-seat-question Fri, 15 Apr 2016 00:31:26 +0000 May 2016 Moms seasalt123 12672201@/discussions
Having been hospitalized for the last three months, I didn't have any opportunity to do all the important shopping for the baby. As such, I'm now scrambling to get it all done and am basically getting a crash course on all things baby. 

I have a question about car seats I would love your opinions on. 

I don't drive, so I will be wearing my baby or taking him out in his stroller (either walking or via public transit). This means I will also take my fair share of cabs. 

I had been looking for a stroller with a car seat attached so I could take him out in the stroller be potentially cab home if I got tired. However one of the NICU moms mentioned that it's no longer advisable to have a baby in the car seat for very long as they are too scrunched up. This makes sense but how long is 'too long'?

I will get a bassinet attachment for long walks if needed but if I take the stroller out without the car seat it means I would be unable to cab back home. I intend to ask the sales people in the shops when I go to get one but thought I would ask here first. Has anyone done research on this? 

Thanks so much!!]]>