March 2017 Moms — The Bump

Tuesday Ticker Change - 8/2/16

GG620 — Tue, 02 Aug 2016 14:45:41 +0000

For all the mamas due on March 7, 14, 21 and 28

How far along are you?

How big is baby?

Upcoming appointments this week?

Any new symptoms or changes?

Rants/Raves?

GTKY: If you could be a character in a book for a day - who would you be?

STM+ - When are you telling your kids?

chrlyr — Fri, 15 Jul 2016 00:57:27 +0000

When do you plan to (or when did you) tell your children that you're pregnant? I have a 4 1/2 year old and I'm afraid of telling him too early because it would be hard to explain if something were to happen. I'm thinking of maybe waiting until 2nd tri, but I don't know.

Threatened miscarriage Update*

Knottie16288692 — Mon, 25 Jul 2016 19:27:05 +0000

I've been spotting since last Monday and over the weekend it picked up. No cramping really. This morning it turned bright red so I called my doctor who got me in. He was away last week so I saw a nurse who said it was implantation bleeding. He did an exam and saw a lot of blood and sent me to get a sono. In the waiting room I cried anticipating the worst. In the few weeks that I have carried my little I have day dreamed about holding a newborn again, my children growing up together, all of the fun family vacations, and heck I've even started crocheting baby blankets. Then I felt guilty. I have friends who have never been able to conceive, who have had this happen more then once, and I was staring at my 8 month old practicing his walking skills in the waiting room. They called me back and the rudest tech ever asked me a bunch of questions before checking for a heartbeat. She told me to stop breathing a few times and she couldn't pick anything up. Then she found the heartbeat and it was a strong 144. My little has grown quite a bit since last week and is still on track. Went back to the doctor to find out why I was bleeding and he said its a sub-chronic hematoma. I have a 50% chance of a miscarriage. This may be one of the hardest things I've ever had to face. I have to take progesterone and I'm trying to be hopeful.

**** Update****
So we went to the doctor for our weekly check up and I feel so discouraged. I'm not bleeding heavy, but its picked up over the last few days with bright red bleeding some days and brown bleeding the other. The doctor said there is nothing he can do besides pray for me and hope for the best. He said he would be happy if I made it to week 12 because the possibility of miscarriage is low. The baby's heartbeat was a strong 156 and its growing on time. But my yolk sac is measuring 6 weeks 2 days instead of the 8 weeks that I am. Looking at the sonogram, he said he saw a pool of blood near the placenta but didn't understand why I was bleeding bright red and it could have something to do with the yolk sac. I took that to mean that my SCH wasn't as big. I don't know why I didn't ask him. We go back in a week and hopefully see better results. Continued thoughts and prayers please!!

Saturday/Sunday Ticker Change - 7/30-31

mossn83 — Sun, 31 Jul 2016 04:39:35 +0000

Hi weekend ladies.

Weeks/Size?

Any upcoming appointments this week?

Rants/Raves/Randoms?

Questions?

GTKY: What traits are you hoping baby will get from you or DH ?

Specifically NOT requesting things on your registry

GG620 — Tue, 02 Aug 2016 19:44:43 +0000

So I know we are all awhile away from this - but I read an interesting article and it got me thinking about couples' registry preferences. So curious about your opinions

If you know that you really don't want certain items, it is rude to, in a polite way, explain you would prefer using only X's brands products etc. Or do you think whatever people are nice enough to get you is great and perhaps just return/donate everything you don't want/intend to use. Obviously I am sure many would just be thankful for others' generosity, but thought it was an interesting topic.

ETA: I am NOT saying I plan/want to do this - just thought it was an interesting topic for discussion haha

Ab work during pregnancy?

sunshine507 — Tue, 02 Aug 2016 21:04:05 +0000

Has anyone been told to not do ab work during pregnancy?
I made it to the gym today (and managed not to throw up on anything there!), and my trainer said he's going to stop doing specific ab work with me, although my core will still be somewhat strengthened by the standing and compound exercises I'll be doing. I had been using a handful of different ab machines twice a week, never any regular crunches or sit-ups.
My doc didn't mention it as something to stop, although she listed a number of other things (biking, standup paddleboarding, climbing, etc) I do need to stop doing.

Second pregnancy

lmikulskis — Tue, 02 Aug 2016 17:34:11 +0000

Hi everyone. I am almost 6 weeks pregnant with my second. My first is only 13 months old. I am already showing more with this baby than i did with my son for my first pregnancy. I am sure its normal but because you can already tell a difference in my body I'm not sure when i should make it public. We told my family and my inlaws too and some close friends. I feel its not as much a big deal to wait to tell with your second the way we did with our first. But i guess i am just wondering to all you second or more time moms when did you make the public announcement?

Goodbye Mamas, and Best Wishes!

ErinSmith125 — Mon, 01 Aug 2016 22:08:50 +0000

*Losses Mentioned*

I had my 8 week appointment last week, and there was no baby, fetal pole, or yolk sac. I was kind of suspecting it because the week before my symptoms had started to vanish. Doctor said it was a blighted ovum -- it stopped growing around 6 weeks, but since our first appointment wasn't until 8 weeks, we didn't know. This is our second time being pregnant and second loss, after about a year of trying. We are devastated of course, but trying to stay hopeful about our first visit with a fertility specialist in September.

I am so happy for all of you though, and I'll probably stop in from time to time to lurk a little. Seeing your happy posts and US pic gives me hope that miracles are possible and that ours will happen eventually. Love to you all!

Tips From SAHMs with 2+

Victoria G. — Mon, 01 Aug 2016 16:30:57 +0000

My husband and I are expecting our second baby 3/23/17. We are super
excited!!! I just wanted to know if any of you have any tips or tricks for me
to try to stay home with both kids (my son is just over 1 year) I only work
part time right now anyways but my husbands work does taper off for a couple
months in the winter time.
Thank you in advance!

Meal Plan Monday-8/1

veeveemama59 — Tue, 02 Aug 2016 02:15:32 +0000

Happy August! I'm sorry this is late, I'm on vacation with my family so this week is a quickie!

Breakfast
I've been sticking to an old standard...waffles!
frozen waffles
peanut (or other nut) butter
banana or Apple
chocolate chips (optional)

Toast and top your waffle! For an easier, on the go option, just do the nut butter and eat the banana or apple on the side.

Lunch
I saw this one on Farm House Rules on Food Network yesterday, now I feel like I need it.

Ingredients

2 whole chickens (3 to 4 pounds each)
Salt and freshly ground black pepper
Olive oil, for drizzling
1/3 cup mayonnaise, plus more for serving
1 cup green grapes, sliced
1 cup walnuts, chopped
4 ribs celery, chopped
1 green apple, peeled and chopped
1 bunch chives, chopped
1 lemon, juiced
Butter lettuce, for serving
Country loaf or nice whole-wheat bread, sliced and toasted, for serving

Directions

Preheat the oven to 400 degrees F.
Set the chickens on a rimmed baking sheet, sprinkle them all over with salt and pepper, and drizzle with olive oil. Roast to an internal temperature of 160 degrees F, taken between the breast and thigh, about 1 hour.
Allow to cool. With two forks, shred all the meat off the bone.
In a large bowl, combine the shredded chicken, mayonnaise, grapes, walnuts, celery, apples, chives, lemon juice and big pinches of salt and pepper. Toss well.
To assemble the sandwiches: Fill a leaf of butter lettuce with some chickensalad. Sandwich the stuffed lettuce with two slices of bread spread with mayo. Repeat for the remaining sandwiches. Slice in half and enjoy.

Dinner
Make reservations! Treat yourself to a date night! Your body is working hard to grow a human! Take a break!

Any over-anxious FTMs out there?

Mccolpitts — Mon, 01 Aug 2016 13:19:56 +0000

This is my first pregnancy and I have no idea what to expect, what I'm looking for, etc and it's making me a nervous wreck! My OB appt isn't until next week (I'm at 6+1) and I keep freaking myself out consulting dr Google. I'm gong insane waiting to hear that heart at and find out if everything is ok! Anybody else in the same boat? Anybody have tips for staying calm until I see the OB?

Hook effect

chrlyr — Mon, 01 Aug 2016 22:47:06 +0000

POAS addicts... Does anyone know when the hook effect can start to affect the darkness of the test line? I used my last Wondfo today and the test line was significantly lighter today at 6w2d.

Nursing mamas

shines721 — Mon, 01 Aug 2016 01:18:28 +0000

Just saw a post about sore boobs... Mine were the first time but not painful at all the time. I've wondering if it's because I just stopped nursing (literally.. I stopped nursing and I think I ovulated the next day.. 1 day of my body to myself!)

Anyways, curious if because you're still nursing you haven't been sore or if maybe I'm just dodging a bullet here.

Numbers dropped

jessica1316 — Mon, 01 Aug 2016 21:02:46 +0000

Hey ladies, I've been spotting for going on three days now when it went red I panicked. I the did level checks, Friday I was at 14000 three days later I'm at 13666. Has anyone else experienced this? She told me it was something they weren't too concerned about since after 10000 they don't go off of hcg levels anymore and it was only a small drop. I just thought that with twins it would be super high. I've had a miscarriage with my last pregnancy so I've been preparing myself for the worst. I just also find it odd it was such a small drop within three days I thought it would much more significant. Thoughts?

Boobs in insane amount of pain!

allie92089 — Mon, 01 Aug 2016 00:39:17 +0000

My boobs have been on and off sore but this is the worst they have been. They hurt so bad! They were shooting pains and now they are just constantly sore. I want something to make them feel better but I have no idea what to do or what I am able to do. Any tips would be amazing!!!

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jessica1316 — Mon, 01 Aug 2016 21:10:02 +0000

Accidentally posted twice oops

Search Rage

howdthathappen — Mon, 01 Aug 2016 13:44:55 +0000

I'm trying to search a couple things to avoid being "that person" but even though I have March 2017 chosen it keeps showing me results for everything everywhere. Not helpful at all. Any tips for what I could be doing wrong or is it usually glitchy like this??
Thanks!

This app....

vino831 — Fri, 29 Jul 2016 01:54:52 +0000

Does anyone else hate it?

I have NO CLUE how you second time moms got connected with other moms using this app?!?!?

I used Tb with my son and I definitely got some invaluable support for the Two questions I posted but aside from that nothing...

I don't know how the usability could be improved but I know it can be... so I guess this is just a vent.

Best place to buy mesh undies?

ihateusernames* — Sat, 30 Jul 2016 21:29:07 +0000

I LOVED THE MESH UNDIES!!!
I tried to take as many away with me from the hospital last time but only got enough to last me a day or two.
Move heard you can buy these in bulk online but I haven't found a reasonably priced source yet...

also, what are your other favorite must haves for labor and delivery? Snacks?

tw Farewell

mjacks16 — Mon, 25 Jul 2016 15:17:50 +0000

I am so sad to say goodbye, but it is official and I had my MC last night. I found out last week that things were not progressing properly, but it did not make it any easier. I don't think it actually hit me until it happened. You all seem like a great group of gals and I wish you all happy and healthy journeys.

Creative In-Person Announcement Ideas?

Cbeanz — Thu, 28 Jul 2016 16:16:59 +0000

Hey all, we're visiting family in the next few weeks and are looking for some creative ways to announce the news! I know a lot of folks announce on social media with cute photos but I'm interested in hearing how you're announcing news in person to family. Anyone getting really creative with it? In the past we've done the "big sibling" t-shirts but I want to get really fun this time since it'll be the last time around.

Working Mamas: Can we talk about daycare costs for a minute?

hippiemama-2 — Tue, 26 Jul 2016 19:56:59 +0000

What are you lovely ladies paying for childcare? I am in the process of telling my current sitter that we're expecting another, and I'm trying to come up with something that seems fair for her but doesn't force us to sustain life on Ramen Noodles. I know this is hugely related to the type of care and where you live, but I can't help but feel curious! Talk dollars to me.

Weekly Randoms (7/25)

meq124 — Mon, 25 Jul 2016 04:34:40 +0000

Whatcha got?

Any STM or plus worried or not looking forward to birth?

katier29 — Tue, 26 Jul 2016 19:11:04 +0000

Any insight from moms with more than 2 would be great!
I had a terrible birth recovery from a vaginal birth, I couldnt urinate due to the terrible UTI I got, I was swollen for weeks and I cried everytime I had to pee.. I held my pee for 24 hours due to this.. it was traumatic.
I know childbirth isn't pretty or flowery but anyone have any insight that births after your first aren't as terrible or is it just the luck of the draw?

PGAL Check In 7/25

Spartanrd4 — Mon, 25 Jul 2016 12:21:57 +0000

This is for all our March moms who have experienced a loss- we are here to support one another!

1. How far along are you?

2. Next milestone you're looking forward to?

3. Rant/Rave/Positive Vibes:

4. GTKY: If you could travel anywhere in the world- where would it be and why?

Symptoms Thread: Week of 07/25

Scarlett830 — Mon, 25 Jul 2016 12:38:53 +0000

What's new this week, ladies?

High-Risk Check-In 7/25

Sugargirl1019 — Mon, 25 Jul 2016 10:46:28 +0000

This is for those of us diagnosed with any type of condition that makes our pregnancy high-risk so that we can find support and companionship during this time! Feel free to comment at any point in the week and treat this as an on-going discussion.

If you have ideas for questions, post it!

1. Why are you high-risk?

2. How far along are you?

3. What are you doing for treament?

4. How are you doing? R/R?

5. Any questions?

6. GTKY: What made you fall in love with your husband/SO?

5 weeks

mommy713314 — Wed, 27 Jul 2016 17:18:07 +0000

I am 5 weeks pregnant. I had symptoms and now they seem to be going away. This is my first pregnancy after a miscarriage and I am freaking out. I feel a heavy/fullness in my pelvic area. I don't know what to do. My first appt isn't until August 16 and I'm freaking out. Should I be worried only if I start bleeding?

My current due date is 3-28-17

Carpal Tunnel

betsy538 — Sun, 31 Jul 2016 03:21:33 +0000

Is anyone else having issues with carpal tunnel already? I crochet, and have been dealing with my hands falling asleep easily when I sleep, but lately they are falling asleep at all times of day. It's so obnoxious! I typically use essential oils, lemongrass is my favorite, but I've read that oil is one to avoid during pregnancy.

Any ideas beside wearing a splint are welcome!

Wednesday Ticker change

ihateusernames* — Wed, 27 Jul 2016 02:54:05 +0000

How far along are you?

How big is baby?

Upcoming appointments this week?

Any new symptoms or changes?

Rants/Raves?

GTKY: What's your mantra/ motto?

Vaginal or abdominal ultrasound?

allie92089 — Sun, 31 Jul 2016 00:25:01 +0000

Ok so I am a first time mommy and I have been looking at ultrasounds all over. I know there are two different kinds. I am just wondering what is the difference between the two? I know one they go inside and one is just done on your abdomen but besides that is there any difference? I feel like the ones I've seen that are abdominal are less vivid and clear. I'm just afraid they'll do abdominal and I won't get a clear picture of my baby! Anyone know if you can request one over the other? Sorry for all the questions!

FFFC (7/29)

chrlyr — Fri, 29 Jul 2016 14:25:59 +0000

Time to confess, ladies!

Irish twins

Remy1212 — Mon, 25 Jul 2016 13:02:09 +0000

Anyone out there have Irish twins?? I just had a baby on May 31st, this is a huuuge surprise to be pregnant again so soon! We are still in shock.
Any advice on how to handle the upcoming 1st tri exhaustion and nausea/vomiting with a newborn? How did you keep your sanity when the baby was born? I am freaking out! We have a 2.5 year old DD and an 8 week old DD.

What's your favorite...

AverageAsh — Wed, 27 Jul 2016 23:20:12 +0000

Pregnancy or Mommy blog/podcast/website? I have heard there are several great podcasts out there but I can't seem to ever remember what they are.

TW :( I don't know what to think *UPDATE

ihateusernames* — Mon, 25 Jul 2016 19:14:33 +0000

so I'm on day 10 of spotting. It's nothing heavy but my GP wants me to get blood tests every three days... What are those called again? Are those the hcg tests or beta? I don't know the terms. Good news is that I'll be getting an earlier ultrasound.

Doctor said I had a 50/50 chance of keeping the baby though. I'm still nauseas, so I'm hopeful.

anyone else here have spotting but a healthy pregnancy? I've never had spotting or miscarriage so I have no clue what to think. Cross your fingers or pray for me if you can please

UPDATE: you guys are STUCK WITH ME, muahaha! My betas, or whatever it's called, are rising! Now just waiting to make sure that my ultrasound is cool and I'm here for good

What My Pregnant Self is Eating - 7/25

kiki75 — Mon, 25 Jul 2016 03:03:41 +0000

Even though I'm actually on the East Coast right now, it's going to be a super busy morning tomorrow so I might be late getting it up otherwise. What's on your plate or in your pocket this week?

Preggo pants!

catrb89 — Wed, 27 Jul 2016 00:34:51 +0000

Alright I need a little help here. My regular work pants are getting a little tight from the bloating/slowly growing belly. I'm looking for some maternity pants, but looking online, they look like they might be a little TOO much just yet.
Moms, what were your experiences buying some maternity clothes? When did you find you really needed them?

Hypnobabies

vino831 — Sat, 30 Jul 2016 14:53:19 +0000

I posted this information on the birth plan board but I figured a new thread would be a good idea and might reach more mamas that might be interested in the materials.

I'm just going to copy what I had written directly below but I did want to add that you should do your research. Each birthing method has its differences. I got wrapped around word choice during labor in hindsight that's TOTALLY my personality too. The finger drop method of hypnobabies works. It takes a lot of practice but it works.

My comments are just my experience. I LOVED doing hypnobirthing babies during pregnancy. My husband and i connected doing it. It helped me sleep and relax overall.

Even if you don't do hypnobabies at all I HIGHLY SUGGEST EVERY mama listen to - pregnancy affirmations. It was amazing to listen to such positive words on my drive to work! I really needed to hear some of those things (ie when dealing with MIL drama questioning my birth plan)

In addition to the pregnancy affirmations there are other good materials in the folder I shared. Ie sample cheat sheets for your birth partners. Meaning an outline of reminders of how they can help you (bc all logic goes out the window when a woman is screaming!! Lol)

Lastly I want to point out that I'm sure the owners of hypnobabies would frown upon me sharing these materials (they cost good $$) So please keep to yourself. Don't share my personal information with anyone outside this group. I will take this public link down closer to the end of our time together on Tb.

(Below from Birth Plan Board)

I'm sure you've done your research but I did hypnobabies last time and will be doing hypnobirthing this time.

I went to the hypnobabies classes and practiced religiously but it was really hard for me to use during labor.

I talked to my doula after (also mother of 4 who has used both) and she said it best -

Hypno babies tells you in the track "you're now feeling....."

Where in hypnobirthing the track will suggest "try to allow yourself to feel"

She hit the nail on the head for me!! During my last labor using hypnobabies I never felt I was where the track was telling me I should and just ended up with them off. So I'm really excited to use hypnobirthing this time.

Doesn't mean it's for you but thought I'd share! :-)

On another note I LOVE your plan. I'm trying for a water birth round two. Last time we had meconium in the fluid and had to go to the hospital. While I was disappointed I remained flexible enough that it was okay and the hospital staff was amazing... the monitors however enourage me to try again lol!!!

So I did an in person class for the hypnobabies. The woman that first introduced me to hypnobirthing though did it on her own by getting the materials online, and doing homestudy. She RAVED about it. This is also likely my plan bc while I would love to take a class I don't think I'd be able to have weekly childcare for my son.

Anyway...

The only real advice I can give is you REALLY have to commit to almost daily practice. It's a lot more time consuming than I had anticipated.

Next post.....

I went ahead and organized them as follows:

1. Scripts - this is the main book

2. Birth partner guide - this is the quick ref booklet and partner guide

3. Tracks - the actual mp3's

4. A couple cheat sheets for your birth partners

https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B2hKPF2NMrnrdjZsTi1KbjgyaUU

Please feel free to reach out if you have any questions or issues accessing the materials. Direct email is best (as I don't consistently get notifications on TB) tabitha831@gmail.com.

UO Thursday 7/28

dubcompanion — Thu, 28 Jul 2016 16:27:41 +0000

How would we like to ruffle feathers this week, friends?

First ultrasound patience

joshysgirl1220 — Thu, 28 Jul 2016 02:29:34 +0000

I just want to say that the waiting point from finding out you are expecting to the first ultrasound is so long, I remember being impatient the first time around too!!