Babies: 0 - 3 Months
NBR: Why did I marry DH???????
Anyone ever ask themselves why did I marry my DH? Lately I have been asking myself this question , I don't know why? DH is a great father to our son and he is good to me, we rarely argue , and when we do , we do not yell at each other , we end up sitting down and discussing the issue and how we feel , he doesn't complain , and he watches the baby if I decide to go out with the girls for the night. Only thing that is not great is he is so anti family events and anti religion, he considers my mom and Dad and sister and brother his family , but he will not consider my extended family. He respects the fact that i want to raise the baby catholic , but doesn't want anything to do with it. I knew this when I married him and made peace with it , but now that we have a baby , it's getting harder to accept this part of him. I'm afraid that i will let this all get the best of me and ruin my marriage. I love DH and I don't want to lose him , but at the moment it feels as though i have to choose one over the other . ugh . 
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Re: NBR: Why did I marry DH???????
Oh Mary, I could have written this post.... I have no advice other that offering you <hugs>.
Could you still be recovering from delivering and hence a little hormonal? Maybe it will sort itself out?
GL!
I know I'm still knocked up and therefore dont belong on this board BUT I couldnt help but read your post. If you're able to put hormones aside for a moment ((which I'm sure is hard to do after all)). I have this really cool bible study that I did early last year before DH and I got married. It was for women who were married or wanted to be married and if religion is important to you ((like it is us)) than it may help a lil. It helped me a lot when we first moved in together and I may do it again now that we're married so I can get refreshed. It helped put things in perspective and made life easier to deal with.
Let me know if you want a copy of it and I can email it to you. GL
"When it all boils down... a lot of religions (no not all.) do have the same purpose, to love one another and to realize there is more to this world.? That there is a purpose for your life and things that happen around you.
I believe organized religion is for some people, I'm just not one of them.? I don't believe everything is black and white and I cannot change my thought process even if I tried, and I know God knows that.? And he knows that some people... religion is their answer and that's the way their mind works.? I don't think you're wrong being a Christain, I think you were always suppose to be one... it was in your life plan.? It wasn't in the cards for me."