I'm going to try to pose this question without going into the vax/anti vax debate. So please, let's no go there.
I recently found out through my MIL that my SIL has not vaccinated my one year old nephew. She's not even anti-vax, she's just lazy. But that's a whole different issue for another day.
When I heard that my first thought was, "I don't want my baby around my nephew." At least until my baby is fully vaccinated.
Am I overreacting? Or is this a totally normal reaction? I know as soon as I tell my SIL my opinion it's going to cause some unnecessary drama. She's 25 but has the mentality of an 16 year old when it comes to things not going her way.
At the same time, I want her to know where I stand now, so she has time to get this taken care of if she really cares about it. However, she doesn't know that I know he's not vaccinated, since my MIL told me "behind her back." It seems weird to bring it up out of the blue.
If my nephew doesn't get vaccinated, and I stick to my guns, it essentially means we will never take baby to my MIL's house where SIL lives also until my baby is fully vaccinated. They only live about 30 minutes away, and are currently our only relatives nearby that we could use for baby sitting, etc if we need it.
So ladies, do I bring it up now? Wait til my baby is born? Risk it and just bring my baby around my nephew and assume it's no big deal? I am a FTM so I will fully accept anyone saying I am overreacting
thanks!
Re: Bringing your infant around other unvaccinated children
Are you going to keep your newborn inside your house for an entire year and ask to see proof that all visitors have records that they have all their vaccinations up todate?
There are unvaccinated kids/adults where you go from the grocery store, church, park, gas station, shopping mall, fair, parade, etc. It seems almost impossible to ensure a newborn is never around unvaccinated people if you take them outside the house at all.
Or are you more worried about those who will come into constant direct contact or everyone?
Married: August 2012
DD: 9/22/2014
Yes, I realize it's impossible to keep baby in a bubble for the first year. However, I will be a SAHM. There will be no daycare. We don't go to church. So I do have at least some control over where baby goes.
Thanks everyone for your input!
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