My bf and my cousin are in competition with our pregnancies, her and I are due two days apart. This is suppose to be exciting and fun, but no everything is who had it worse or who got more likes on Facebook. What a bunch of children lol this will be a fun pregnancy, anyone else enjoying a pregnancy buddy lol
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It sounds like your friend and your cousin need to grow up and act like adults instead of trying to compete with each other so much. If I were you I would just stay out of it.
We started trying in November and I know how tough it was everytime AF was about due, which doesn't even hold a candle to what so many women go through. The last period I had was 3 days late and I was SO sure that was it and then was devestated when AF arrived.
It makes me sad when people make it into a competition. It's such a miracle to get pregnant and the be able to get through 9 months to end up with a healthy baby. I wish people were better about remembering we are all on the same team.
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Lo and behold the week after we announce our pregnancy, he announced that his gf & her three kids will be moving in with him. Too funny.
Wow that is so sad! This should be such a joyful time and making this a competition will ruin it. Please don't let it bother you. My cousin, who I am really close to got pregnant after me. Her due date was 2 weeks after mine but this past week she found out she is having twins and they moved her due date to 3 days before mine! And I couldn't be more excited for her! This is her 2nd (and 3rd) and we are both SO excited to go through this together. We both have respect for eachothers excitement with mine being out first and hers being twins.
I hope that the competition portion dies down for you guys soon.