@MalRiggs Buy some new sexy lingerie. I bought this cute, hot pink teddy and put it on at work (under my long coat of course!) so that I could surprise DH. It only lasted the one night but was totally worth it!
High heels. DH is 5'5 so I don't get to wear them often without feeling like Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise lol. But walking in them makes me feel like a vixen.
Here's an odd confession: Lexapro makes my clothes fall off. When I went off of my Lexapro, my sex drive was nonexistent. Once I went back on, though, I have been back to being feisty. I'm so used to hearing that medications decrease sex drive but I think the Lexapro helps keep my normal sex drive in place.
Read some raunchy books. I love historical romances.
OMG I am ashamed to admit it but The Other Boleyn Girl totally did it for me. We had so much sex while I was reading that book. It was ridiculous.
Funny, this was the book that started it all for me. I read a lot of historical fiction after that book but when I realized I liked the porny parts I moved on to other similar things. You should check out Elizabeth Chadwick - great books.
I just checked out 15 books on wed. I've already read two of them. Haha
I agree about the sexy outfits. DH and I talked about this before Christmas bc he said he wanted to get me something. I tried to say something simple....well....doesn't he go to aren't we naughty and get the most redicioulous thing ever! The back part of the thong is made of little jewels. How comfortable is that going to be??? The bra probably won't cover my nips!
Its a totally confidence thing. Not sure what's up, just think I'm exhausted (DD and sleep are not BFFs) and feeling fat. But I like the idea of dressing up. I totally had plans last weekend. In theory we were going to a very nice wedding down town (open bar!!) and were staying in a hotel. Lets just say plans didn't work out, bhoo.
I am supposed to be studying and DH just looked over at this thread and said "ummm, honey, that doesn't look like criminal procedure..." I blushed. But I have to confess in light of other posts, DH took away my dirty books because he said he couldn't keep up with me when I was reading them!
I hear you @MalRiggs. I've been having body issues on and off for month and it definitely takes its toll on my sex drive. I often try to just put my best foot forward! I'm sure things will come around for you!
Romance Novel Authors that guarantee sexy time for DH
JR Ward
Lora Leigh
Gena Showalter
Kresley Cole
Sherrilyn Kenyon
Karen Marie Moning
In case you ladies need inspiration.
@Rosebean I love kmm highlander series! I used to read them at work with a guilty glance over my shoulder to make sure no one was peaking, lol! Hot and steamy but really good stories and writing too.
@tamarar4 and @mishka29 you MUST MUST MUST read her FaeFever series. It includes all the highlanders and it is AMAZBALLLZ!!!!!!! It takes a 4 books into the 5 books series to get to any sexy time parts, but it sizzles the whole way there.
Really? I never could get into the fever series because I wanted her highlanders again. I miss the Highlanders. in not sure who is my favorite, Adam, Drustan or Dagus. Or maybe Grimm or Cian.
Ever seen the movie North and South? It is such a good show, and the guy that play John Thorton is gorgeous!
That man is smokin'! I've actually never seen it, but ironically, I remember the commericals from when it first aired! Has he been in anything else? He looks familiar!
If you're familiar with The Hobbit movies coming out recently he is one of the main characters. Sorry if I've missed other things in the thread and someone answered.
On the topic of hair.. I actually got to fix mine today!!! Shameless AW because I can't post a selfie on FB and be one of "those people" haha
Your hair looks fabulous! No judgement here. If I wasn't paranoid about posting pics on here, I'd have AW'd the shit out of my hair the other day. I got a blue streak put in that I looove. I live vicariously through y'all's selfies I guess lol
Re: The Hair Braiders Club
Cheers!
Funny, this was the book that started it all for me. I read a lot of historical fiction after that book but when I realized I liked the porny parts I moved on to other similar things. You should check out Elizabeth Chadwick - great books.
I just checked out 15 books on wed. I've already read two of them. Haha
Its a totally confidence thing. Not sure what's up, just think I'm exhausted (DD and sleep are not BFFs) and feeling fat. But I like the idea of dressing up. I totally had plans last weekend. In theory we were going to a very nice wedding down town (open bar!!) and were staying in a hotel. Lets just say plans didn't work out, bhoo.
Ooop, wrong thread lmao!
I like cookies.