My loss week is officially here...today I spent the day putting holes and caulking the babies room. My loss aniversary is next Thursday and I can't decide if I should work or take the day off? I already have Wednesday off for a dr appoint? And so far my Pgal brain is in check knock on wood! I can't wait for this summer to be over and more importantly till I get to hold this litte one who had been given strict instructions not to come out till November!
I'm so sorry for your loss. If it were me, I would go to work on my loss anniversary. I know if I took the day off I would spend the day dwelling, stressing, and being very anxious. I would need to keep busy.
I completely understand where your at! My loss anniversary is Thursday also and I try not to dwell on it so much but its hard. I took the day off to make sure I would be ok. Thankfully I have a OB appt that day so we will get to see LO on the U/S screen and know everything is ok, but a part of me keeps thinking that I would be so close to holding that LO so soon. ((Hugs))
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Loss anniversaries are tough. I have mine coming in August. I spent a lot of time thinking about it and have decided that I will work on mine just to keep busy. My husband is also not able to take off and I worry I would spend the day being very sad by myself. I will be thinking of you this week and wish you strength during this week.
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::hugs:: My loss anniversary is a ways away, but I think I would work on that day it would help to keep me focused and not anxious. That being said however, I will probably take some time that day to do something for myself and my LO who I lost. Maybe donate some time or money to a charity, if I can. Everyone is different though, more ::hugs::
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I would work... I had an obs appointment the day before my loss weekend, and it made it worse, espeically before it was like deja vu. We ended up have issues so I spent a lot of the weekend crying.
If I couldd do it again I would work:) Good Luck though!
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BFP#1 12/23/11 EDD 8/29/12. Frank P. Cirillo IV born on 8/19/12 at 2:34am. Grew his wings and went to heaven on 8/25/12.
My sweet angel Frankie. Love you so much!
BFP #2 5/21/13 EDD 1/25/14 Sam Frank P. born 1/17/14 Our rainbow baby is here!!
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I would work... I had an obs appointment the day before my loss weekend, and it made it worse, espeically before it was like deja vu. We ended up have issues so I spent a lot of the weekend crying.
If I couldd do it again I would work:) Good Luck though!