I told myself after the last loss, that was it. I wasn't trying again, it wasn't meant to be, etc. etc. but, I can't get the idea of a 3rd out of my mind. I cried yesterday at babies r us buying a shower gift. So, what do I do? See a specialist and see if it is an easy fix? I am pursuing having my thyroid checked - have an appt scheduled a week from Monday. I feel like such a mess. I told DH last night thy I wish I were just content with the two beautiful kids that we have, but my heart longs for one more.
I think you should pursue it until you feel it's the right time to close the door. Prayers and hugs to you and your family, pray you find the right direction to go.
Ditto this, provided your H is on board as well. How does he feel?
I am so sorry you are going through this! It's just not fair
I think you should pursue it until you feel it's the right time to close the door. Prayers and hugs to you and your family, pray you find the right direction to go.
Ditto this, provided your H is on board as well. How does he feel?
I am so sorry you are going through this! It's just not fair
thank y'all.
he told me last night he just wants me to be happy. He is one of those ultra-content people. He is great with two, but would love one more.
I think you should pursue it until you feel it's the right time to close the door. Prayers and hugs to you and your family, pray you find the right direction to go.
Ditto this, provided your H is on board as well. How does he feel?
I am so sorry you are going through this! It's just not fair
thank y'all.
he told me last night he just wants me to be happy. He is one of those ultra-content people. He is great with two, but would love one more.
That is really sweet.
At least go get checked out and see if there is a problem they can diagnose and then go from there? I don't know too much about the process, but if a dr can give you more information about what you are up against, that may help your decision-making.
I think you should pursue it until you feel it's the right time to close the door. Prayers and hugs to you and your family, pray you find the right direction to go.
Ditto this, provided your H is on board as well. How does he feel?
I am so sorry you are going through this! It's just not fair
thank y'all.
he told me last night he just wants me to be happy. He is one of those ultra-content people. He is great with two, but would love one more.
That is really sweet.
At least go get checked out and see if there is a problem they can diagnose and then go from there? I don't know too much about the process, but if a dr can give you more information about what you are up against, that may help your decision-making.
that is good advice. My best friend is a nurse and said it could be something simple like needing to take baby aspirin. I told DH anything invasive and I would be done. But, I don't want to always wonder if it was a simple fix.
I hate that you are going through this. Don't feel like you need to be over it, because you don't need to. If you and your H want to look into a possible cause and solution, I think that is a great option. That seems like a better option IMO than wondering "what if". I hope you are able to get some answers.
11/2010 Diagnosed with PCOS
10/31/11 M/C at 9 weeks 1/12/13 DD was born 4/9/16 DS was born 9/17 CP 6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19
There is no rush or need to "get over it" at any point. It will be with you the rest of your life and you will grieve your baby. However, if you feel that it is affecting your life so intensely that you want to seek out a therapist then you should do that. Listen to what you feel you need.
I also agree with what OP said, you should do what feels right for you and your husband.
There is no right or wrong choice, just whats right for you. I'm so sorry you've had to deal with all this pain, I can't even begin to imagine your sorrow.
The only thing that helped me after my last miscarriage was seeing a therapist. The miscarriages I had before DS were so much easier to deal with than the ones after. I really encourage you to find someone you can talk to. Big hugs, I know this isn't easy.
I also agree with what OP said, you should do what feels right for you and your husband.There is no right or wrong choice, just whats right for you.nbsp; I'm so sorry you've had to deal with all this pain, I can't even begin to imagine your sorrow.Tamp;P for you and yours.nbsp;
All this. It is so unfair, I hope you start to feel better soon!
Re: I am not over it
Ditto this, provided your H is on board as well. How does he feel?
I am so sorry you are going through this! It's just not fair
DS 3.12.08
DD 7.11.09
DD 8.01.13
thank y'all.
he told me last night he just wants me to be happy. He is one of those ultra-content people. He is great with two, but would love one more.
That is really sweet.
At least go get checked out and see if there is a problem they can diagnose and then go from there? I don't know too much about the process, but if a dr can give you more information about what you are up against, that may help your decision-making.
DS 3.12.08
DD 7.11.09
DD 8.01.13
that is good advice. My best friend is a nurse and said it could be something simple like needing to take baby aspirin. I told DH anything invasive and I would be done. But, I don't want to always wonder if it was a simple fix.
1/12/13 DD was born
4/9/16 DS was born
9/17 CP
6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19
I am so sorry for your loss.
There is no rush or need to "get over it" at any point. It will be with you the rest of your life and you will grieve your baby. However, if you feel that it is affecting your life so intensely that you want to seek out a therapist then you should do that. Listen to what you feel you need.
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I also agree with what OP said, you should do what feels right for you and your husband.
There is no right or wrong choice, just whats right for you. I'm so sorry you've had to deal with all this pain, I can't even begin to imagine your sorrow.
T&P for you and yours.
((Hugs.)) I've had 2 losses as well.
I think you are on the right track with first testing your thyroid & then following up with your OB from there.
GL!
All this. It is so unfair, I hope you start to feel better soon!