TTC After a Loss

PSA: The New Board READ THIS FIRST!!!!!!

PinkCaminoPinkCamino member
edited July 2013 in TTC After a Loss

Morning ladies,

So if you're anything like me I bet you were shocked to find a completely different layout here this morning.

I have to admit, I'm not loving the new set up but I guess I'll get used to it. At a minimum there are some pretty cool smilies we can use.

I just wanted to give everyone a heads up that tickers seems to be wonky. It looks like TB rolled us all back to a previous signature which for some of us means unfortunately finding old pregnancy tickers. ((BIG HUGS)) to any ladies that were affected by that.

In addition, on my end, there are random posts and sticky threads that have absolutely nothing to do with TTCAL. There are random baby photos and such popping up throughout the threads so I wanted to give you a heads up about that as well.

Basically, OPEN WITH CAUTION at this point.

Now, since we have this cool feature @bumpjackie - is there any way we can make this a safe place again? It's very difficult to come here, have to adapt to all these new changes and be slapped in the face with old pregnancy tickers and random baby and bump photos!!

Re: PSA: The New Board READ THIS FIRST!!!!!!

  • edited July 2013
    Yeah, I just opened a post here and all the replies were from people with pregnancy tickers complaining about morning sickness...obviously they were not posted on this board. I so, so so did not need that today.

    The formatting is also TERRIBLE. OMG. How is this an improvement?!

    A while ago, when The Nest pulled something just like this, basically everyone up and left to another site. I am on that site and it works great, but obviously you don't get as many newbies. I feel like another massive exodus is going to happen at this rate..

    ETA: Aaaand my siggy is somehow back to what it was for the 3-ish weeks I was pg with my 2nd loss. What a slap in the face. And I'm sorry for people who are hurt by that, but I'm most certainly not KU with that pg anymore.

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    TTC #1 since Sept 2011
    BFP#1 1/31/12. Empty sac discovered 3/5/12. MTX due to location in uterine horn.
    BFP#2 2/27/13. Empty sac confirmed 3/20/13. Mifepristone + cytotec.
    Currently TTA until Fall 2013, waiting for operative hysteroscopy
    Blog   ​Chart

  • Thanks for the heads up Pink. I noticed the new header no longer gives access to our link. @bumpjackie, is this going to be fixed?

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  • buggirl72 said:
    Thanks for the heads up Pink. I noticed the new header no longer gives access to our link. @bumpjackie, is this going to be fixed?
    There's an old sticky thread that has the link posted at the very top.

    I'm really not loving those announcements at the top. @bumpjackie this is hurting a ton of ladies today [-X
  • And does everyone else have a bunch of random threads up at the top with all kinds of pregnant posters? From like last year? WTF, bump?!

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    TTC #1 since Sept 2011
    BFP#1 1/31/12. Empty sac discovered 3/5/12. MTX due to location in uterine horn.
    BFP#2 2/27/13. Empty sac confirmed 3/20/13. Mifepristone + cytotec.
    Currently TTA until Fall 2013, waiting for operative hysteroscopy
    Blog   ​Chart

  • Mrs.E.07 said:
    And does everyone else have a bunch of random threads up at the top with all kinds of pregnant posters? From like last year? WTF, bump?!
    Yup.

    This is a horrible heartbreaking mess. Did not need to see all of this today.
  • Mrs.E.07 said:
    And does everyone else have a bunch of random threads up at the top with all kinds of pregnant posters? From like last year? WTF, bump?!
    Yup.

    This is a horrible heartbreaking mess. Did not need to see all of this today.
    Seriously. (((hugs)))
    someone needs to start one of those stinto or whatever they're called chat rooms so we can hang out there today instead. I don't remember how to do it though.

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    TTC #1 since Sept 2011
    BFP#1 1/31/12. Empty sac discovered 3/5/12. MTX due to location in uterine horn.
    BFP#2 2/27/13. Empty sac confirmed 3/20/13. Mifepristone + cytotec.
    Currently TTA until Fall 2013, waiting for operative hysteroscopy
    Blog   ​Chart

  • Mrs.E.07 said:




    Mrs.E.07 said:

    And does everyone else have a bunch of random threads up at the top with all kinds of pregnant posters? From like last year? WTF, bump?!

    Yup.

    This is a horrible heartbreaking mess. Did not need to see all of this today.

    Seriously. (((hugs)))
    someone needs to start one of those stinto or whatever they're called chat rooms so we can hang out there today instead. I don't remember how to do it though.


    ::hugs:: to all who need them...I can't see my siggy right now but I am not looking forward to deleting my pregnancy ticker a second time...



    mean_girls_35345Image and video hosting by TinyPic         PAL Sep challenge George Takei image
    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


    image   Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie First Birthday tickers
  • Serenla said:
    Mrs.E.07 said:
    And does everyone else have a bunch of random threads up at the top with all kinds of pregnant posters? From like last year? WTF, bump?!
    Yup.

    This is a horrible heartbreaking mess. Did not need to see all of this today.
    Seriously. (((hugs)))
    someone needs to start one of those stinto or whatever they're called chat rooms so we can hang out there today instead. I don't remember how to do it though.
    ::hugs:: to all who need them...I can't see my siggy right now but I am not looking forward to deleting my pregnancy ticker a second time...
    Your siggy is safe. It's of your chart I think.
  • Thanks for the heads up!
    BFP #1 7/23/12: EDD 4/1/13.  MMC discovered on 9/4/12 @ 10w1d
    BFP# 2 3/9/13:  EDD 11/12/13 m/c 3/15/13 @ 5w3d
    RPL testing shows one copy of MTHFR gene mutation. 
     BFP#3 12/24/13: EDD 9/5/14 Beta #1 13 DPO 168! Beta #2 16 DPO 895!
     First US 1/9/14 @ 5w6d Strong HB!
    2nd US 1/23/14 @ 7w6d baby is still doing great! 3rd US 1/31/14  9w0d: Beautiful wiggly baby! Keep growing baby!
    3/17/14 US @ 15w3d:Its a BOY!

     

    My rainbow baby Isaac has arrived! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

  • Serenla said:

    Mrs.E.07 said:




    Mrs.E.07 said:

    And does everyone else have a bunch of random threads up at the top with all kinds of pregnant posters? From like last year? WTF, bump?!

    Yup.

    This is a horrible heartbreaking mess. Did not need to see all of this today.

    Seriously. (((hugs)))
    someone needs to start one of those stinto or whatever they're called chat rooms so we can hang out there today instead. I don't remember how to do it though.
    ::hugs:: to all who need them...I can't see my siggy right now but I am not looking forward to deleting my pregnancy ticker a second time...


    Your siggy is safe. It's of your chart I think.

    Well that is goodish I guess but there are other people I'm sure who are having a hard time. Hey bump gods, next time you change over like this again there is a little something called beta testing, try it!



    mean_girls_35345Image and video hosting by TinyPic         PAL Sep challenge George Takei image
    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


    image   Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie First Birthday tickers
  • I felt like multiple threads were merged or something.  It's annoying and I HATE the new format. 

    TTCAL Siggy Challenge: "He's my favorite.  His birthday is the same as mine almost"

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    Missing my little one lost at 9 weeks on 2.24.13. brokenhearted but not broken... 

    d&c 5/21/13... Still Healing, Still Standing... 

    MMC discovered 10/2/2013, TWINS... d&c 10/7/2013.  I still miss you, little ones. 

    Surgery December 2013 to remove a 10+cm fibroid... Open myomectomy. Benched for 3-9 months... 
    Will TTC summer Summer 2014 we hope!

    Dear God, Since I couldn't hold my little one in my lap and tell him about you, could you hold him in your lap and tell him about me? 

    PgAL and PAL always welcome...
  • SerenlaSerenla member
    edited July 2013
    SoxFan777 said:

    I felt like multiple threads were merged or something.  It's annoying and I HATE the new format. 

    Agreed



    mean_girls_35345Image and video hosting by TinyPic         PAL Sep challenge George Takei image
    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


    image   Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie First Birthday tickers
  • edited July 2013
    I think your ticker might be wrong. It says day 3 of 30. 15 days until ovulation. 

    That was a quote fail for Serenla
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • SerenlaSerenla member
    edited July 2013
    Testing something...
    Eta it appears mobile users can upload pics. Mini Vader says hi. At the bottom of the screen select insert file.



    mean_girls_35345Image and video hosting by TinyPic         PAL Sep challenge George Takei image
    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


    image   Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie First Birthday tickers
  • Also, my ticker is completely gone! WTH! And I'm also getting random news feed as well.
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • What a mess! Ugh! I hope I can get used to these changes and that they can work out all the kinks. I feel like I can't even navigated the board right now. 
                               
                  
                 BFP#1  9/5/12, MMC, MC confirmed 10/9/12,          
                D&C 12/12/12
    BFP#2 7/30/13, EDD 4/12/14, DS born 4/14/14
                                                                             
                                                                            
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  • How do I get my FF ticker to show up? Every time I put it in my sig, it just shows up as a clicky link! Same thing for my lilypie ticker too! Help!
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • What a mess! Ugh! I hope I can get used to these changes and that they can work out all the kinks. I feel like I can't even navigated the board right now. 
    Your signature is just a clicky link too.
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • Pink021 said:
    How do I get my FF ticker to show up? Every time I put it in my sig, it just shows up as a clicky link! Same thing for my lilypie ticker too! Help!
    Copy the image of the ticker and paste that into your siggy, the HTML isn't working for some reason.
    This is ridiculous. I hope they get this fixed soon. Pasting the images is fine, but then like for FF you can't click on it to chart stalk people and it won't update itself either.
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • wow....Yeah....I was totally confused when I logged in and I can't even change my sig right now...


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  • jap618jap618 member
    I hate this.. all of this.  I have a "New Mom's" post at the top of my page.  Thanks but I'm not a "New Mom" like I should be in T-4 days.  So thanks for the reminder TB.  I have random pregnancy posts throughout other posts so I'm reading all about people's "symptoms" going away at 7 weeks and their MS.  FLIPPING AWESOME.  This is what I needed today as I came to check in with the multiple loss ladies.  I hate the set up and everything about it.  RARHHHH. 
    Married the love of my life June 18, 2011 -- Me (28) DH (29)
    TTC #1 since June 2012
    BFP #1 6.29.12 EDD 3.12.13 MMC discovered 8.11.12 9w5d D&C 8.15.12
    BFP #2 11.2.12 EDD 7.14.13 MMC 6w5d discovered 8w6d 2 failed rounds miso D&C 12.27.12
    BFP #3 8.5.13 EDD 4.18.14 MMC 7w4d discovered 9.25.13 at 10w6d -Trisomy 13- 1 round miso & emergency D&C 10.2.13
    RPL Testing. DX Asherman's November 2013. Low AMH (0.44) January 2014. 
    Operative Hysteroscopy January 2014 to remove scar tissue.
    BFP#4 6.18.14 EDD 3.3.15 Team Pink
    --AL always welcome--
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  • Thankfully I haven't seen any of the "new mom" posts that others have mentioned ((((HUGS))) but it is a HUGE change!  Having the "Newbies read this" and link to the blog at the top is really nice but the others are old...  

    Thanks for the heads up and (((hugs))) to everyone who needs them after logging in to see all the mess!!
    BFP #1 October 2008 | m/c Thanksgiving weekend | November 2008 | 7 weeks 2 days
    BFP #2 February 2009 | m/c March 2009 | 4 weeks 3 days
    Testing on mom and dad for possible reasons all came back normal.
    BFP #3 8/4/2009 | DD born 3/28/10 @ 38 weeks
    BFP #4 5/13/11 | m/c 6/15/11 | 8 weeks 6 days
    BFP #5 2/13/13 | CP 2/19/13 | 4 weeks 
    BFP #6 3/21/14 | Heard the HB on 4/16 | m/c 4/21/14 | 9 weeks
    Testing results all returned normal and baby was a GIRL.
    More testing on mom and dad for other issues all returned normal results.
    BFP #7 10/15 | DS born 6/4/16 @ 36 weeks 
    BFP #8 9/28/17 AHHH!!!  |  EDD 6/6/18

    "Dear Lord, I would have loved to have held my babies on my lap & tell them about you, but since I didn't get the chance, would you please hold them on your lap & tell them about me?"
    All are welcome!


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  • edited July 2013
    Plus I don't like how the siggys are all left aligned.  It drives me CRAZY that it's not centered ow I had it formatted before!!
    BFP #1 October 2008 | m/c Thanksgiving weekend | November 2008 | 7 weeks 2 days
    BFP #2 February 2009 | m/c March 2009 | 4 weeks 3 days
    Testing on mom and dad for possible reasons all came back normal.
    BFP #3 8/4/2009 | DD born 3/28/10 @ 38 weeks
    BFP #4 5/13/11 | m/c 6/15/11 | 8 weeks 6 days
    BFP #5 2/13/13 | CP 2/19/13 | 4 weeks 
    BFP #6 3/21/14 | Heard the HB on 4/16 | m/c 4/21/14 | 9 weeks
    Testing results all returned normal and baby was a GIRL.
    More testing on mom and dad for other issues all returned normal results.
    BFP #7 10/15 | DS born 6/4/16 @ 36 weeks 
    BFP #8 9/28/17 AHHH!!!  |  EDD 6/6/18

    "Dear Lord, I would have loved to have held my babies on my lap & tell them about you, but since I didn't get the chance, would you please hold them on your lap & tell them about me?"
    All are welcome!


    Babysizer Cravings Pregnancy Tracker
  • I think your ticker might be wrong. It says day 3 of 30. 15 days until ovulation. 

    That was a quote fail for Serenla
    What the hell? I've never had a ticker for ovulation! Riiiight, I will need to fix this when I get home.



    mean_girls_35345Image and video hosting by TinyPic         PAL Sep challenge George Takei image
    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


    image   Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie First Birthday tickers
  • Plus I don't like how the siggys are all left aligned.  It drives me CRAZY that it's not centered how I had it formatted before!!
    You can center format it in the signature settings area. I'm the same way... the left alignment is grating on my slightly OCD nerves.
    Good to know!  Thank you!! I'll have to try and navigate my way through this mess and fix it!  
    BFP #1 October 2008 | m/c Thanksgiving weekend | November 2008 | 7 weeks 2 days
    BFP #2 February 2009 | m/c March 2009 | 4 weeks 3 days
    Testing on mom and dad for possible reasons all came back normal.
    BFP #3 8/4/2009 | DD born 3/28/10 @ 38 weeks
    BFP #4 5/13/11 | m/c 6/15/11 | 8 weeks 6 days
    BFP #5 2/13/13 | CP 2/19/13 | 4 weeks 
    BFP #6 3/21/14 | Heard the HB on 4/16 | m/c 4/21/14 | 9 weeks
    Testing results all returned normal and baby was a GIRL.
    More testing on mom and dad for other issues all returned normal results.
    BFP #7 10/15 | DS born 6/4/16 @ 36 weeks 
    BFP #8 9/28/17 AHHH!!!  |  EDD 6/6/18

    "Dear Lord, I would have loved to have held my babies on my lap & tell them about you, but since I didn't get the chance, would you please hold them on your lap & tell them about me?"
    All are welcome!


    Babysizer Cravings Pregnancy Tracker
  • EKGibsEKGibs member
    This sucks. :((
    TTC since 4/28/07
    Diagnosed w/ endometriosis 12/2010 Laproscopic surgery & 6 months of Lupron
    BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate
    Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.

    June '13 Decided to go the adoption route!

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  • gscovillegscoville member
    edited July 2013
    This change is horrible, I'm usually one who adapts easily to things like all those FB changes over the years, but this is pretty extreme. Navigation is horrible, I haven't been able to find the other boards, and many threads have just disappeared. Like my Newbie checkin from yesterday, it's just GONE!! Fluuuuuck....


         

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    Married August 2012. Me: 41  DH: 42 
    Daughter from previous marriage: 20

    BFP 12/19/12: Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
    June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161
    Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014

    TTC journey over as of the end of October 2014

    TTCAL BLOG

    All ALers welcome!

  • Kinda glad I am mobile now if there is siggy bs going on. Appologies if mine has anything it shouldnt in it. Come on TB, really???

    BFP#2 2.5.11 (EDD 10.15.11) DS born 9.28.11

    BFP#4 8.27.13 (EDD 5.6.14) DD born 4.23.14

     

    Lilypie - (2llN)

    Lilypie - (2L9u)

     

      My Recipe Blog
    ~All AL'ers welcome~

  • Just looked at the Real Moms thread. I know it doesnt take away the sting of the sigs, but know that nearly every name I saw on the thread is a AL momma. Almost all of them were here with me after my first loss.

    BFP#2 2.5.11 (EDD 10.15.11) DS born 9.28.11

    BFP#4 8.27.13 (EDD 5.6.14) DD born 4.23.14

     

    Lilypie - (2llN)

    Lilypie - (2L9u)

     

      My Recipe Blog
    ~All AL'ers welcome~

  • Thanks TB for making my delete my pregnancy ticker, again. Started my morning out just great.

    I also can't figure out this flucking siggy thing!

    "Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
    **All After a Loss Welcome**
    BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
    BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
    BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
    BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
    BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!
     

    BabyFruit Ticker


  • Guys -- I can't express how sorry I am that old tickers and siggys came back. I have this with the tech team.
    You should be able to edit your siggys in your settings and remove. Please PM if you have trouble.

    Again, so sorry.
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  • Mrs.E.07 said:
    And does everyone else have a bunch of random threads up at the top with all kinds of pregnant posters? From like last year? WTF, bump?!
    Hey Mrs E. - You can organize how you see posts in your settings
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  • @bumpjackie I had my profile set to private with the old set up. Can I do this again?
  • Yeah I got a new pregnancy update email today from the bump (didn't get it last week because I SAID I WASN'T PREGNANT ANYMORE). Thanks for reminding me I would have been 12wks today :((
    27 y.o. Married since Sept 12.

    BFP 5/20/13  m/c 6/27/13
    We will be TTC starting in August.

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