TP to this flucking heat wave, when it gets this hot DH doesn't want to BD at all. It took a lot of convincing last night and I am sure tomorrow will not be any easier. Grumble grumble grumble...
PAL Sep challenge George Takei
Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
TP to a "friend" who I realized on July 4th had deleted DH and I from her Facebook and blocked us. When I asked her what was going on she said that she did it because it was too hard for her to see what we have been going through with losing both babies....ummm it's too hard for her? I can guarantee its nothing compared to how hard it is for me.
I honestly could care less about us not being friends on Facebook because its just Facebook....but don't say that my losses are too hard for you. And then say you are still here to support us....uhh obviously not!
BFP #1 7/23/12: EDD 4/1/13. MMC discovered on 9/4/12 @ 10w1d BFP# 2 3/9/13: EDD 11/12/13 m/c 3/15/13 @ 5w3d RPL testing shows one copy of MTHFR gene mutation.
TP to this flucking heat wave, when it gets this hot DH doesn't want to BD at all. It took a lot of convincing last night and I am sure tomorrow will not be any easier. Grumble grumble grumble...
DH doesn't do well with heat either. During the summer he is so grumpy and doesn't want to do anything. Good luck getting your DH to BD!
BFP #1 7/23/12: EDD 4/1/13. MMC discovered on 9/4/12 @ 10w1d BFP# 2 3/9/13: EDD 11/12/13 m/c 3/15/13 @ 5w3d RPL testing shows one copy of MTHFR gene mutation.
TP to this flucking heat wave, when it gets this hot DH doesn't want to BD at all. It took a lot of convincing last night and I am sure tomorrow will not be any easier. Grumble grumble grumble...
Haha, mine is like this as well. He doesn't like our skin to touch when we're both sweaty
I'd like to TP my pale skin. I'm totally fried from the beach yesterday so I only got to go for a little while today before I decided it was not smart to stay out in the sun.
TP to a "friend" who I realized on July 4th had deleted DH and I from her Facebook and blocked us. When I asked her what was going on she said that she did it because it was too hard for her to see what we have been going through with losing both babies....ummm it's too hard for her? I can guarantee its nothing compared to how hard it is for me.
I honestly could care less about us not being friends on Facebook because its just Facebook....but don't say that my losses are too hard for you. And then say you are still here to support us....uhh obviously not!
Riiight TPs to her. If she was serious about supporting you but had a problem with those updates, she could have hidden your posts for a while. It seems to me that something else might be going on that made her block you.
PAL Sep challenge George Takei
Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
I'd like to TP my pale skin. I'm totally fried from the beach yesterday so I only got to go for a little while today before I decided it was not smart to stay out in the sun.
Sizzle sizzle sizzle. Put some lotion in your burn, maybe that will help it feel better.
PAL Sep challenge George Takei
Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
TP to a "friend" who I realized on July 4th had deleted DH and I from her Facebook and blocked us. When I asked her what was going on she said that she did it because it was too hard for her to see what we have been going through with losing both babies....ummm it's too hard for her? I can guarantee its nothing compared to how hard it is for me.
I honestly could care less about us not being friends on Facebook because its just Facebook....but don't say that my losses are too hard for you. And then say you are still here to support us....uhh obviously not!
Riiight TPs to her. If she was serious about supporting you but had a problem with those updates, she could have hidden your posts for a while. It seems to me that something else might be going on that made her block you.
My thoughts exactly. You don't just block someone for no reason. But really what makes me mad is her saying it is too hard for her....that statement is what got to me. And don't say you still want to support me but I obviously can't talk to her now about anything loss related because its to hard for her to deal with
BFP #1 7/23/12: EDD 4/1/13. MMC discovered on 9/4/12 @ 10w1d BFP# 2 3/9/13: EDD 11/12/13 m/c 3/15/13 @ 5w3d RPL testing shows one copy of MTHFR gene mutation.
I'd like to TP my pale skin. I'm totally fried from the beach yesterday so I only got to go for a little while today before I decided it was not smart to stay out in the sun.
Ugh sunburns are the worst! Lather up with some aloe!
BFP #1 7/23/12: EDD 4/1/13. MMC discovered on 9/4/12 @ 10w1d BFP# 2 3/9/13: EDD 11/12/13 m/c 3/15/13 @ 5w3d RPL testing shows one copy of MTHFR gene mutation.
This b!tch gets my TP as well!
ETA oops quote fail! I was referring to doglover's selfcentered exFB friend.
Thanks! I thought it was selfish also!
she could not be such a twatwaffle---if it is hard for her she could just block your posts from her feed...a full on block seems really overzealous. TP to her.
ME (26) DH (32) Diagnosis- unexplained recurrent pregnancy loss
TP to a "friend" who I realized on July 4th had deleted DH and I from her Facebook and blocked us. When I asked her what was going on she said that she did it because it was too hard for her to see what we have been going through with losing both babies....ummm it's too hard for her? I can guarantee its nothing compared to how hard it is for me.
I honestly could care less about us not being friends on Facebook because its just Facebook....but don't say that my losses are too hard for you. And then say you are still here to support us....uhh obviously not!
wow that is very self-centred and hurtful to say and do! Has she had any losses? The only thing I can think of is she has had a (recent?) loss too and seeing your posts is making it harder for her to deal with her own loss? Still unnecessary, but we know post-loss we are irrational at times... if she hasn't had a loss then I don't even get it in the least. ((hugs)) Hopefully you have true friends who are there for you- and of course, we are here always!
No she hasn't had any losses...I have amazing friends who make up for that though!
BFP #1 7/23/12: EDD 4/1/13. MMC discovered on 9/4/12 @ 10w1d BFP# 2 3/9/13: EDD 11/12/13 m/c 3/15/13 @ 5w3d RPL testing shows one copy of MTHFR gene mutation.
People are just so nosey and rude! She definitely deserves a triple TP! And that was so kind of the other woman I've had a few moments when I had to ask myself the same question, "Did that really happen?!"
TP to the poster in MC/PL who just came in to tell us about her BFP and ask if we had advice on how she could avoid a M/C. As usual, people took the time to give a sincere reply -- including kindly worded advice about the inappropriateness of her post and the fact that she should not DD. Of course, she DD'd anyway. I know this happens all the time. It just really bothered me.
BFP of a DDer mentioned below:nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;TP to the poster in MC/PL who just came in to tell us about her BFP and ask if we had advice on how she could avoid a M/C. As usual, people took the time to give a sincere reply including kindly worded advice about the inappropriateness of her post and the fact that she should not DD. Of course, she DD'd anyway. I know this happens all the time. It just really bothered me.
FFS, what a doucecanoe. I am sorry the ladies there had to see that. How completely and utterly innapropriate.
BFP of a DDer mentioned below:nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;TP to the poster in MC/PL who just came in to tell us about her BFP and ask if we had advice on how she could avoid a M/C. As usual, people took the time to give a sincere reply including kindly worded advice about the inappropriateness of her post and the fact that she should not DD. Of course, she DD'd anyway. I know this happens all the time. It just really bothered me.
FFS, what a doucecanoe. I am sorry the ladies there had to see that. How completely and utterly innapropriate.
What a bit.ch. How horrendously inappropriate. Ugh...just ugh!!
PAL Sep challenge George Takei
Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
Can I triple TP the check out lady I use to like at my grocery store?? She "just happened to notice" I never purchase "baby things". "Don't you want kids, honey??" I could have reached right over the counter and strangled her. She continued to go on about how happy having her first child made her...blah, blah, blah. I took a deep breath, closed my eyes, then as kindly as possible told her we are planning on having a family, but the time isn't right just yet.nbsp;What is the opposite of a Throat Punch, btw? Because I would love to give that to the lady who tracked me down in the parking lot and asked to give me a hug and reassured me that that lady was way out of line. She told me she struggled to start a family and I shared our loss with her. Oh, and she walked back inside with me to talk to a manager.Needless to say, after it was all done...on the way home I kept asking myself "Did that just happen??"nbsp;
It is weird enough to receive comments on purchases, much less fertility commentary. I am so sorry you had to deal with that, it was really out of line and the check out line really should be a relatively safe zone. I am glad that other woman was there to counteract the beesch.
What Q said. That clerk was waaasay out of line, I hope she was disciplined. I'm sorry you had to deal with that crap.
PAL Sep challenge George Takei
Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
BFP of a DDer mentioned below:nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;TP to the poster in MC/PL who just came in to tell us about her BFP and ask if we had advice on how she could avoid a M/C. As usual, people took the time to give a sincere reply including kindly worded advice about the inappropriateness of her post and the fact that she should not DD. Of course, she DD'd anyway. I know this happens all the time. It just really bothered me.
FFS, what a doucecanoe. I am sorry the ladies there had to see that. How completely and utterly innapropriate.
What a bit.ch. How horrendously inappropriate. Ugh...just ugh!!
Thanks, ladies. FFS and ugh is exactly what I said to myself. What a bia.
Re: Throat Punch Time!
I honestly could care less about us not being friends on Facebook because its just Facebook....but don't say that my losses are too hard for you. And then say you are still here to support us....uhh obviously not!
BFP# 2 3/9/13: EDD 11/12/13 m/c 3/15/13 @ 5w3d
RPL testing shows one copy of MTHFR gene mutation.
My rainbow baby Isaac has arrived!
DH doesn't do well with heat either. During the summer he is so grumpy and doesn't want to do anything. Good luck getting your DH to BD!
BFP# 2 3/9/13: EDD 11/12/13 m/c 3/15/13 @ 5w3d
RPL testing shows one copy of MTHFR gene mutation.
My rainbow baby Isaac has arrived!
ETA oops quote fail! I was referring to doglover's selfcentered exFB friend.
TTC since March 2012
BFP #1 1/29/13, EDD 10/9/13
BFP #3 8/11/14 EDD 4/22/14
Haha, mine is like this as well. He doesn't like our skin to touch when we're both sweaty
TTC since March 2012
BFP #1 1/29/13, EDD 10/9/13
BFP #3 8/11/14 EDD 4/22/14
TTC since March 2012
BFP #1 1/29/13, EDD 10/9/13
BFP #3 8/11/14 EDD 4/22/14
Riiight TPs to her. If she was serious about supporting you but had a problem with those updates, she could have hidden your posts for a while. It seems to me that something else might be going on that made her block you.
Sizzle sizzle sizzle. Put some lotion in your burn, maybe that will help it feel better.
Thanks! I thought it was selfish also!
BFP# 2 3/9/13: EDD 11/12/13 m/c 3/15/13 @ 5w3d
RPL testing shows one copy of MTHFR gene mutation.
My rainbow baby Isaac has arrived!
My thoughts exactly. You don't just block someone for no reason. But really what makes me mad is her saying it is too hard for her....that statement is what got to me. And don't say you still want to support me but I obviously can't talk to her now about anything loss related because its to hard for her to deal with
BFP# 2 3/9/13: EDD 11/12/13 m/c 3/15/13 @ 5w3d
RPL testing shows one copy of MTHFR gene mutation.
My rainbow baby Isaac has arrived!
Ugh sunburns are the worst! Lather up with some aloe!
BFP# 2 3/9/13: EDD 11/12/13 m/c 3/15/13 @ 5w3d
RPL testing shows one copy of MTHFR gene mutation.
My rainbow baby Isaac has arrived!
she could not be such a twatwaffle---if it is hard for her she could just block your posts from her feed...a full on block seems really overzealous. TP to her.
No she hasn't had any losses...I have amazing friends who make up for that though!
BFP# 2 3/9/13: EDD 11/12/13 m/c 3/15/13 @ 5w3d
RPL testing shows one copy of MTHFR gene mutation.
My rainbow baby Isaac has arrived!
BFP (of a DD-er) mentioned below:
TP to the poster in MC/PL who just came in to tell us about her BFP and ask if we had advice on how she could avoid a M/C. As usual, people took the time to give a sincere reply -- including kindly worded advice about the inappropriateness of her post and the fact that she should not DD. Of course, she DD'd anyway. I know this happens all the time. It just really bothered me.
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BFP#4 8.27.13 (EDD 5.6.14) DD born 4.23.14
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What a bit.ch. How horrendously inappropriate. Ugh...just ugh!!
What Q said. That clerk was waaasay out of line, I hope she was disciplined. I'm sorry you had to deal with that crap.
Thanks, ladies. FFS and ugh is exactly what I said to myself. What a bia.