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Suuuper slow day GTKY sexy style

The board is so slow today that I've spent a lot of my time over on TTCAL where they have polls on Wednesday.  As a hump day theme all their polls today are about sex so how 'bout a GTKY over here stealing their inspiration?  Don't be shy, we all already share info on CM, AF, TI, etc 

1.  Best sex eva!?  Home or destination?  If not at home, where?

2.  First big O?  Manual, mechanical, or through good old fashion sex? (alone or with someone?)

3.  Do you know your DH's "number"? Does he know yours?

4.  Ever had a one night stand?  And by that I mean a stranger, not a one time friend with benefits. 

5.  Ever had a friend with benefits? 



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  • Ok, since I started this I will get the ball rolling to break the ice...

    1.  The best ever has still been at home although I have a few times in hotels or once at a park that come really close (no pun intended).

    2.  First big O was aided with mechanical after my first sex toy party.  That virbator broke after a few years and I still miss it to this day :::tear:::

    3. I don't know Dh's and he doesn't know mine.  Since I was 29 and he was 35 when we met, I don't really want to know!  We do know when we lost our virginities.  And the longest relationships, etc.  but the nitty gritty details?  Nah, better leave that stone unturned!

    4.  Yes, a bit slutty sounding to admit I've had three.  But again, I was 29 before meeting DH and dang it I had needs LOL.  

    5.  I like to think of it as a relationship (my third longest) but really it was just FwB.  We were really good friends, but would have been horrible as a traditional couple.  The way we had things set up was so much better in the long run and we parted due to moving with no hard feelings, just good memories.


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    1.  Best sex eva!?  Home or destination?  If not at home, where?  In a hotel.  There were two beds and a big leather ottoman that we took full advantage of.

    2.  First big O?  Manual, mechanical, or through good old fashion sex? (alone or with someone?)  I'm too old to remember!

    3.  Do you know your DH's "number"? Does he know yours?  DH doesn't know his own number!  He has a general idea and I know that.  It is very typical of him to not keep track.  He knows mine.  I know every name and definitely kept track.

    4.  Ever had a one night stand?  And by that I mean a stranger, not a one time friend with benefits. Yes and not ashamed to admit that I had two.  One was amazing and the other only so-so.

    5.  Ever had a friend with benefits?  Yes, two.  One is almost 10 years older than I am.  He taught me a lot about how a lady should be treated both in and out of the bedroom.  He lived 3 hours away and would come here for business.  I got to stay in a lot of hotel rooms in my home town because of him.  The other was a fellow photography student who was just too hot to keep my hands off.  We knew we could never date and are still friends to this day.....without benefits!!  



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    2.  First big O was aided with mechanical after my first sex toy party.  That virbator broke after a few years and I still miss it to this day :::tear:::

    Sounds like you need to host a Passion Party or go online with your honey to find a new one!

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    Hysteroscopy to remove both 10/5
    IUI #5-7 50mg Clomid + trigger = BFN  
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  • Even though I'm typically a pearl-clutching prude, I'll answer.

    1. Hotel - with DH, back when we were dating in college.

    2. Manual. Confession: I have never used anything mechanical. Don't own a single toy, never have.

    3. I know a rough estimate of his number, it's much higher than mine. He knows my number.

    4. I'm not proud of it, but yes. Spring break, Daytona Beach. Ugh. We briefly kept in touch afterward, he sent me flowers, it got weird.

    5. Yes. My first was a friends with benefits type deal. We were in high school and experimenting.  

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  • It has been slow today, which is a bummer b/c work has been slow, too.  So I'll chime in...

    1. I'd just say at home.  My husband would say in Vegas b/c it was hot...but I was so drunk, I barely felt anything :P

    2. Manual

    3. yes and yes. Luckily, the numbers are pretty close.  He was in a band and I was a horny girl in my early/mid 20s, I guess...At least we got our individual crazy years out of our system. 

    4/5. Yes to both - I'd refer back to my self-deprecating explanation in the answer to #3...



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  • 1. Best sex eva!? Home or destination? If not at home, where? Destination! There is just something about hotel sex....

    2. First big O? Manual, mechanical, or through good old fashion sex? (alone or with someone?) Manuel when I was about 15. Too much making out in back of car + curfew and needing to be inside by midnight = one sexually frustrated 15 year old.

    3. Do you know your DH's "number"? Does he know yours? Yes and yes. DH only had 3, making me look like a super shlut bag by comparison at 13. He doesn't care; He was the one in the long term relationship for 6 years and I played the field!

    4. Ever had a one night stand? And by that I mean a stranger, not a one time friend with benefits. Um yep. In Vegas. I met a cage fighter who was super hot, if I say so myself. And I was young and single.

    5. Ever had a friend with benefits? Yes, but it didn't work so well. At first it did, but then he wanted a relationship. Blah.

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    3. Do you know your DH's "number"? Does he know yours? Yes and yes. DH only had 3, making me look like a super shlut bag by comparison at 13. He doesn't care; He was the one in the long term relationship for 6 years and I played the field!

    This is why I don't want to know Dh's number!  Mine is 13 too but We met when I was 29 and he was 35...Since he lost his virginity at 14 I can only imagine what 21 years worth of sex might add up to since I was only active for ten years (ten really wild years!) before meeting DH!


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    IUI#5 BFN (April 2013)
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    BFP! Beta 1:104 @ 10dp6dt, Beta 2:178 @ 12dp6dt,  beta 3:366 @ 14dp6dt
    Saw heartbeat twice before missed M/C at 8w3d on 12/27/13, missing my little angel boy
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  • 1. Tough one!  we had some great sex on our honeymoon (which was One year after we got married) but we've also had really great sex at home too.  We also laugh about the summer that we dated long distance, and when we'd meet up for the weekend, we'd have sex like 6 days in 2.5 days!

    2. manual by DH. I also don't have any sex toys or vibrators. I am not opposed to exploring that in the future if we need to spice it up :)

    3. we are actually each other's #1.  We were both virgins when we met the first week in college.

    4. and 5. so no, (see above) but I did have a one-night stand in college that involved hooking up but not going the distance.  (I may have pretended to be asleep, legs crossed). haha  He kept calling and texting me to meet up again, and I wasn't interested because things were finally going in the right direction with future-DH!  I could never handle hooking up with 2 guys at once

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  • Just as a warning, I have a fairly boring sex life, since DH has been the only one I have ever been with.

    1.  Best sex eva!?  Home or destination?  If not at home, where? We had amazing sexy after I got home from a 2 week trip in Europe w/out DH, but I think the best sex eva was when we took a vaca to Breckenridge, CO and we did it in the hot tub then moved into the shower....AMAZING!

    2.  First big O?  Manual, mechanical, or through good old fashion sex? (alone or with someone?) Manual by DH while we were still dating and not having vaginal sex because I was scared to get pregnant before we got married....HAHA!!

    3.  Do you know your DH's "number"? Does he know yours? His is 2, mine is 1. I was so pissed when I found out I wasn't his first because he made me think I was his first until we were both drunk one night about a year ago and I asked him point blank...initiate ugly cry!

    4.  Ever had a one night stand?  And by that I mean a stranger, not a one time friend with benefits. nope

    5.  Ever had a friend with benefits? nope

     

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  • DH calls me a big prude...even almost 10 years later :)

    1. We rented a cabin in the Rocky Mountains a couple years ago...we made use of the corny heart shaped tub.

    2. Can't remember, but I've never owned any kind of a toy...like I said, prude.

    3. I'm pretty sure he's 3, mine is just the one.  

    4. Nope...see above.

    5. The "benefits" weren't that great since we didn't actually have sex...but I had one in college. 

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    4.  Ever had a one night stand?  And by that I mean a stranger, not a one time friend with benefits.   I'm proud to say yes.  I grew up in an extremely puritanical household, and never tried a cigarette and had my first drink at the age of 28.   When I turned 30, I felt like life had passed me by, and I had a lot of regrets for being so straight-laced and repressed.   So, I met a gorgeous blond haired, blue eyed guy at the beach and went for it, I told him that I don't even want to know his name.  It was amazing, and I have no regrets although I've gone back to being a boring prude and am fine with it.

    Great story!  I'm glad you took a moment to grab life by the balls and go for it so you can look back at a wild time.  No worries about being a simple married women now...I think most all of us are.  But those memories sure are nice to look back on! 


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  • I'm pretty boring....

    1. Best sex eva!? Home or destination? If not at home, where?

    DH and I have had some pretty amaze sex. The best was probably in the back of a bronco with the top off in the middle of a field we weren't supposed to be in.

    2. First big O? Manual, mechanical, or through good old fashion sex? alone or with someone?

    Good ole fashioned sex with DH.

    3. Do you know your DH's "number"? Does he know yours?

    Did I mention we are eachothers...only?

    4. Ever had a one night stand? And by that I mean a stranger, not a one time friend with benefits.

    Nope!

    5. Ever had a friend with benefits?

    Nope!

    ....see, boring. But DH is friggin amazing and always has been...minus the first couple "learning" times. Haha
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    1.  Best sex eva!?  Home or destination?  If not at home, where? We went on a mini vacation to just get away, a bottle of wine later .... WOW

    2.  First big O?  Manual, mechanical, or through good old fashion sex? (alone or with someone?) We were having good old fashion sex, then he added a bullet along with it. I felt so silly because it made me cry. 

    3.  Do you know your DH's "number"? Does he know yours? We are both each others #1, (Highschool sweethearts) I was 16, he was 15

    4.  Ever had a one night stand?  And by that I mean a stranger, not a one time friend with benefits.  no experience with this one

    5.  Ever had a friend with benefits?  We had "broken up" but still still saw each other nightly <- probably doesn't count but its the best I got


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    1.  Best sex eva!?  Home or destination?  If not at home, where? At home, with an ex. DH is great, but this was wiiiild

    2.  First big O?  Manual, mechanical, or through good old fashion sex? (alone or with someone?) The good old fashioned way

    3.  Do you know your DH's "number"? Does he know yours? No and no

    4.  Ever had a one night stand?  And by that I mean a stranger, not a one time friend with benefits. No

    5.  Ever had a friend with benefits? Yes


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  • 1.  Home. With H. 

    2. Manual

    3.  I can guess his but all he knows is that my number is more than his.

    4.  Once. (It was actually pretty good but not really my thing.) 

    5.  Yes.


  • 1.  Best sex eva!?  Home or destination?  If not at home, where? I honestly have no idea! We did have a month last year of no sex at all - had to come up with some spectacular non-intercourse ideas and it was awesome!! We called it the Sexperiment.

    2.  First big O?  Manual, mechanical, or through good old fashion sex? (alone or with someone?) I have very low sensitivity so the only thing that ever worked was the massaging shower head. Now I have a Hitachi wand and DH and I can finally finish together!

    3.  Do you know your DH's "number"? Does he know yours? Yup to both, no secrets there.

    4.  Ever had a one night stand?  And by that I mean a stranger, not a one time friend with benefits. Nope.

    5.  Ever had a friend with benefits? Not in the normal sense. There was a couple of guys from a small town that I used to party in that would call if they ever came to town... ;)


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