Do other people get you cards or gifts for your anniversary? DH's family give us cards, a few texted and his grandfather sent us a check. This was our 7th, so not a milestone. My family don't do anything except maybe say happy anniversary if they happen to think of it. Do your relatives do anything?
My parents and grandparents give us cash+card. My brothers and best friends will text us My inlaws will give cash/present too... but they live in Holland. And both H's and my birthday, along with our anniversary are all within 1 month of each other... so they do a "bulk package" thing and send one at the end of it all.
My family will say happy anniversary. My inlaws will give us a card and usually cash to go to dinner. Other than that we will get a few texts from sisters.
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Nobody does anything for us, but my DH and his one brother who lives in our city usually celebrate his parent's anniversary by taking them out to dinner or something. I would do this with mine, but they've been separated for years.
If we ask my mom or my ILs to watch the kids or have them overnight so we can go out to celebrate they do it, but they all always try to find excuses to have them over anyways
I'd probably feel unconfortable if someone other than DH gave me a present
My FIL gives us a check every year. $500 for our anniversary and $500 for my birthday...they're the same day. My family gives me birthday stuff, but no cards or gifts for DH. I wouldn't expect it and think it's odd, but sweet that FIL does it.
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My parents will call to say happy anniversary, IL's might call or text. either one would happily babysat if I asked
We get texts or FB messages, nothing else
If we ask my mom or my ILs to watch the kids or have them overnight so we can go out to celebrate they do it, but they all always try to find excuses to have them over anyways
I'd probably feel unconfortable if someone other than DH gave me a present
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You get gifts/cards for your anniversary?! Wow.
I just got a few "Happy Anniversary"s on facebook, and a text from MIL, and it was our first last year...
Hhmm, no. No one celebrates anyone else's anniversary in our families unless it's a big one. I don't even think we know each other's anniversaries.