My MIL watched my little man so I could run errands alone (which I'm grateful for!). When I went to pick him up, my SIL was also there with her LO (11 months). My SIL saw me looking at her LO snotting everywhere and she says "dont worry, its just allergies"
Well! Guess who is snotting everywhere, sneezing has a little cough and super tired....my little guy. grrr don't patronize me and get my baby sick!
Last time her LO was sick (she thought her lo was throwing up from teething) she got 6 other people sick. Ugh is there a vaccine against other peoples ridiculousness?
Just needed to vent, that is all!
Re: "Don't worry, its just allergies"
I'm so sorry your LO is sick! It totally sucks. It really, really bothers me when other people aren't as courteous as I am and keep their kids home with they are sick. Especially because I teach the three-year-olds class at church and the moms will still bring their kids even though they know I have an infant. It's like...I can appreciate that you need a break and some adult time, and I don't condemn anyone who wants to be at church, but...seriously? I got my first cold PP just from holding a cheer meeting at the high school I work at. None of the girls were sick, but I must have touched something and not washed my hands fast enough. Keep your dang sick kids home!
DC, you strike me as the kind of person that if you said "It really is allergies," I would probably believe you because you knew what you were talking about. And yet you even still are courteous enough to consider those around you. Which is probably why I would believe you in the first place. :-)
I was just thinking this morning about how many cases of illness would be eliminated every year if people just kept their kids home when they were ill. Can you tell this really bothers me?
It's a tough issue. When my 2 year old is sick, she literally has a runny nose for 2 weeks because she can't properly get the crap out of her system. I try to sequester her during the first few days, and I often cancel play dates (or at least give the other mom the option of cancelling) if she has a cold, but am I really supposed to keep her in the house for 2 weeks just because her nose is running? Once she starts school and I go back to work, there's no way I can keep her out of school for that long (nor would I want to).
my SIL watches my dd one day a week, and we have an understanding that if it is just a cold or allergies, we don't bother canceling. Kids are going to catch colds. Now, with a little baby it is a bit different.
Are you sure she didn't truly think it was just allergies? I suffer from severe allergies, and I occasionally can't differentiate between an allergy attack, and a cold. E.g. Right now, I feel like I am having an allergy attack, but know it is a cold, because my mom had it last week.
this! I would call your SIL and tell her you are giving a courtesy call. Tell her your LO has a cold and that she may want to treat her LO for a cold and not just allergies. At least it shows you want her LO to get the right treatment without your frustration coming across. With a small chance she may re-think her baby's "allergies" in the future.
this! I would call your SIL and tell her you are giving a courtesy call. Tell her your LO has a cold and that she may want to treat her LO for a cold and not just allergies. At least it shows you want her LO to get the right treatment without your frustration coming across. With a small chance she may re-think her baby's "allergies" in the future.