DH and I had both always agreed on OND. As soon as I could after LO arrived I got rid of my maternity clothes. But now that LO is starting to outgrow his newborn clothes, I find myself a little more hesitant to get rid of the clothes. I hope this is just the breast feeding hormones and if I find some one to pass the clothes onto that I will be ready to do so.
Re: How quickly did you get rid of clothes that LO has grown out of?
I held on to most of our stuff until she was about a year and a half, but we didn't decide to be one and done until she was 9 months. At that point a lot of her things were already in plastic totes in the basement, so I just left them there. I did go through and give a bunch of items to my cousin, and the rest I sold or donated.
I still have all of my maternity clothes. While I am sure that I don't want anymore kids, I still struggle with the fact I will never experience pregnancy again... so when we had our garage sale at the end of last summer and no one bought my maternity stuff I packed it up and kept it. Maybe when we go through for the sale this year I will be able to part with it.
I've kept a few things from when she was really wee, but passed along a big box of stuff a long time ago to a friend who had a girl.
You don't have to get rid of everything! Keep the outfits that have the most meaning to you.
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Like PPs mentioned, this will not just be a one time thing! I cycle through clothes every six months or so, and have to decide what to keep, what to donate, and what to pass on. It's kind of a pain! I do keep things that were especially cute, expensive, or sentimental. There is a chance my daughter might use them for her own children, and it's not hard to store a bin or two.
Anecdotally, my parents kept a few clothes of mine and I get such a huge kick out of seeing my girl wear my old Culture Club t-shirt and other sentimental faves.
We kept the first batch for about nine months, until the next baby girl in our family came along. Then, the wonderful hand-me-down process began. Now, we pass down a box pretty much the minute DD outgrows something.
I kept a few items that were special to me, what she wore home from the hospital, first Christmas outfit, that sort of thing. Everything else is out the door and someone else's storage problem.
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Then I had a pregnancy that was not easy or enjoyable. I was exhausted all the time and I had issues with borderline high blood pressure. Things came to a head at the bitter end of my pregnancy. I developed Pree and HELLP Syndrome. While recovering, the OB who delivered my son asked if my husband and I were planning to have more children. Even without discussing our final decision with my husband he was in Iraq, I told the doctor that we were OD. The look of relief on his face was evident. He was planning to talk me out of any future pregnancies and was thankful that he didn't have to. I had a tubal ligation done when LO was 17 months old.
That said, I have a difficult time giving away LO's clothes. I take great care in selecting his clothes. I want them to go to someone who will enjoy dressing her son in the items that I lovingly shopped for. I know that they are just clothes, but I'm attached.
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