DH has been back to work for over 3 weeks now. I've only been out with him on the weekends for necessary shopping (groceries, etc). I'm itching to get out, thinking about the mall but then I get all nervous.
What if she melts down, where will I go to BF, etc. I realize these are dumb concerns but I get super nervous even with DH with me, but I eventually have to get over this or I will go stir crazy in the house all day every day.
Re: Anyone else scared to go out alone?
Go out! I promise it's not as hard as it seems and it will keep you sane.
If you go to the mall check out the department store ladies rooms, a couple around here have lounges attached to them with dim lights and comfy chairs. The one at my Macy's has a mothers lounge with the most amazing changing station and couches with footrests and soft music, its awesome.
If baby has a meltdown you can always head home or do a drive around the parking lot to help her sooth.
It's scary at first but very liberating, give it a shot and see how it goes.
Same. Except I've gotten comfortable enough to not even cover up. Once you've BFd in public once or twice, it becomes easier. And if there's a meltdown, you leave. Left a cart full of stuff at Target because of a meltdown.
I've also nursed in a changing room before. But ditto pp about the department store lounges/restroom areas. In our mall Penneys has a very nice couch in their area that would be perfect for bfing.
And really, the worst that happens is the baby melts down, and you go to the car to feed him/her. Last week we had a couple of epic meltdowns at the doctor's office and the grocery store, and you know, I got more smiles and people saying "oh, I remember that stage, don't worry, you are doing great!!" as I wrangled the screaming newborn and attention seeking toddler through the check out than anything else!
Go! You will feel so much better for getting out around people! We are going to the mall as soon as I finish bf, mama wants a slice of pizza and to browse the shoe department
after nursing, I expect she will fall asleep in the car on the way there, and stay sleeping while we stroll around. That gives me a good 2 hours, and if I want to stay longer, I'll nurse in either a ladies lounge or fitting room. No big deal! And if she gets fussy in the stroller, I bring the pacifier, or we can sit on a bench somewhere for a little while for me to hold her. Have fun!
This, except my older DD is 19 months old.
This, except my older DD is 19 months old.
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BFP #2: 11-7-14, CP (BFN: 11-13-14)
BFP #3: 3/24/15 EDD: 12/5/15
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