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Best Stranger Interaction!

So, we of course get the random dummy questions from strangers.  We also get the oohs and aahs and "double troubles." But today, I had the best experience!

I was leaving the grocery store, pushing the stroller and kind of dragging the cart along pathetically.  I had to wait several minutes at the door because people would look at me and then dart in front of me rather than let me pass.

So when I exited, this African man kind of came up like "No, please!" And I wasn't sure what he wanted.  He offered to push my cart so I could take the stroller.  He was all smiley and "oh, twins!" And I thought that was nice.  Then he told me HE was a twin! So we made chit-chat, got to the car and I thought that would be all.

"No, please, put the babies in the car first."  It was starting to drizzle, so I really appreciated his help.  He told me he always wanted twins, but never got them.  I told him we were completely surprised by ours, and he asked if there were any in our family (no).  When I asked if there were any in his, he said HIS MOTHER HAD FIVE SETS OF TWINS! I said she must have been a very strong woman, to which he replied, "in those days yes!"

After putting the babies in the car, I was ready to get the shopping cart back from him, but he insisted I take apart the stroller, no hurry.  So I did, and learned he was from Nigeria, (lots of multiples over there from what I'd read, and he confirmed!) and his aunt even had triplets.  

Finally, I had the stroller put away, loaded the groceries, and the man told me to have a nice day and took the empty cart back to the store.   

What a story! 

Re: Best Stranger Interaction!

  • The kind/helpful strangers totally make up for the rude ones.
  • SwetaVSwetaV member
    I love stories like this! Makes you realize there are still good people in the world.
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  • It's nice to hear that someone took the time to help you.

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  • how nice!  almost makes me feel comfortable going grocery shopping by myself with the twins.... almost.  Not quite sure I'm confident enough to do that yet lol
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  • Wow, that's awesome!

    I can't beleive FIVE sets of twins, she would have to be a strong lady-wow! 

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  • saracksarack member

    aw, that was nice. glad you had a good experience.

     

    i have a hard time not being excited about twins too.. since hearing how annoying it is, i haven't done it. but i want to! lol. my h is a twin, and they've always been so interesting to me.  

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  • Love hearing this story! I can't imagine 5 sets of twins - seriously, she must be wonder woman. She did a good job raising her son :)
  • xoexpatxoexpat member
    Sarack, I know what you meanI remember when I was pg and saw a twin mom at target with the same stroller I'd just bought. I wanted to give her a high five! Then stalk her to see how she handled shopping. But I didn't!
  • ks3pinkks3pink member
    That's a great story but please be careful in public, especially alone. People are crazy and you had no way of knowing that man wasn't up to something. Maybe it's because I live near a high crime area but I would never be comfortable with accepting help like that from strangers.
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  • That was very sweet of him and yes i agree with pp about crazies out there! I always get a bagger to help me with the cart .... they even load the groceries for me so that i can put the boys in the car!
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  • that is amazing-esp the 5 sets! I had someone once see me, in the rain, pushing the twins through the sam's parking lot. They were trying to park next to me and I was trying to load the boys and everything and I thought "seriously? you're going to sit there and wait for me?!"  Instead the passenger lady jumped out and loaded all my stuff in the car. I'd been having such a shitty day that it made me cry when she stopped to help!

     

    I think the good ones are worth 10 bad ones, they can really make up for a lot. 

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  • This almost made me cry. Thanks for sharing.
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