Just curious what you think.
Suppose you see a friend or acquaintance who has recently lost a bunch of weight. You're talking to them and telling them how great they look etc. Is it rude to ask "How much did you lose?"
You're not asking how much they did weigh, or how much they weigh now...just how much did they lose.
WDYT?
Re: Is this rude?
I don't think it is rude. Not sure it is something I would ask, but hope they volunteer. DH has lost weight over the years and his family is always asking how much he has lost.
He told his Mom, "I don't know, but less than my wife this year."
Of course, MIL said nothing to that. Thanks.
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Wow, well that is jaw-droppingly rude - ew!
I was curious what others thought because I saw an acquaintance at a wedding this past weekend who probably lost about 40 if I had to guess, and I was telling her how great she looked, and almost asked how much she lost, but stopped myself because I wasn't sure if it was rude or not.
DD (5 years old) from IUI in 2012
TTC 3rd and final!: IUI #1 in progress!
W : 01.11.13
#3 : due 11.02.15
I probably wouldn't think twice about asking someone either. It just seems part of the conversation when someone says they've lost weight.
Also. Congrats on your loss.
W : 01.11.13
#3 : due 11.02.15
DS2 - Oct 2010 (my VBAC baby!)
I guess I'm just the complete opposite?
Because I've tried to lose weight for 788 years, I'm really proud that I'm actually doing it this time. I will tell anyone what I've lost, if they ask. It just doesn't bother me at all.
30 lbs. in 4 months is awesome - congrats!
DD (5 years old) from IUI in 2012
TTC 3rd and final!: IUI #1 in progress!
Thank you so much Though I have to correct my own mistake- it's been 5 months. I completely forgot tomorrow is May, I lost a month somewhere. I started on January 1.
edited to add- maybe I need sleep. I guess that is 4 months. I'm going into the 5th. Whatever, haha.. thank you, however long it's been. I woke entirely too early.