....your spouse prepared dinner for himself and your child, but not pregnant you because he's currently mad at you because he can't understand your crazy mood swings?
Would you just let it go, or walk into the kitchen and ask him about it, calling him to the carpet for his petty behavior?
I'd probably do something stupid like hit his food into his lap or throw it out or something. That's just ridiculous.
First M/C - March 2006, pregnancy not known about.
BFP#1 03/17/12 DD 11/09/12 Missed MC 05/14/12 (No growth past 9wk1d) D&C 05/22/12
Removal of Ovarian Cyst 07/27/12
BFP#2 09/17/12 DD 05/29/13 STICK BABY STICK!
This is something my DH would do. I would ignore it and start making something for myself in front of him and eat it with them and pretend I didn't notice. It would bug him and make him feel stupid. Then later I would calmly say, "What you did earlier hur
Thank you so much.
I know I'm not crazy. Neurotic and hormonal yes, but I just wanted to make sure that I'm not totally crazy for thinking his actions are just mean.
As much as I would want to throw food at his face or one up him with take out, unfortunately it would only amplify his point. It sucks in this situation because the only appropriate way to act would be hormonal and crazy. Soooo, ugh... be the better perso
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Clearly, we're only getting your side of the story. I'm curious about what you mean by "crazy mood swings." Generally, I am not on board with using this as a line, but I don't have a clue what happened. Yes, leaving you out of dinner is
I can understand his frustration with the mood swings. I take out my crabbiness, especially when I'm physically uncomfortable, on DH sometimes. It isn't right, and hormones aren't an excuse.
I would apologize for the moodiness, but tell him that
I would be very annoyed but in the grand scheme of things it's not that important. If you agree and admit that you've been acting crazy lately then I'd apologise but I'd also tell him that it's not right to make something for himself and your DS but not y
I would be mad. But two can play the game. I would go out and get me and the kid ice cream from DQ and not get him any. That's his favorite thing and I think that would prove my point enough.
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Re: Passive aggressive much?!?!?
First M/C - March 2006, pregnancy not known about.
BFP#1 03/17/12 DD 11/09/12 Missed MC 05/14/12 (No growth past 9wk1d) D&C 05/22/12
Removal of Ovarian Cyst 07/27/12
BFP#2 09/17/12 DD 05/29/13 STICK BABY STICK!
PgAL MARCH SIGGY CHALLENGE: PET SHAMING
Natural MC 10/01/14
Wow... someone has some growing up to do. Not only is that passive-aggressive, it's immature.
I'd be pissed. Not sure how I would handle it but just here to say that what he did was wrong.
Oh I'd leave and go pick-up something delicious that he would want and then eat it in front of him. That's BS though, he should know better!
I know I'm not crazy. Neurotic and hormonal yes, but I just wanted to make sure that I'm not totally crazy for thinking his actions are just mean.
bfp #1 10/15/2009 m/c 11/4/09 10 weeks Lily you are not forgotten
bfp #2 4/5/2010 CP, m/c 4/12/10 5 weeks Baby Lo
Diagnosed PCOS 10/10 RX 1500 mg Metformin/day
bfp#3 4/5/2011 Missed m/c discovered 5/24/2011 (10w 5d) baby Asher stopped growing at 6 weeks
I know he is playing with his siblings in heaven right now...
rx'd factor II gene mutation 7/11 prescribed 5000 units Heparin daily
rx'd Sjogren's Disease 8/11
bfp #4 9-6-2012 RAINBOW Baby Ky born 5-9-13
bfp #5 8-26-14 RAINBOW #2 Due 5-8-2015
I can understand his frustration with the mood swings. I take out my crabbiness, especially when I'm physically uncomfortable, on DH sometimes. It isn't right, and hormones aren't an excuse.
I would apologize for the moodiness, but tell him that
I agree with PP, I would get some amazing takeout or take myself out to dinner. After that I would talk to him about things.
Not including you in dinner is a low, childish blow. I would cool off, make your own dinner, and have a serious chat with him when you're calmer.
ETA: I don't know what "mood swings" means, but you may also want to ask him how your at
There are some really calm, well adjusted women on this board. Personally, I'd go postal on DH.
There was one time when I was pregnant with DS1 when DH did something along the same lines (he drove off leaving me in a parking lot beca