May 2013 Moms
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Ben

Ben's heart stopped beating early this morning. We took him back to the hospital Monday morning as the doctor wanted to check it with him. We were told that he was now breathing on his own better and that there was still a small need  for the machine to help him breath. So we did what the doctor told us to do and put him to bed with the breathing machine and he feel asleep. Every 2 hours Joey and I go in and feed them/check on them so this morning was no different. But Ben wasn't breathing. He was pale and when I touched him he was cold. The machine had failed us.  We called 911 and did CPR but nothing happened. He was unresponsive. Benjamin Samuel passed away this morning around 2 am. I am still raw. Still numb and can't believe it. The funeral will be tomorrow and who knows how I will get through that. Thank you all so much.

Erica 

Erica and Joey- Married on January 24th 2010
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    I'm so sorry for your loss, I can't imagine the pain you are feeling. T&Ps to you and your family. 
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    Crying I'm so so sorry! ((HUGS)) Many T&P for you all. My heart breaks for you.
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    Erica, I don't know what to say. I will be praying for you, Ben, and your family.
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    I don't even know what to say.  My prayers are with you, your family and angel Benjamin.

     

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    Erica, I'm so sorry to hear that shocking news.  It's so sad.  I wish there was something we could say or do to help you, but I know there isn't.  We're all thinking about you and your family. 
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    I'm so sorry to hear about your sweet baby Ben. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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    I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart is breaking for you. Sending thoughts and prayers for you and your family as you go through this hard time.
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    I am so sorry. Please stay strong and thanks for sharing. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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    I am so very sorry for your lose! I cried reading your update. I can't imagine how devastated and heartbroken you and your fa

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    How heart breaking, I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet Ben.  I know there is little anyone can say or do to help, but please know that thoughts and prayers are with you.  I am so, so sorry.
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    This makes my heart break, I'm so sorry! I can't even imagine how you are feeling right now. We're here for you if there's anything you need.
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    Oh my gosh.  I am so sorry.
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    I am crying with your family through this unexpected, devastating time. Prayers for strength and healing in the days and weeks to come. Erica, I am so sorry.
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    I am so so sorry... There are not even words to express how horrible this situation is. My heart is just aching for you guys. Your whole family will continue to be in my prayers.
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    My heart is breaking for you and your family. Sending love and prayers. 
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    I'm so sorry, I don't even know what to say. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
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    Erica, words cannot express just how sorry I am for you and your family. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace Baby Ben. 
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    I am incredibly sorry. Words seem so futile. I will be thinking and praying for your family. My deepest sympathy.



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    Oh Erica. I know there aren't any words that can help right now, but please know we are all thinking of you and your family. Many, many thoughts and prayers to you all.
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    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.  I am so very sorry for your loss.

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    Oh my gosh. I'm sorry for your loss and praying for you and your family.
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    so, so sorry erica! i was in tears when I read the news. thoughts and prayers with your family at this time.

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    I am so sorry this is happening. The pain must be unlike any other. T&Ps for you and the family.
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    I'm so sorry for your loss, this is heart breaking.  I will keep your family in my prayers.  
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    My deepest condolences to you and your family, Erica.  I will be thinking of you all during this incredibly difficult time. 

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    Erica, I have no words to say. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family right now.
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    My heart breaks for your family and little Ben.

    RIP little man

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    I feel like there is nothing I can say. I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet boy.
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    I am so, so sorry for the heartbreak you are experiencing right now. Just as words can't express your pain, words can't express my sympathy. May you and your family find peace in the coming days and weeks.

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    I am so sorry for the everything you are going through. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

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    I am so sorry for your loss.  There are no words I can say that can comfort you during this time, but please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

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    I am so incredibly sad to hear about this. My heart breaks for you and your family. My deepest sympathies go out to you guys. Many thoughts and prayers as well to help you through this really hard time. (((hugs)))
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    Erica, my heart breaks for you. I'm sorry for your loss.

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    Words cannot express how deeply sad I am for you guys.  I can't imagine what you and your family are going through.  Thoughts and Prayers to you and your family.  Please know that here you can express any emotion and hopefully you will f

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