I have two LOs... DS is almost 3 yo and DD is almost 5 mos. Honestly, I never anticipated it being this hard. I feel OVERWHELMED with all the running around and being pulled in two different directions. Also, DS was a much easier baby then DD is. It's a much different experience and I am exhausted. DD catnaps like crazy so I can barely get anything done and she has her super fussy moments and wakes up all night with what I think is the 4MWP. DS is in his terrible 2's and is super defiant at times, which I know is normal, but I find it so hard to deal with his tantrums sometimes. And now he is waking up super early now to boot. DH works late and long hours and I miss working so much (I'm a SAHM). I'm hoping things get easier once the baby gets older and DS and her can play together. Just needed to get that out! : )
Wow I could have wrote the myself except I have a 5 month old and a 19 month old. DH is out of town every week just comes home on the weekends, I work full-time, and our closest family is 14 hours away. BUT we will survived I tell myself, lol.
I feel that way too at times. DD is 3 1/2 and is just now becoming defiant and throwing herself on the floor. The worst part is she waits until I'm feeding DS or doing something with him where I can't tend to her to act out. She also has started protestin
Holy crap! You are me!!! DS will be 3 next month, DD is 4 months. DS was so laid back as a baby. DD is a total drama queen. DH works 12 hour shifts so it's really tough on the days he works. Some things that have really helped me are handing over certain
I'm going thru almost the same thing, except my older DD is 4 yo, an DD#2 is 4 months. It is a stressful time, and I feel endless amounts of guilt. DD#1 watches entirely too much tv, and I have about 75% less patience for her than I used to.
Thanks so much to all of you for your responses. I am feeling more relieved and less alone. I will absolutely try and get some more help and try as well to keep in mind that this is a phase. Thank you all again SO MUCH!!!
Re: Feeling overwhelmed w/ two kids
Do you have family/friends who can help you out? Don't be afraid to or feel guilty about asking for help, and take all the help people offer
My parents had 7 kids, including me, and with just having one so far, I don't know HOW they survived w
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I have written this post myself a month ago. In fact I did on the Parenting Board.
I have a son who will be 2.5 in a month and a 3.5 month old daughter. I am taking the full one year maternity leav
I'm going thru almost the same thing, except my older DD is 4 yo, an DD#2 is 4 months. It is a stressful time, and I feel endless amounts of guilt. DD#1 watches entirely too much tv, and I have about 75% less patience for her than I used to.
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