May 2013 Moms

I "planned" this??!!!!

Medium sized freak out.  I just realized that I have just over 10 weeks until my due date.  75 days.  Holy crap.  This baby was not a surprise, DH and I were trying, but HOLY CRAP!!!!  I'm kinda freaking out.Indifferent  This went really fast.  Has anyone else had this panic feeling?  Yes, I am a FTM.  And I'm sure its obvious...but still...

Re: I "planned" this??!!!!

  • Yes!  I keep having moments of "What have I done?!"  
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    imageadrianktheo:
    Yes!  I keep having moments of "What have I done?!"  

    Yep! With 59 days to go.

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  • I'm a third time mom, and I am having similar thoughts.  It might be worse, since I have done shockingly little to prepare for this baby.  No name, no formalized time off work plan, still need to promote a toddler to a bed we haven't b
  • imageadrianktheo:
    Yes! nbsp;I keep having moments of "What have I done?!" nbsp;


    I have those too lol
  • I'm a second time mom and keep having these thoughts too.  Every time my 3.5 year old DD does something for herself (gets dressed, washes her hands, etc), I can't believe I am about to totally start over!  I too have done zero in terms of prep a
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  • About once a week, I totally freak out.  It's compounded by the fact that if I end up with an early c-section, I only have 30 work days left and no idea what's going to happen with my leave.
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  • imageadrianktheo:
    Yes!  I keep having moments of "What have I done?!"  

    i feel the same way at t

  • I was thinking that same thing.  I am a FTM and my husband had just set up the travel system we got and I was looking at that and all the hand me down clothes that we got that are still sitting on our dinning room table and I was like......WOW, 
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  • Our son was planned as well, but, I have MAJOR anxiety at times thinking, "Am I REALLY ready to be a mother? All the crying, feeding, and lack of sleeping a baby requires....AM I READY FOR THAT???" lol
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  • I calmed down a little when I saw that I'm not the only one kind of freaking out.  Glad to hear its not just a FTM thing.  I feel very unprepared, but things are slowly coming together.  Still, HOLY CRAP! We are going to be mommies!

  • Mine is planned as well, but still totally go in to panic mode too. I certainly like sleeping in and lazy weekends. In a few weeks that will be nothing but a fond memory. I'm trying to soak it all in now. 
  • I have this feeling sometimes like, they're going to give US a baby?  I imagine myself coming home from the hospital and the baby is with us and I'm not the babysitter or the teacher, I'm the mom.  It's a weird thought even though I know it
  • imageBeckyTheEngineer:
    I'm a third time mom, and I am having similar thoughts.  It might be worse, since I have done shockingly l
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  • So very normal to feel that way and even more exciting that only 10 more weeks to go!
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  • I felt this with my first but she wasn't exactly planned. DH and I weren't preventing or planning really but it still surprised us. Now with about 8wks left in my twin pregnancy I feel like I want them here but I'm nervous about the added stress and work
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    I'm a third time mom, and I am having similar thoughts.  It might be worse, since I have done shockingl
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  • I just told DH last night that "In just a couple months I'll be holding this baby in my arms instead of my uterus.  Holy crap!"

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