TTC After a Loss

Introduction (loss mentioned)

Hi ladies,

First and foremost, I am sorry that we are all here, but so glad to have found this community. I've been posting on Miscarriage/Loss, but feel like I would like to move my way over here at some point as well. I have lurked, read (and re-read) the blog, and feel like I can follow the etiquette of this board, and provide encouragement, support and kindness to others during this time. 

A little bit about me: I am 27, DH is 28, we have been TTC (not actively, but not preventing) since March 2012. I experienced 2 ectopics, one in November that resolved itself, the second one ending last week with surgery, and me with one less fallopian tube. While I am very sad/angry at times, I am hopeful for the future. I am a nurse, DH is in business. We have two fur-babies, and have wonderful families who have been a tremendous support.

Like I said, I am sorry that we are here, but happy to have found you all. I look forward to getting to know you all. Smile

-J

Image and video hosting by TinyPic TTC since 4/12 BFP #1 11/15/12, MC/possible ectopic 11/20, natural MC BFP #2 1/15/13, ectopic discovered 2/15, surgery, R tube removed

Re: Introduction (loss mentioned)

  • I am so sorry for your losses.  Being sad/angry is very natural and something I go in and out of all of the time.  I am so sorry you have to be here but glad you have found this board for support!  ((HUGS))

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    8/12-Suprise BFP- Sweet Bunny Born Sleeping 11/21/12 (19 weeks)

    -5/7/13- MMC (8 Weeks)

    11/6/13- BO discovered at 7 weeks- natural MC 11/25/13

    8/14- Surpise IF dx...low AMH (.24)- moving on to IVF

    IVF #1- 11/14- 6R5M4F=2 perfect frosties

    12/19/14- FET of 2 embabies = BFP!!!  One Little Bean EDD: 9/3/15

    Everyone Welcome.

  • I am so sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board, I'm glad that you have found us.

    Thank you for taking the time to read the blog. It will pay off. Smile

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    Started TTC June 2010
    BFP #1
    07/04/10. EDD 03/14/11. Missed m/c 08/09/10. D&C 09/27/10. }Casey & Jaimie{
    BFP #2 01/14/11. EDD 09/25/11. Missed m/c 02/18/11. D&C 02/24/11. }Dustin{
    TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
    BFP #3 08/18/13. EDD 04/30/14. Missed m/c 09/25/13. D&C 09/26/13. }Daylin{
    TTA for 7 months
    Jan-Mar 2014 - RPL, SHG, karotyping: all results normal
    TTC Again May 2014
    Progesterone & baby aspirin combo for 5 cycles
    - All BFN's
    SA with DNA fragmentation = Perfect results

    Diagnostic cycle monitoring = Polycystic ovaries leading to premature egg release
    TTA Oct 2014 - Jan 2015
    Jan 2015 - Medicated cycle with timed intercourse
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  • I'm so sorry for your losses, but welcome to the board. I hope you find the support you need. Your range of emotions is completely normal. {{hugs}}
    Mr. & Mrs. B, Est. 10.23.2009
    m/c: 9/06/12
    LTB: 10/23/13
    Baby B 2.0 EDD: 3/15/16

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  • Sorry for you losses.  Welcome!
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  • I am very sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board and thank you for reading the blog and lurking! ((hugs))
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  • imageMamaCBear:
    Welcome!! I am so sorry for your losses! I hope your stay is short and sweet. Are you benched for a while post surgery?

     

    This is a great question! I don't see my OB for my surgery f/u until next Thursday, so I'm hoping she'll give us some answers then. From what I understood (from DH, who I'm pretty sure was so relieved that surgery went fine and hardly heard anything else), my left tube looked fine. I'm hoping for the go-ahead as soon as AF returns. As heavy as my heart is from the past couple months, I want a family. There's definitely a fear with trying again (even thinking about TTC), but my desire for babies outweighs that fear, even now.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.

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    TTC #1 since 7/2011
    ME: 37  DH: 38
    SA-12/28/11-normal
    HSG-1/16/12-possible blocked left tube
    BFP#1---CP 7/9/12
    Hysteroscopy-8/9/12-blocked left tube for sure, proceeding with IUI#1
    IUI#1 (Gonal-F + trigger)=BFP#2 m/c @ 19w1d D&E 1/23/13
    IUI #2 (Gonal F + trigger)=BFP#3 EDD 1/6/14 TWINS!!!
    Identical girls born 11/17/13
    BFP#4 EDD 8/27/15 MMC at 7w6d

    BFP#5 m/c at 6w

    BFP#6 EDD 10/5/16  Going Strong!  It's a Girl!

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  • So sorry for your losses welcome to the board.

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  • So very sorry for your losses dear, but welcome to the board. 

    Hope you will find the support you need and that your stay here is very short and sweet.

    ((HUGS)) 

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  • Welcome, I am so sorry for your losses. 


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    TTC #1 since 10/2012.
    BFP#1 11/28/12, MC, BFP #2 CP
    BFP #3 10/21/2013, EDD 7/3/2014
    Beta #1 (4W6D): 1768 Beta #2 (5W1D): 5255
    1st US at 6W4D HB of 112 BPM!

    1/20/2014: IT'S A GIRL!

    6/30/2014: Happy birthday baby M!

  • I'm so sorry about your losses. Welcome to the board. I hope you are able to find as much support here as I have.


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    ♥BFP #1 "Spawn"- 02/23/11 | EDD: 11/01/11 | natural m/c 03/20/11 @7w5d♥
    ♥BFP #2 "Offspring"- 11/10/12 | EDD: 07/25/13 | incomplete m/c 12/14/12 @8w1d | D&C 12/21/12♥
    ♥BFP #3 "Progeny" - 02/16/15 | It's a BOY!! | EDD: 10/17/15 | BD: 10/23/15
    All AL Always Welcome

  • I'm very sorry for your loss. I understand being mad, yet hopeful and determined to have a family. The range of emotions is unlike anything I have experienced, but is motivating me to move forward. Any complications after the loss just seems cruel and I wish you all the best.

     

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    Me:41/ lean PCOS, 2 clotting disorders, IC/ DH:41~ TTC since 1/11
    Clomid 50mg,100mg,150mg | Injectables + IUI#1 & IUI#2= BFN
    IVF#1~ 8/2012~ 13 frosties~ BFP! OHSS
    12/4/12 Luke & Kyle born @ 18 weeks
    SHG+ Hysteroscopy+ FET= BFP | Cerclage+ Lovenox+ 5m Bed Rest
    ~Our wee guy is here! 11/27/13~

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
  • I am so sorry for your losses and the lose of your tube.  I hope your follow-up with the OB goes well.

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  • I'm so sorry for your losses. This community is filled with the most amazing women I've ever had the pleasure of "knowing". I hope you find tons of suport here. Welcome.
    BFP#1 8/3/12~EDD 4/1/13~Natural M/C 9/1/12-9w6d 
    BFP#2 5/30/13~EDD 2/3/14~Confirmed CP 5/31/13
    7/12/13 Hysteroscopy & Lap Lysis of Adhesions
    1st Cycle on Clomid Aug '13: BFP#3 8/24/13~EDD 5/3/14
    Hoping Third Time's a Charm!!- IT'S A GIRL!!!! 
    KAYLIE MARIE IS HERE! BORN 5/4/14

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    Lilypie - (nUwf)

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  • THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU for the warm welcomes and kind words. Much appreciated. I look forward to getting to know you all.Smile
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic TTC since 4/12 BFP #1 11/15/12, MC/possible ectopic 11/20, natural MC BFP #2 1/15/13, ectopic discovered 2/15, surgery, R tube removed
  • I'm sorry for your losses. Welcome.

    TTC Since 8/2011
    BFP #1 5/13/12 * EDD 1/24/13 * MC at 7 wks 4 days on 6/11/12
    BFP #2 5/13/13 * Current EDD 1/23/14

    Baby N born 2/8/14


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  • Sorry for your loss. I just recently came over from miscarriage/loss as well. When I read about your furbabies, it made me think of mine and how comforting he has been during this time.  Hopefully yours have been comforting too!
    "Once you are real, you can't become unreal again.  It lasts for always." ~ The Velveteen Rabbit

    *8.3.13*  mc @ 6-7 weeks {natural mc at 12 weeks}
    *3.14.14*  mc @ 5-6 weeks DnC {blood clotting disorder discovered}
    *8.7.14* mc @ 6 weeks DnC {uterine septum removed March '14)
    *3.17.15* mc @ 7 weeks DnC {genetic testing & meeting with a new RE in Jan '15}
    *8.31.16* mc @ 8 weeks DnC {genetic testing, new medications upon next pregnancy}
    *7.17.16* praying everyday for my rainbow baby {progesterone supplements, blood thinning injections}


  •  I am sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
    TW loss mentioned 

    **BFP#1 9/5/12   EDD 5/15/13  changed to 5/25/13 after u/s,  missed mc 10/19/12.  D and C 10/22/12** 
     **BFP#2 9/12/13  EDD 5/16/14 changed to 5/27/14 after u/s, hb 126 on 10/11/13, miscarriage on 10/24.13**
    ~RPL testing results from 12/6/13 show everything normal except elevated prolactin. Blood work is now in the normal range. All AL welcome!
    BFP #3 10/24/14  Our rainbow baby was born July 2015
    BFP 4 10/28/19 EDD 7/6/20
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