First off, I am neurotic with OCD tendencies...... So that very well may be my issue.
but every single ay before DH gets home, I have the urge to make sure the house is clean, laundry done, and to have dinner ready. I am not like this normally, and I do work part time, so it isn't like I usually have the chance.
Anyone else going crazy like this? I need to stop, I am leaving him no household chores.
Re: Clean house
this makes so much sense to me! I think I clean for the same reason, when its done I feel like I can switch from go go go day mode to relaxing evening/sleep mode. Very insightful.
My mom's been a huge help also, and I've never been more grateful that she only lives 15 minutes away! I'm definitely a neat freak, and without her help I'd run myself absolutely ragged trying to keep the house clean AND take care of a newborn. On days that DH goes into the office, she comes over and hangs out with me the whole day, helping out with chores or holding Amelia so I can take a nap.
And I have such an easy baby, too - she sleeps SO much, but I can't quite get the hang of "sleep when she sleeps." There's just too much to do!! (Case in point: Amelia, DH AND our dog are all sleeping right now. I'm balancing the checkbook, clipping coupons, double checking info on our health insurance coverage, and posting here. Relaxing is not my forte!)
The irony of posting this today.... All h*ll broke loose. I got corn starch all over my kitchen, somehow forgot to use a pot holder to pick up my roasting pain. Dirty clothes were all over the living room ( I changed DS in there, dd must have done it...) she also pulled half the books off the book shelf and brought a ton of toys into the living room. Dh had to pick up the entire house while I nursed DS..... Which I had done not even half an hour before he got home
My mom lives 30 minutes away and hasn't been to my house once since I've been on bed rest. But honestly, my house is so trashed I would be embarrassed if she came over now.