i'm not sure why i do this but i do. i brush off how i feel. the depressed hopeless always sad feeling and always crying...out of the blue.
if i tell the dr. what are they going to do? talk to me and give me medication?
how does it help?
i've felt hopeless before...it's just dragging me more and more down. and i feel like the only thing to do is cry...
i woke up my boyfriend this morning just to cry. hard.
so many things run through my head and i just feel like i'm going to explode...very overwhelming.
im not sure if i'm scared to seek help or something idk...
Re: Seeking help? I need help..
As others have said, please talk this over with your doctor. If they recommend meds or talk therapy then you can do that. I do talk therapy about twice a month because my anxiety has spiked this pregnancy.
The only way to tell if it will work for you is to try it out. You don't have to live like this, and there are options. Talk to your health care provider. Good luck to you.
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that's the scary part for me. i'm opening up to people and then its just gone. when i was in middle school when my depression started i opened up to the school counselor there and then the next day she was gone...i felt so alone all over again. i felt like wth i did that for no reason. and then i had to find someone new and i was with her for awhile. although i didnt like it much she was the one that knew everything about me and what was going on. i'm so afraid to open up again..
I agree. That is what my nurse said if you need to talk we can talk.
Please listen to the others and simply speak to someone. I know that we are people who don't know you or your situation, however, I have had bouts of depression in my life. I still battle depression and anxiety on a daily basis. All I know is that if I hadn't spoken to the people I had, I would feel the same way you do. Find someone who works for you and better yet, find help now because even if I don't know you, I don't want to see anyone hurting. Prayers being sent your way and know you can keep posting to receive encouragement. God Bless!
Now that I'm pregnant my hormones are changing again and I've had some very minor issues with anxiety so far. But because of the experiences I've had before this I'm SO much more better able to handle my situations now. And any anxiety 'attacks' I may have are very short and they don't knock me down like they used to. I will also be lining up some counselling for myself for when the baby comes. Knowing what I know about myself and my hormones I know that there is an extremely high chance of me having issues once the baby is here and I'd rather set myself up for success than let myself feel hopeless. It's not hopeless. It's a struggle and it's tough but it's so worth it to get the help you need. By getting help you're empowering yourself. It'll be quite the journey but I promise you it's worth it.
Couldn't agree more, I think everyone gave great advice. T&P with you as you seek help for yourself and your LO
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