I don't know what to do anymore.
My 2 month old won't sleep. She has never been a good sleeper but Im getting to the point where I don't know what else I could do to help her.
Today shes been awake for almost 12 hours. Shes been a little fussy nothing major during the day, but shell only stay on her swing/bouncer for a few minutes then cries and seems to be rooting. When I put her on breast, shell nurse for a couple of minutes then doze off but as soon as I take her off shell open her eyes.
She never nurses for more than 10 minutes ever since she was born. Ive tried everything, white noise, swaddling (she hates it), bath, massage, everything I guess. At night shell sleep for like 2 hours tops and then wake up to feed but during the 2 hours her sleep seems to be very agitated.
Please someone tell me something that work or that this is a phase.
Re: 2 month old won't sleep!
Has she been like that since she was born? It could be just a phase.
Most babies hate swaddling but it is it for their own good. Try the 5 S's I forget what book that is it - Maybe the Happiest Baby on the Block?
Swaddle, Pacifier, Shhhing sound, rocking and side/stomach. You have to find the right combo for your LO but Swaddle is always a must.
I have also heard sometimes that if you do whatever you have to to get them to sleep good for that first nap .... meaning if she is falling asleep on your breast - just her be and let her sleep for an hour. That sometimes they will sleep better for the next nap if you put them down in that window of opportunity.
There are a ton of books out there to help babies sleep - I think I have read them all - haha and I just take what works and leave what doesn't.
I have the same issue. My DS will be up for 12 hours at a time and he will fall asleep at the breast and as soon as I try to lay him down (Ive tried EVERYTHING, crib, swing, blanket, basinette...) he would wake up and begin rooting again. There are a few things I do now depending on the time of day and the situation that help him get better sleep.
Most successful is giving him pumped BM in a bottle when I have a hard time getting him to sleep. I wait until its a last option. Last night, he nursed for four hours on and off before I gave in to the bottle. He drank four oz and was asleep in 15 minutes. He just tends to be a lazy eater sometimes even though he has a good latch.
Secondly, If I am holding him, I let him fall asleep at the breast, I have to VERY SLOWLY detach, he nurses mostly for comfort at that point anyway. I wait until he is in ACTIVE sleep, which could take up to an hour, and then I lay him down.
Lastly, I do the side laying BF position. I only do this when my husband isn't sleeping just to be sure we have enough room.
These three things have allowed me to get some sleep. Its not perfect, but it does work most of the time. We're still trying to figure out nights and days, but I'm hopeful...good luck!
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Forgot to add that I noticed today she's been having foamy stool movements and she does have a diaper rash not a really bad one but her bum is a little red, could this be related?