So we moved into our new home last month and did a few renovations. The house was built in 08 so it doesn't need much. In three bedrooms I am having carpet installed right now. I am covering up oak wood floors that are really nice. My parents and everyone in so annoyed that I am doing this but DS has already fell many times and got a bloody nose twice. Plus I know I'm the only person in America who hates wood floors and area rugs and prefers wall to wall carpet.
So my mom now sends me a link of all the toxins in new carpet and links with autism. I was a sped teacher so autism is my biggest fear. The guys are in my house right now! I am so annoyed that she is doing this. Please please please tell me that there is someone out there who had new carpet and healthy babies!
Re: Carpet
I haven't, but I thought this was going to be another thread about pube grooming before i opened it. Kind of glad it's not
Can you call the carpet place or google the brand of carpet and see if maybe they use non-toxic materials? Otherwise, I guess I'd just try and keep the rooms with the new carpeting well ventilated for a while.
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Relax!! First of all, you probably know they have "linked" a million things to autism... immunizations, exposure to chemicals, genetics, microwave use, and sooo much more. There is no conclusive evidence to determine the cause of autism. I doubt your carpeting will have any impact on your little one, except if they have allergies. Even then, its not the end of the world. We're opting for carpeting because we live above a garage and want to minimize noise, even though we know hardwood is "better". Plus, carpeting offers more insulation for regulating temperature and will be gentler on crawling baby's skin. In your case, less bumps and bloody noses too!
I would guess your mother just wants to sway your opinion to agree with her... and she's using unfair scare tactics to do it. Perhaps tell her that you appreciate her concern, but you are still getting carpeting. If the research was significant, no one would be getting new carpeting and anyone who did would have an autistic child. I'd say there would be way more support for that correlation then!
Since you've worked with autistic children, you probably know that while it isn't any parents' dream, it doesn't have to be a nightmare. Carpet or no carpet, you should try to see that fear in a different way. My husband went through a panic phase.. what if our baby is blind, deaf, deformed, autistic, etc. etc. Both our families also love to chime in with their helpful advice on how we can eat differently, live differently, and purchase things differently to ensure our baby is "perfect". They also have asked what we would "do" if it isn't. Of course I hope our baby doesn't have any problems, but I'm not afraid if it does. I've worked with children who have physical, mental, behavioral, and learning disabilities. If there is something "wrong" with my child, I know I can't blame the new carpeting or the soda I drank or the amount of light my belly was exposed to... I know I'll just have to accept it and move forward. Every child is perfect, because no child is perfect. Your perfect child will love falling softly on the carpet, using it as a landscape for toys, eventually staining it with spill and smudges, covering it with dirty laundry and junk... you may want to stock up on new carpeting for the future!!
He is just fine.
Maybe do a little research to ease your mind? Please, don't let your mom manipulate you like that.
Honestly, I would look into it if only to put your mind at rest as the other posts have suggested. other than that get the carpet you want.
We just got new carpet installed in our entire house...
I like wood floors, but not what dog nails do to them, and carpet is so much more comfy.
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