I think I know the answer, but I've got a mom in my ear whispering something else so I'd like an opinion besides my own. DS has been pushing his morning nap later (10:30-12:30ish), pushing his afternoon nap even further. I have to put him down at 4, hopefully he's asleep by 4:30, then I wake him at 5:30 so he doesn't sleep too late for bedtime at 8. In the past week or so I've had to rock him to sleep for some of those second naps because he just can't settle himself down.
I think it's time to drop to 1 nap. Occasionally we've had to do 1-a-day naps from about 1-3pm. It's hard, and he's super cranky before the nap and bedtime...but IMO if I'm having to rock him to sleep he just really doesn't need that nap that badly anymore. WTYT?
Re: time for 1 nap?
At near 18 mos, I would like my DD to go to one nap ... like you I am watching for her to sleep later ... but my DD still goes to sleep at 9:30 (1st nap). Any day now... I put DD down no later than 3:00 for a 2nd nap. She has a cold which I think is messing things up this week...
GL!
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That's exactly what was happening to us before we went to 1 nap. I would suggest moving the one nap earlier starting around 12 pm rather than 1 pm and also moving bedtime earlier to about 7pm.
Also, for about the first week she keep waking up after about only an hour into her one nap. For about a week I would rock her or rub her back to get her to go back to sleep and after that she would sleep for at least two hours.
12m is a bit early to drop to one nap, but not totally unheard of.
At 16m my LO was taking his am nap but outright refusing a pm one. We'd try rocking, etc for 30-45min and still nothing. That's when we started pushing the am one later and he started sleeping 2-3hrs midday. We've always rocked/nursed/etc LO to sleep though. Now H lays next to him and rubs his back.
I've read that if the baby sleeps for more than 30mins (without being disturbed lol) that indicates they still need that nap.