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RANT!!! WARNING!
Do I love my husband very much? yes. but he has been awful.
He has not once done anything I asked him to. I am sick as can be right now and I mentioned I felt my blood sugar was low and all he said was, well I don't know what you want me to do, I'm not driving you to town, you can drive yourself. AS IF I ASKED!!!! aggghhhhhh!
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Re: RANT!!! WARNING!
B born 7/15/13, C born 3/2/15, #3 on the way May '17
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Oh girl!!!! Been THERE! MY husband was a royal ass when I was in my first tri as well! He himself tends to be a bit of a drama queen ( he gets that from his mother) anyways....When I was sick and exhausted and working full time and asked him to pop a pizza in the oven it was like i was the worst wife in the world! Then when I was being put on meds for MS he ironically came down with something (never went to the Dr.) and said I had it easy!
They all go through crap phases but like mine I hope yours comes out of it.
Great blanket statement there!
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I unfortunately know what you mean. My husband has been great overall, but he'll get into these jerkish moods out of no where and piss me off.
I hate to admit it, but crying is the only thing that makes him stop. And I have never been much of a crier (before I was pregnant).
I seriously loathe this statement. Of course he doesn't understand. He will never have the chance to experience pregnancy. So to expect him to understand how you are feeling and what you are going through is ridiculous.
That being said, there is nothing wrong with you. You are pregnant, not dying. Cut him a break. I have had HG with both my pregnancies and still managed to do my fair share of keeping up with the house and now, our son. Even this time around I'm on bed rest and I still help out. He brings me the laundry in bed and I fold it so he can put it away, etc.