I have two dogs. My 8 yr boxer Torre(ok not really a puppy, but he acts like one) is completely untrustworthy. He has bit a vet in the past (5 years ago?), which I forgive him for because he had a terrible ear infection and must have been terrified, but he has also bit my hubby back when we first started dating (2 years ago?). Torre was sitting on a lounge chair in the backyard and when hubbs tried to move him, he went after him. Caught him right on the wrist pretty good. He has since been neutered because I thought he was having dominance/territorial issues. Now that I am married and living with my wonderful husband, Torre knows who is boss. He listens, and respects him and knows who the true "alpha-male" of the house is. Well next to me, because that dog has always respected me. We are still wary of him and don't trust him completely. He is also terrible with other dogs. Besides his brother of course, my fox terrier. The scariest part about him, is before both of his people bites, and run-ins with other dogs... he DOES NOT growl, show teeth, or any signs. So there is NO way to predict what he is going to do! I know he sounds like a demon dog... but he is really a sensitive mush who loves giving hugs and kisses. He is very loyal to me, and I always feel safe with him because I know he would eat someone haha (ok, not funny). I wish I could post a picture of him, because he has such a cute mushy boxer face. I don't really have it in my budget for dog training... he certainly needs more than obedience class. More like a complete physiological overhaul (like Cesar Milan)... and every penny needs to go towards the BABY... yes there is a BABY coming into the mix, and the more pregnant I get, the more nervous I get. No way in heck I would drop him off at a shelter, NO WAY! But honestly, what would you do? I'm sure my parents could keep him for a few months, but thats asking alot because they aren't really dog people. The safety and well being of this new baby is priority, but Torre was one of my first babies, so this is really hard. Only a true dog lover would understand
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While I may not be the best for advice, my dog is currently running the neighborhood with DH trying to find her. She is a pit mix and is very sweet but plays rough. She has only nipped people while playing, nothing I'd call a real bite but she does jump and get wild. I'm not a tiny person and she had knocked me on my a$$ playing in the yard. I read some articles online about bringing home a baby. Your dog needs to know that baby ranks higher in the pack. When you first introduce them have the baby in the house and then bring the dog in so it's the baby's home turf. Have the dog on a leash for all the initial meetings and if he acts at all strange walk him away from the baby. There's all kinds of other tips- check with Dr. Google. We will never give back our rescue so it will have to work, even if the dog gets more crate and yard time while LO is a baby. Good luck and I'm interested if you find out any good tips!
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I'm a huge dog lover but my baby comes first.
Well I would call a few private shelters in your area, many of them have specific trainers that they work with. They may be able to give you the number and you can talk to the trainer, sometimes they may even come out to you free of charge. (Generally if you have a good private shelter or rescue, they're going to help you the best they can so you do keep your dog, and they'll most likely be working with a trainer who feels the same)
They may suggest introducing him to other small children, in a controlled environment, to better gauge how he will react. Unfortunately all you can probably do is wait and see, I've seen dogs that are like this and sadly get worse and need to be re-homed but then again I've seen dogs who do a complete 180 when baby arrives.
I am also a dog lover (see siggy pic) and have 2 rescues along with my original Boston Terrier. My big dog is a great dane/boxer mix and he is the sweetest dog ever, however, he does have boxer tendencies. He "boxes" with his paws and has been known to knock people down when super excited and playing.
That said, as we get closer to delivery, I will be reading every resource I can find about introducing dogs to babies and suggest you do the same. We have a back-up plan if things do not work. My FIL has an 80 acre farm and would be fine taking on the big dog. So that is my suggestion, read and implement everything you can, have a back up plan, and never EVER leave the baby and boxer unsupervised.
Good luck!
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this, and you may want to invest in a crate ... It is a great training tool. My dog loves her crate.
Plus, never leave kids and animals unsupervised ... Even if they are generally good with kids. My baby niece bit my dog and the dog went nuts. Wile the dog was justified in her barking and nipping, it is still a dangous situation for everyone and one that can be easily avoided.
also,when they are older, never encourage rough play ... Even the best dogs accidentally hurt when playing rough.
Your furbaby sounds just like mine. I've been thinking a lot about how to make the transition from furbaby being the center of attention to bringing home a new baby.
I've been doing a lot of reading on what we can do to prepare our doggie for baby's arrival. If things don't go well with our own training, then we'll get a trainer to help us.
Good luck, I know exactly how you're feeling! Hopefully since we love our babies (fur and not) so much, it'll all work out.
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Read as much as possible on baby dog introductions and always remember A TIRED DOG IS A GOOD DOG. I have found with our furry kids that a good structured walk can be more tiring for them than an unstructured one. I have two huskies who have guarding issues, so I'm getting baby toys and putting them around the house and watching for guarding behavior. The trick is snapping them out of it before a fight happens. Huskies have been known to guard babies from the parents, so it's something I want to avoid.
They will NEVER be left alone with a child because it doesn't take much for them to start play and they can easily bruise me.
Good luck. Hope everything works out you still have 5/6 months till baby comes and that is a lot of time to train.
I would start a routine with him that you can keep even when the baby comes home. Rawhide at x time, Meal at x time, Walk or dog park at x time. This way he gets used to having attention at certain times.
I'd also start gently tugging on his ears and tail. Each time you tug, give him a little treat. This way he gets used to the idea of being pulled on. And believe me, my 17mo loves to poke and tug on our 2 Catahoulas. They just take it with a grain of salt and either roll over or move.
Also, when the baby is born, have your husband take home blankets and clothing that have touched the baby. Do this before the baby comes home. This way he is used to the smell.
And lastly, I'd get some gates or a crate. If any aggression is shown towards the baby, he needs to be crated or gated and know that it is unacceptable behavior. I know you mention you can't afford training, but perhaps you could talk to your local PetSmart or Animal Shelter. They may know of a place that offers discounted obedience training. I think it's really important in this situation. My best friend was nipped at as an infant and has a scar on his face from it. It can happen in an instant and be forever regretted.
I agree. This is definitely the first problem. Its a tough topic since it almost always ends up in a fight/argument. We both stand our ground firmly on whether he stays or goes. I was hoping if I make some headway with Torre's progress on my own, that hubby will be more on board.
Yes, he definitely doesn't like being moved or touched on certain parts of his body. When you start petting his hind quarters, his tail stops wagging and he becomes rigid. Not like he's going to attack, but he just doesn't like it. Belly rubs... now thats his favorite! Or when you pet that sweet spot and his leg thumps around like crazy! I am very worried about him though. He has dominace issues with other dogs of all shapes and sizes. Right now we are working on making him wait before walking through doors, making him sit before a treat, etc. As for being around kids... yes he has been around 7 year olds. He doesn't show much interest in them... just kind of sniffs them and goes on his merry way. He is a true boxer in the fact that he "boxes" with his paws when he plays with us sometimes so I don't know how to untrain that behavior. I know to never let a dog be unsupervised with a child. Even a trusted dog. I have to get him on a strict excersize regime, and possbily evaluated/trained by a trainer. I didn't want to put a lot of money into this, but it seems like the only option at this point. I also want to get a jump start on his progress without hubby (since he is set on him leaving anyway), so hopefully he will have more faith in the dog and be on board. We have a LONG journey ahead! Thanks for your response!
Good luck to you too!
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