I keep reading that I should be putting lo down 'drowsy but awake' so she learns to fall asleep by herself. Is anyone really doing this already? I feel like she's nowhere near being able to put herself to sleep yet. But maybe I'm wrong and I should try. I did try briefly this morning, since she goes down easiest for the morning nap - and she just started crying and it took 3 times as long to get her down. I wonder if other mom's are having success with this.
Btw, 'drowsy but awake' is what I've been for the past two months
Re: drowsy but awake
I made rachelmichelle1 my bitch.
We weren't doing it for a long time (like the first five weeks)--we were rocking her to sleep. But I hated doing that because I knew she needed to learn to go down on her own. Plus, I wanted to go to sleep too! So now I just put her down after nursing at night. She sometimes fusses and sometimes cries. I don't let her cry it out, necessarily, but I also don't go to her right away. I'll let her cry for about five minutes. If she doesn't quiet herself down or go to sleep, I'll pick her up and soothe her and then put her back down.
For middle of the night, she's very good at going right back to sleep. I nurse her and put her in her crib right away. She almost always falls immediately back to sleep.