I just wanted to say, that I have gained about 15-17lbs so far...
Every weight gain post I have seen so far has women posting about the fact that they have only gained 1-5lbs. I just wanted to put it out there that I'm kind of on the other end of the spectrum...and see if any other women have gained about the same as me. (I know every woman is different).
I was self-conscious about it and shocked when my doctor told me how much I'd gained at my 20 week appointment yesterday...I'm heavier than I've ever been and it was hard to swallow seeing that number on the scale.
BUT, hopefully I won't gain more than 15lbs for the rest of the pregnancy...
Anyone else in my boat??
Re: Another weight gain post...
Thank The Lord for this post. I thought for sure it would be another "only two lbs" post and almost didn't open it. I'm over it. I've been seeing this on Facebook too much. I have also gained 15+ lbs at 19 weeks. I actually had a hormonal meltdown after the last appt because I was afraid I was gaining too much. And no, not out of vanity reasons, out of "am I doing what's best for baby and my health reasons." I've talked to a lot of women since and hear that "we are all different." And will gain different. And that's okay. My docs aren't concerned and I was "normal weight" before.
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Loving this thread!
I had a check-up today at 17w3d and my weight was up 19lbs from my reported pre-pregnancy weight. It fluctuates a few pounds depending on the day and time and who knows what other factors. Anyway, like some PPs said, I had a meltdown at my last appointment about gaining too much weight. I brought it up and the midwife was basically just like everyone is different and said that I should try to eat better and exercise more. This time I didn't say anything and neither did the doctor, so I figure it must be fine. I've gained about 5lbs since my last appointment.
I'm over worrying about it. I've heard of plenty of other women who gain more at the beginning and less at the end of their pregnancies. I have been eating better and exercising more the past month, and I plan on doing even better in the new year.
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I am average height and weight and gained 50lbs last pregnancy. And then I had the baby and lost 50 lbs.
Seriously, don't try to restrict yourself to ensure you ONLY gain 15 more lbs in the next 5 months. The 2nd tri is when weight gain kicks in...just be healthy. And throw the scales out the window.
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I am on the same path. I am usually in the "normal weight" range for my height but I gained 12 lbs when I weighed myself last Saturday at 16 weeks. More than one person has said, wow, it's more "obvious" than I thought it would be. It's literally all in my belly, so it sticks out hugely... I only go into my office occasionally, so when people see me who haven't in a while, they are shocked at my protrusion! I expect to have gained another 2-3 lbs this weekend but am hoping it slows down a bit. My next appointment is just after Christmas, so I'll see if doc has anything to say about it...
I gained 38lbs with DS, but I was 6 years younger then, so I am hoping that I don't gain that much this time. It took me three years to lose the last 10 lbs...
I was technically over weight by a few pounds, and ended up LOSING weight during my first trimester, which was extremely frustrating for me, but my doctor and mother (RN) said that it is completely normal in your first.
I got down to 155 from 167 in my first trimester and then started putting on healthier weight in the right places around 13 weeks.
19 weeks now, and I'm 162! and I look totally different, my weight is proportionate (which is bizarre to me), except I am starting to grow out of my bras :P
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Thank you ladies for your input...I feel better hearing it!
I also wanted to add...(as I don't dare put up another weight gain post lol)..the fact that at my 12 week appointment I had a nurse midwife who is also a nutrition specialist and probably weighs 95lbs soaking wet. She was hyper-focused on nutrition and me NOT gaining more than 15lbs during pregnancy.
I'm 5'3" and I have a short torso, so in conjunction with my bloat, I started showing much earlier than many...and now my organs simply have no where to be so I'm compact but I'm packin' a hefty lookin' baby-carrier! Anyway, back to my 12 week appointment...she made me feel so weird and looked at my belly strange and asked how far along I actually was...(even though she knew). I told her that I hadn't been eating a lot/unhealthily and that I am fairly active and she proceeded to tell me that "I definitely need to be extremely careful during my pregnancy. That I should NOT gain more than 15 lbs. She went on and on about how I should really start working out more and it's a concern that my belly was so big so early.
Now, just so you are all aware, I started out pre-pregnancy around 135 (which admittedly is a little heavier than I like to be at 5'3") BUT..I had only gained 5 lbs at this appointment..so I was totally confused why she was talking to me like I had a serious weight issue and was at risk for gestational diabetes. I cried after my appointment and couldn't help felt like she robbed me of the excitement of my first real ultrasound/prenatal appointment with my husband because it was so overly focused on my "odd weight gain"...My husband was videotaping the ultrasound...and the whole time she's doing it, you can hear her saying "yeahhhh...I don't know!! so weird about your belly. I can't really explain it. I think you just need to eat healthier and work out more".
I was really upset about it.
At my 16 week appointment however, I had another midwife and I told her of my experience with her colleague and she was very compassionate and told me not to worry about a thing, that I am not trying to be a pregnant barbie...I'm making a child and she thinks I look great! That made it a little better.
People can be so damn insensitive.
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Wow. This floors me. I've NEVER heard that an average sized woman should only gain 15 lbs. Thats crazy! And to say your belly is abnormal? WTF!! I am short too and my organs have been protruding for quite some time. Everytime someone comments on the size of my belly I say, ummm, that's my organs!! And to say you need to work out cuz your belly is getting big??? You're f'ing pregnant!!!! Wow. Sorry you went thru this!