My 8 month old ebf is still up 2-4 times every night. He has randomly slept straight through a few times, so I know he can do it, but I don't know what to do to help make it happen, and in the meantime, I am so exhausted! Should I be giving him more solids throughout the day? Currently, I feed him 3 TB fruit/vegetables twice a day (he refuses to eat cereal). I don't know what to do.
Re: 8 month old ebf still won't sleep through the night - help!!!!
Well good to know I'm not alone. When he wakes up, it's not just fussing, it's full on crying until I go get him. I've tried waiting it out to see if he'll just go back to sleep, but it never works, he just gets louder. It's just frustrating b/c he did sleep through the night from 2 to 4 months old, then quit completely for the past 4 months, except for a few random nights. I keep waiting for us to be past it. And yes, he definitely wants to eat when he wakes up. My daughter slept through the night from like 7 weeks on. I guess I was spoiled with her. It's funny how babies can be SOOO different!
I could have written this post also. We tried CIO with check ins about a month ago and it got better for like 2 nights then it got worse and I gave up. I found that just getting up and nursing and back in bed in 10 min was better than letting him cry for 45-60 minutes.
I decided last night no nursing before midnight, just pacifier, then when I do nurse after midnight I will gradually shorten the nursing times. I am going to try to move the "no nurse before" time back every week or two. I know it was just coincidence but he was only up once last night.
Here is to hopefully another good night.
This is worded perfectly! I'd just like to add, that research has shown that there may be benefits to infants waking up in the night! Experts theorize that the light sleep actually allows the brain to continue to work in order to continue developing! So you might have a little genius on your hands! Try to keep that in mind while making your multiple trips to your LO's crib!
3 TB doesn't seem like very much for an 8 month old. Have you tried upping the quantity? DD is 6.5 months and is eating 5 TB at night and we're about to add in a morning feeding. I think by 8 months, alot of babies are eating 3 times a day, and eating finger foods as well. Good luck!
I forgot to add ... DD has STTN all of 2 times EVER, so I know how you feel. It's exhausting, but at this point there's not much we can do about it