1st Trimester
hoopduck
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Goodbye :(
hoopduck
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As much fun as I've had on this board, it will be hard to say goodbye. Stupid, worthless husk of my body has betrayed me yet again and left me with nothing. I was getting so excited to announce at Christmas, too. How I wish this pregnancy had stuck. I feel dead inside and very sad. I can't keep on this way I just can't do this anymore. 6 times is too many fricken times I am falling apart at the seams!
TTC since 2004,
Ectopic 2005, lost right tube.
Multiple miscarriages. Baby girl born June 2013.
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Re: Goodbye :(
ME - 31, DH - 40
Married 06/25/2011, TTC since 03/2012
BFP #1 on 11/13/12 -- EDD 7/24/13 -- M/C (CP) on 11/21/12
BFP #2 on 7/21/13 -- EDD 3/29/14 -- M/C (CP) on 7/31/13
09/4/13 - 4/16/14 -- IUI #1 - 6 = BFNs
7/13/14 -- IVF #1 w/ ICSI
ER on 7/26/14 -- 20 R, 15 M, 11 F
ET on 7/31/14 -- 1 transferred (4bb); 8 frosties!!!
BFP #3 on 8/8/14 -- EDD 04/18/15
BETA #1: 473, BETA #2: 1009, BETA #3: 1975
** It's a BOY!!! **
6 times? I hope you are getting yourself checked out to see if there is something that is causing all these miscarriages! Please, when you feel ready, get yourself checked out *before* you try to get pregnant again. And get a second opinion while you are at it.
I am very sorry that this has happened to you.
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I am so very sorry for your lose
you will be in my prayers
DS1 2-26-07
#4 Due May 2015
IT'S A BOY
I am so sorry for your loss. ((Hugs))
Are you shitting me! What a pompous tone to take. Do you really think your simple minded call for her to get herself checked *before* getting pregnant again is helpful? Are you just assuming she's never been checked out? She did lose one tube already and is likely under care. What an ass you are.
OP, I am so sorry for your losses and I hope that you are able to take some care of your feelings. I have never been in your position but my mom was and has talked to me about it. I was her last try. I hope you find comfort somehow.
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TTC Since Nov 2011
BFP: 11/24/11 EDD: 8/2/12 MMC:12/19/11 D&C: 1/10/12
BFP: 2/18/12 EDD: 11/2/12 Chemical Pregnancy
BFP: 10/23/12 Saw heartbeat: @8wks&10Wks / Heard HB: @15wks EDD: 7/2/13 *Stick Baby Stick*
EDD 07/29/2017
So here's the update : the bleeding has stopped, which I find very unusual. That has never happened before when I m/c. The ER doc has me coming back in on Monday for an ultrasound and more blood work. I have no idea what is going on but I hope that somehow my baby is still in there. There was so much blood I just automatically assumed m/c but damn it I hope I am mistaken! Apparently some women just get heavy bleeds during pregnancy which may be a threatened m/c or something else. He did say it could be a kind of uterus hemorrhage and I'm supposed to be on complete pelvic rest until further notice. No sex, no heavy lifting, pushing, or pulling, and no traveling. Monday!! Can't wait to figure this out because it's driving me crazy not knowing what's going on in there! Fingers crossed that this isn't a true m/c! o.O
You could very well still have a peanut in there! I had very heavy bleeding with DD around the 6 week mark. Bright red blood, filled 2 pads. Turns out I had a subchorionic hemorrhage, which resolved itself and the bleeding stopped. She was born healthy at 35 weeks (early but not related to the bleeding). Everything crossed and thoughts and prayers that it's something like that in your case. I don't "know" you but it sounds like you've been through so much. I really hope that this is your sticky rainbow baby!! Keep us posted!
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Agreed. OP, so sorry for your losses.