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husband wants it all the time

monita5133monita5133 member
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OK so I know some ladies would feel like this is blessing as their hubby's are either too scared that they might hurt their pregnant wife or they just aren't interested. Not to complain but I have the exact opposite problem. I want nothing to do with sex or anything else and that's all he thinks about. I am very lucky that he finds me absolutley beautiful but I sheesh at 33/3 days I don't want to! Period, end of story.

 

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    143BabyCakes143BabyCakes member
    Yeah, you suck Wink



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    Randa&JermRanda&Jerm member
    I hear you!  I am in the same boat, only that I have been like this pretty much my entire pregnancy and I think DH has pretty much given up.  I really feel bad and then even worse when I  realize that even AFTER baby is born we won't be able to do it at all for the 4-6 weeks after.  Poor guy!
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    burgergirl13burgergirl13
    If I could have it twice a day, everyday, forever, I think I might be satisfied. I get it about every 3 days, def not enough.
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    meganthechefmeganthechef
    I'm in the same boat. I'm glad my husband is still attracted to me but please give me a break.
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    marlee323marlee323 member
    you suck. lol. consider yourself lucky, I wish my husband wanted it all the time.
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    ChocodoxiesChocodoxies member
    When I was pregnant with DD, my husband was down at all hours. He may have gotten sex perhaps three times that entire pregnancy. It's not that I don't love him, or that I am just mean, but I am SO not in the mood. I was throwing up the 1st tri, exhausted the 2nd, and huge and uncomfortable the 3rd. I feel exactly the same with this LO and thankfully he just laughs and says "this isn't my first rodeo". 
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    monita5133monita5133 member
    Trust me I know I am lucky but I don't feel like having sex every day. I can barely keep my eyes open at work so by the time I get home I just want to put on my comfy clothes and chill out. I haven't really had my normal sex drive the entire time I've been pregnant, I don't even think about it.
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    If I could have it twice a day, everyday, forever, I think I might be satisfied. I get it about every 3 days, def not enough.

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    ExcitedAunt2bExcitedAunt2b member

    I haven't had it since I was about 22 weeks....I would kill for 1 day a week right now.

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    gladygirlcagladygirlca member
    I am not coordinated or lubricated enough to indulge my husband.  I have bad carpal tunnel in my wrists so I can't support my own weight or use my hands.  It's like a bad comedy routine.  He's actually been flirty, but forgiving which I'm grateful for.  I wish he was like that when I wasn't pregnant. ^_^  No one can go ALL the time.

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    atrinh11atrinh11 member
    I also have ZERO sex drive. I can't believe there are pregnant women out there that are actually interested in sex. My husband is being super supportive, and actually stopped trying a couple months ago, which I really appreciate. It's the last thing I need on my "to-do" list.
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    mejane123mejane123 member

    My sex drive has come and gone sporadically throughout this whole pregnancy.  It's hard because DH seems like he's recently been avoiding it because he feels like he's going to hurt the baby.  Plus, like PP said, it gets a little painful at times.  I've been hurting so much lately, so it's tough to find the right positions.  We can't do him on top, I get tired out if I'm on top, doggie style makes me feel floppy, so the only thing left is him standing and me at the edge of the bed.  And even then it's awkward because it's hard for me to bend my legs up, and it hurts to leave them just hanging.  

    I'm just so nervous for after I give birth because I know once I heal it's going to be different down there, and I'm scared he'll be weirded out because I won't feel like "me" anymore, so I feel like we should get in as much time now as we can.  I also get nervous because I wonder if he's not trying to do me because he thinks I won't want to.  But I guess I could just ask him about that, huh? 

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    littlemac1117littlemac1117 member
    My sex drive is sooo gone. Between my back and hip pain, my swollen ladyparts (sorry guys, tmi) and being super-duper itchy all over my body all the time, I just have zero desire. I am, however, excited to get back into the swing of things after this baby comes. Oh yeah, and its really hard to stay in the mood when I'm being kicked in the ribs or having my bladder head-butted. My poor husband... :(
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    imagemarlee323:
    you suck. lol. consider yourself lucky, I wish my husband wanted it all the time.

    Agreed

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    velazquezk1velazquezk1 member
    Husband wants it here. All day. Everyday. And he was such a Jackwagon at first about it and he's became more understanding. We had an agreement before I got pregnant we would love on each other 2x a week. And now he settles for 1x a week and a blow job or two.

    I try to explain to him he's going to go 6 weeks minimum without a piece. I don't think he knows how long 6 weeks is.
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    imagemeganthechef:
    I'm in the same boat. I'm glad my husband is still attracted to me but please give me a break.

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    MonicaClaire13MonicaClaire13 member

    Yeeeah, i could use a week off lol

    My problem is, when I want it, he's either not here or PASSED OUT snoring, or doing something else

    And when he wants it I'm usually tired or sick or not in the mood

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    StillharborStillharbor member
    Just joking, but wanna trade husbands?  I would love to have sex all the time and hubby is having difficulties.  It's been like 2 months and he's actually gone to the doctor b/c he thinks something is wrong.  Doc says he's fine. It's in his head.  Grrrrr.
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    kateraidkateraid member
    My hubby is all for it too but we get close and can't find positioning and the baby starts moving and it all just weirds me out.  I feel his head moving so low that it makes me nervous and random bouts of lightening crotch don't help.  Thankfully DH settles for alternatives.
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    monita5133monita5133 member

    imageStillharbor:
    Just joking, but wanna trade husbands?  I would love to have sex all the time and hubby is having difficulties.  It's been like 2 months and he's actually gone to the doctor b/c he thinks something is wrong.  Doc says he's fine. It's in his head.  Grrrrr.

     

    Hahahaha I wish!

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