ok so DD isn't even 3 weeks old so I might be speaking too soon, but the stitches I have burn EVERY time I pee. The actual stitches dissolved around 1 week PP but the site is what is hurting. Also each time I have a BM it is extremely painful. I will try using a stool softener, but all of this has made me dread using the restroom.
Sorry for the TMI, again!
Re: "down there" care (TMI)
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It takes time to heal. Are you using the squirt bottle? Trying squirting it while you pee to help with the pain. People suggest sitz bath and I used it. I felt it help keep things cleaner (even with daily showers) but it hurt sitting there too long.
Definitely use a stool softener. I felt that part was worse than the rips healing.
Just take it easy and make sure you rest. I did a little more than I should have but felt better when I rested more.
And if you feel off call the doctor. That is what they are paid for.
I think i took the stool softeners for a month. I remember dreading going to the bathroom, it should start feeling better soon.