My DS is 31weeks, and has only gone a few hours here and there away from DH or myself. Our work schedules make it so that DH is home in the morning and I am home in the afternoon and evening.
Lately, I cannot put DS down or leave the room without him crying. Even if he is sitting on DH's lap. DH thinks that I hold him all the time, which I don't. I do hold him more than DH does. We play together where I'm close, but not holding him, and DH does too. DS is always near us, even if not being held.
I guess I'm just not sure how to handle this. Is it a phase?
I've been wondering if maybe wearing him while I'm home again may be a possible solution
Any ideas?
Re: Mom=pacifier
Yep it is normal and wearing him around will definitely help!
As for 'holding him too much' you can't hold a baby too much, it can be tough if you need to do stuff; but it will help him ease into independence and as he gets older you can ask him to wait (not for very long!)
Good Luck
Little Rose is 2 1/2.
This! It's a phase and as he gets moving he'll ease up. For me the bumpo seat came in handy, I could sit him up where he could see me if I needed to do dishes etc and he would be okay with not being held and didn't feel alone.